Should I Delete That?

It’s time to get topical! The highly anticipated Wicked film came out this week and guess what… we weren’t invited to the premiere (unlike the rest of Instagram!) We also get serious about the body shaming we’ve seen in the media around Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo. Why do people feel like it’s okay to talk about their bodies and why are we so reductive when it comes to women?We also discuss camel anatomy, I’m A Celeb and the love of Em’s life… Hugh Jackman. Have you ever been so hungry you’ve eaten a glass Christmas decoration? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com!Follow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Payzee Mahmod is an activist, campaigner and public speaker who advocates for women and children’s rights. She is campaigner at the KWRO women’s rights organisation and an Obama Leader.She tells us the incredibly moving story of how she became a victim of child marriage at the age of sixteen. After her sister Banaz was murdered in of an ‘honour’ killing - Payzee bravely left her marriage and started a new life. She now campaigns for women and girls around the world - working to end harmful practices including child marriage and female genital mutilation. Payzee tells us about the successful campaign to criminalise child marriage in the UK, what it was like to see her sister’s story told in an ITV drama and her journey to healing. As a content warning, this episode contains some content some people may find distressing - including discussion of violence against women and murder. IKROW is a charity supporting women & girls in the UK at risk of ‘honour’ based abuse, domestic violence, FGM and forced marriage. You can find more information about their work here.Follow @IKROW on Instagram Follow @PayzeeMalika on Instagram Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re feeling *tousled* for today’s Is It Just Me!Join Em and Al for a mini spelling bee and a *very* high-brow discussion about Naked Attraction and the Netflix show that everyone is talking about… Rivals. Is the world ready for a David Tennant sex scene? And do we all have a crush on Danny Dyer now?The email inbox has provided us with some incredibly embarrassing awkward from you guys. Have you had the most awkward day of your life? Tell us about it on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com! Follow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever heard a non-confrontational confrontation with a Just Stop Oil activist? Today we’re speaking to Gill Tavner. She’s a Just Stop Oil campaigner - but perhaps doesn’t fit the image that the media might paint you of one. Gill was one of the warmest and most lovely people that we’ve spoken to on the podcast. She also has a criminal conviction - for walking in the road as part of a Just Stop Oil slow march. She tells us how her activism was inspired by increasing desperation and anger about her daughters’ futures and she explains in simple, accessible and clear terms what Just Stop Oil is demanding - and it might not be as extreme as you think. We know that climate anxiety is a real thing - and we know sometimes it can be easy to avoid difficult conversations about climate change. But Gill makes the conversation digestible and understandable - and she might just make you want to take action. You can read about Just Stop Oil’s campaign to end fossil fuels by 2030 here - https://juststopoil.org/ Follow @just.stopoil on InstagramFollow @gilltavner on XEmail us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s time for some listener lols! We’ve got LOADS of your awkwards for you this week - and boy, are they awkward… We’re asking what’s worse - walking in on your friends having sex or reading their dirty texts? Em has a very strong case to make thanks some *very* awkward personal experiences. We also have a cringe sauna incident to tell you about… and Em spills the beans on what happened when she got the call from Love Island. And guess what... Alex has some huge news - she’s made a friend! If you have an awkward for us - email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com! Follow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Even though we have babies - it turns out, we don’t know *that* much about giving birth. So, today on the podcast - we’re talking to Mamadinya… the internet’s favourite’s midwife. Mamadinya came to the studio to answer everything you’ve always wanted to ask a midwife. What happens if you poo in a birthing pool? If you want to take your placenta home - do they give it to you in a bag? What happens during birth if you have hemorrhoids? Whether you have kids, want kids, are unsure, or if you're certain they're not for you - Mamadinya throws open the door onto something that most of us probably should know more about. If you're curious about life - this episode is for you.Follow Mamadinya on Instagram @MamadinyaFollow Mamadinya on TikTok @MamadinyaYou can find out more about Mama’s Classes here: https://www.mamasclasses.com/ Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As you all know - we’ve got no HR department… which is why today we’re doing a live exit interview with the legendary Daisy Grant!Daisy has left the team after two and a half years, she’s moved to Wales to live an idyllic life with her fiance, who you all know, is also called Daisy. She’s been here since the beginning, so today we say an emotional goodbye and we remember some of our favourite moments together - and we look forward to the future of the podcast with our expanded team. Listen to Doing The MAFS with Daisy and Daisy here!Do you have an Is It Just Me for us? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com! Follow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s one of those episodes where we dive into a TikTok curiosity hole - and we end up learning something quite profound on the way. It turns out cleaning is about a lot more than just mess...Today, we’re speaking to Vicki - who is a biohazard cleaning specialist. You might know her from her TikTok videos - where she shows us what she does for a living - cleaning hoarder houses, crime scenes and anything which involves bodily fluids.We explore the mental health reasons why someone might become a hoarder, how Vicki copes with the mental strain of her job - and why she choses to use her TikTok income to finance free cleans for those in need. Follow Vicki on TikTok @pocketrocketscleaningYou can find out more about Vicki’s company - Pocket Rockets Cleaning Rescue on their website: https://www.pocketrocketcleaningrescue.co.uk/ Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's been a very big week on the internet - so we're bringing you a topical episode to reflect on three topics that have felt particularly important for us. Firstly - take a look at the internet's reaction to the tragic news of Liam Payne's death. The noise on the internet around this topic has felt extraordinarily loud this week - so we discuss the cycle of trolling and tragedy that we have seen play out so many times and how we're feeling about it. Then, it's time to go back in time because the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show is back. Have we just taken a massive step back in terms of our collective relationship with body image, or is this a reinvention that was desperately needed? And talking about society's obsession with thinness - we also chat about the government's conversation about Ozempic as a tool to get people back into the workforce. In the new year, we will be releasing a series on the podcast dissecting our relationship with body image. If there's something you want us to cover or is if there something you want to tell us: you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com! Follow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We have our first Dame on the podcast! The incredible Dame Kelly Holmes joins Em and Alex this week for a honest and vulnerable chat about mental health, motivation and ageing.Dame Kelly tells us about how her incredible story started when a PE teacher told her she could be good at something - and then, how watching the Olympics inspired a twenty-year long dream of becoming Olympic Champion. She tells us how she became a world class athlete whilst serving in the Army - and how she defied those who wrote her off because of her age to achieve her dreams, and then why she chose to speak out about the mental health struggles she dealt with during her career. Where does she find her motivation? How do athletes deal with being put on a pedestal? And more importantly…. how do you ACTUALLY get into the Olympics?Thanks so much to Ancient + Brave for facilitating this interview and sponsoring this episode. Ancient + Brave is a wellness brand that’s all about supporting your health goals, whether it’s improving your sleep, managing stress or boosting your energy. Ancient + Brave is one of the top-scoring B Corps in the world, and they donate to 1% for the Planet. That means every purchase you make is helping to support both your health and the environment. Follow Dame Kelly on Instagram @damekellyholmesFind out more about work of the Dame Kelly Holmes Trust here!Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week - Alex has a fresh batch of beef with TikTok for uniniviting her to an event (AGAIN) - so we’ve decided to spill the tea on influencer events... is it all just posing for pics and not speaking to each other? Em tells us the story of a rental handbag that came with a little extra suprise… and we’re also asking why people at weddings won’t explain the economy to us - and why can't they just print more money? If you have an Is It Just Me for us - email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com! Follow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Six years ago, Helen Addis (aka The Titty Gritty) found a lump. Despite having no history of cancer in her family - it was an aggressive form of breast cancer. A week after her diagnosis - she had a masectomy, followed by 18 months of active treatment. Being well under the screening age, the only person who would have found Helen’s cancer - was Helen. During her treatment, Helen asked her friends and family if they checked their boobs - and when most of them said no - she made it her mission to spread awareness about checking your breasts. So, she launched the Change+Check campaign - it is a simple sticker which goes on shop and gym changing room mirrors reminding people to check themselves for signs of breast cancer. She also almost got the queen with a pair of boobs on a Royal Mail stamp…This Breast Cancer Awareness month - Helen is part of a campign to make a life-extending drug called ENHERTU available in England, Wales and Northen Ireland. Despite petitions, protests, campaigns and even government pressure the secondary breast cancer community is being met with constant rejection. They are now fundrasing to raise the legal fees to take legal proceedings to continue the fight for those who need this drug urgently and for the thousands upon thousands who will need it in months and years to come. You can read more about the campaign - and donate hereYou can stream and buy Love Is All Around with Marti Pellow and The Change+Check Choir here!Follow Helen on Instagram @thetittygrittyEmail us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s podcast we have a live unboxing… is this the beginning of our new career as ASMR-tists? Alex also has a theory about drinking water… is it all just a conspiracy? We also take a mildly horrifying look at our average step counts and we delve into the world of rejection therapy. Em’s also had a DM saying that everything was better in our grandparents’ days. Could that possibly true and would we survive in a world without tuna baguettes? If you have an Is It Just Me for us - email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com! Follow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you’re dating, if you’re dealing with a difficult break up or if you just need a postive spin on a tough situation - this is the episode for you. The brilliant life coach, activist and author Michelle Elman joins Em and Alex in the studio today - to speak candidly about her engagement ending earlier this year, and how she’s thrived in the subsequent months. One Instagram DM completely changed the course of Michelle's life - but she tells us why she chose forgiveness, why she started sharing that she was dating this summer, and how that has helped her to heal. Follow Michelle on Instagram @michelleelmanMichelle’s podcast In All Honesty is available on all podcast platformsYou can get your copy of Michelle’s book The Selfish Romantic here and you can pre-order Bad Friend now!Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sooooo, we got stood up by a guest. Will it lead to a negative thought spiral? We’re about to find out! Em has a cringe wedding-related IIJM for us and we also attempt to unpack why pregnant women who cheat on their partners are treated differently to men who chat on their pregnant partners.Meanwhile - we’re back on the Housewives… and we find out about Em’s longest relationship… with a man called Gary.  If you have any thoughts, feelings, suggestions or people who you are desperate for us to talk to for our upcoming series on diet culture - email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com! Follow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alex is away this week - so Em has invited life coach, author, columnist and friend of the podcast Jacqueline Hurst into the studio for a bit of a therapy session... and we think it's well needed! Jacqueline shares some of her practical steps and ways in which we can change our thought patterns when we are entering a negative thought spiral. She also answers some of your questions about self-worth and feeling like we are a burden to others.For more of Jacqueline’s wisdom, you can follow her on Instagram @jacqueline_hurst_You can get your copy Jacqueline's book How To Do You here!And find out more about The Life Class hereEmail us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comFollow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Get ready to be fired up because today we’re bringing you an accidentally ragey episode - it's time to read the Daily Mail Showbiz section together… We’re also asking if pregnant women should be showing off their bumps more in public, and whether you can be friends with someone you disagree with politically. Do you have an Is It Just Me for us? Email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com!Follow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That? is produced by Faye Lawrence Music by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: sexual assault, rape, suicideThis week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Gemma Morgan. When Gemma joined the Army, she discovered very quickly how she had to behave as a woman to get by: prove your strength by pushing yourself harder than you ever thought possible, but ensure you act small enough so you don't step on the toes of your male counterparts. This balancing act proved near impossible under the weight of oppressive misogyny deeply entrenched within the structure of the British Armed Forces, where razors were supplied for men to shape their facial hair while sanitary products for her and others that needed them weren't even a consideration. Gemma's Army career didn't go to plan, with trauma, abuse and PTSD all featuring in her story. She explains how she went from outstanding soldier to suffering a near-fatal mental health crisis, and why she is now demanding change. Gemma found help and hope, and wants to show others that they can too.If you have been affected by any topics in this episode, or you want to talk to someone, you can call the Samaritans free, anytime, at 116 123If you are a member of the Armed Forces community and you need help, you can call Help For Heroes weekdays 9-5 on 0300 303 9888 you can also submit a form anytime at https://www.helpforheroes.org.uk/application/You can buy Gemma's book, Pink Camouflage, here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Pink-Camouflage-soldiers-resilience-leadership/dp/1804251232Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss some hilarious awkwards one unfortunate listener has sent in, whether you should declare the state of your bumhole when you get a wax and how to know if your husband's having an affair with a peach...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It is a HUGE day for the podcast... the girls are joined by Em's hero: Marian Keyes! A woman who needs little introduction, Marian is one of the most successful Irish novelists of all time. She released her debut novel, Watermelon, almost thirty years ago, after embarking on a journey of recovery from alcoholism. She tells the girls how becoming sober helped give her the sense of hope she needed to start writing a novel. She also discusses families, life, and the menopause in this fascinating interview. They say don't meet your heroes, but Em is overjoyed that she did!You can buy any of Marian's books from her website here: https://www.mariankeyes.com/books/ And listen to her podcast, Now You're Asking, with Tara FlynnFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss drug smugglers, feeling nostalgia and the new potential smoking ban...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's episode, Em and Alex are joined by racing driver, Abbi Pulling. Avid listeners will know how obsessed the girls are with Formula One, so getting Abbi on the pod was a massively exciting day! Abbi talks the girls through her career, the importance of the F1 Academy and how she avoids feeling afraid. She even offers to take a reluctant Alex (Safety Susan according to Em) for a spin!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss imaginary children, failed petitions and the world's most famous women...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's episode, Em and Alex are joined by influencer, writer and former model Ruth Crilly! Ruth has written a new book called How Not to be a Supermodel, all about her noughties escapades and modelling career. She shares her most glamorous and unglamorous moments, how her body image was impacted by her career and why she didn't make it to supermodel status.Follow Ruth on Instagram @ruthcrilly and buy her new book How Not to be a Supermodel here: https://geni.us/hownottobeasupermodelFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss the backlash to their episode on Blake Lively, what it means to be brat, and that time that Alex got arrested...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's episode, Em and Alex are joined by cyberpsychologist Dr Elaine Kasket! After discussing the uptake in consistent negativity and hate online, the girls decided they wanted to talk to an expert about what was happening. Elaine's expertise, however, ended up pointing them in an unexpected direction. She shares her thoughts on restricting screen time, limiting social media and online vitriol. The answers may look a little different to what you thought...You can get Dr Elaine Kasket's book, RESET: Rethinking Your Digital World for a Happier Life, here: https://eandtbooks.com/books/reset/Vote for us in the British Podcast Awards Listener's Choice category here: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/votingFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's episode, the girls take a deep dive into the current viral takedown of Blake Lively. They discuss why she is being cancelled, whether she should be and what this means for women in the public eye...Vote for us in the British Podcast Awards Listener's Choice category here: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/votingFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em and Alex are joined by founder of Motherkind, Zoe Blaskey! After a rollercoaster of an email from a listener last week, the girls were feeling a bit deflated. It was beginning to feel like there wasn't enough space to be open about the realities of motherhood, and that it wasn't clear to listeners how happy they were despite finding things hard. This is where Zoe came in to clear things up. Zoe is on a mission to help mothers shift from guilt, exhaustion and comparison to confidence and empowerment. She explains why a mother's instinct isn't innate, what matrescence is and why you shouldn't tell mothers that they will get back to their "old self". This enlightening conversation is for mothers, future mothers, those questioning whether they want to be mothers and those who have decided against parenthood all together!Follow Zoe @zoeblaskey on InstagramBuy Zoe's new book Motherkind here: https://beacons.ai/zoeblaskeyVote for us in the British Podcast Awards Listener's Choice category here: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/votingFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex tackle a triggering rollercoaster of a listener email, share some hilarious embarrassing stories and discuss their favourite podcast at the moment...Vote for us in the British Podcast Awards Listener's Choice category here: https://www.britishpodcastawards.com/votingFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's podcast, Em and Alex are joined by writer and influencer Callie Thorpe. Callie's content focusses on travel and wellbeing, but it didn't start out this way. Callie is plus-size, and over the years has been scrutinised for her appearance: namely over a 'controversial' Cosmopolitan magazine cover where she was featured. Callie talks about recovering from the backlash of the cover, the fear of letting women down by stepping out of the limelight and how she rebuilt her confidence, brick by brick. Callie explains how she rediscovered herself by living a joyful existence, and why she wants to share this joy online.Follow Callie on Instagram @calliethorpeJoin Callie's newsletter, Just Good Things, here: https://calliethorpe.substack.com/Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Alex and Em chat about parasocial relationships, new fears being unlocked and the lack of empathy on the internet...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's podcast, Em and Alex are joined by journalist, podcast host and stripper, Heidi Holland! Heidi quit her 9-5 to dance in strip clubs and is ready to spill the tea in this episode! She shares her thoughts on the term sex worker, why she's not afraid to take her top off and why she finds being called "sexy" boring. She also dives into what drives men in particular to visit strip clubs, including their desire to open up to someone or become a hero. Alex and Em fired as many thoughts as they could at Heidi, about sex trafficking, her relationship with women and how much money she makes. but with so many more burning questions, stay tuned for a part two!Follow Heidi's work on Instagram @sexonomic.pod and listen to Sexonomic here: https://taplink.cc/sexonomicFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: sexual abuse, child sexual abuseIn this week's IIJM, Alex and Em chat about letting go of control, managing anxiety and the double standards at the Olympics...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by the hosts of the Mixed Up podcast, Emma Slade Edmondson and Nicole Ocran! Nicole and Emma met back in 2018 and when they started chatting, they realised they had something in common that they hadn't spoken about in depth with even their family before: being mixed-race. After jokingly suggesting that their discussion should be a podcast, they launched the critically acclaimed Mixed Up podcast and have now written a book called The Half of It. In this episode, they discuss the ways in which being mixed-race is misunderstood, why many mixed-race people feel as though they can't comment on race issues, and why no one really discussed identity when they were younger. They also chat about privilege, the complex history of mixed-race people and the stereotypes that are pushed upon them.Follow Emma on Instagram @emsladedmondson, Nicole @nicoleocran and the Mixed Up podcast @mixedup.podcastListen to Mixed Up and order Emma and Nicole's book The Half of It here: https://msha.ke/mixedupFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex join us from their new studio to discuss Em's birthday party, why they might have to swap husbands and the surprising bonus of wearing a thong...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's episode, the girls are in their brand new studio ready to discuss what's been happening with Em over the past few months. She's been growing another baby! As you are probably aware from her last pregnancy, Em suffers with hyperemesis gravidarum (HG), a debilitating, chronic condition caused by a reaction to a particular pregnancy hormone which causes severe nausea, vomiting and dehydration and, in Em's case, can last an entire pregnancy. Em details her experience with HG, the internet's reaction to her announcement and the inevitable, horrendous trolls that emerge when she chose to be vulnerable. To top off the conversation, Em shares the awkward to end all awkwards that she's been holding on to for well over a week now...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss putting your seat back on a flight, how to confront your friends and Dave's new online career...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by OG influencer Lorna Luxe! Lorna's reign on Instagram has long been symbolised by aesthetic perfection, which, as she explains in this conversation, ultimately stems from addictive tendencies. Lorna started as an air hostess, but as her eating disorder began to take over,her ability to work was impacted. Losing the job that was her whole identity meant she had to work out another way to find herself. Lorna talks us through this journey to recovery, all things beauty, ageism, the choice to be child-free and her relationship with Mr Luxe!Follow Lorna on Instagram @lornaluxeFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss separating the art from the artist, staying "natural" and the response to Emma Raducanu's recent dropout...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by journalist Billie Bhatia! Back in February, the Sunday Times published an article written by Billie all about her desire to lose weight and the difficulties she has faced in the process. The girls wanted to talk to Billie and confront their own conflicting feelings and values as they are immersed in an online culture where self acceptance is key. The fear around publishing this episode is that it could trigger listeners, and despite it being purposefully confronting, if you feel the need to skip this episode, do what you need to do! This conversation dives deep into the thin ideal, the fear we have around calories, what it means to be happy and why, exactly, does Billie have the right to lose weight?Follow Billie on Instagram @billie_bhatiaListen to Billie and Sasha Pallari's podcast, Spill, here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/spill/id1745067669Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss today's election, growing older and whether retinol is worth it...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by iconic casting director, Kelly Valentine Hendry! Kelly has cast for, as Alex put it, a shit tonne of stuff, including: Bridgerton, Fleabag, Broadchurch and even High School Musical! Kelly talks the girls through the casting process, how she is planning to make the acting world more inclusive and what it means to be the 'Bridgerton type'. They also discuss the reaction to Nicola Coughlan's infamous Bridgerton sex scene and why we have a long way to go with body diversity on our screens. The girls are obsessed with this peek behind the curtain and they hope you are too!Follow Kelly's work on Instagram @kvhcastingFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex discuss all the cringy things you've all done to impress a crush, the dangers of LinkedIn and the hen parties the girls are organising...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today’s episode, Em and Alex are joined by model, motivational speaker and content creator Sian Green-Lord. Sian and Em have paired up with ASICS for their latest campaign, 15 Minute Weight Loss, to remind people of the importance of exercise for their mental health. In 2013, Sian underwent a leg amputation after an accident on holiday. Sian shares how the accident affected her life, her body and her mental health. Sian found that exercise did wonders for her mind, and after feeling like an outsider and an imposter at the gym, she quickly focussed on how much her body was capable of doing. Sian went from hiding herself to proudly displaying her prosthetic leg. The girls even set you some homework at the start of this episode… Follow Sian on Instagram @sianlord_Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by world record holder Imogen Boddy! Imogen tackled the 3 Peaks Challenge, but not only that, she ran between every climb and became the fast woman to ever complete it. Over the gruelling six days, five hours and forty-three minutes, Imogen had to combat exhaustion, extreme sleep deprivation and unbelievable swelling. She shares what inspired her to give it a go, and how exactly she managed it.Follow Imogen on Instagram @imoboddyFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss concerts, saggy boobs and girl code hypotheticals...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week the girls answer your burning questions in an episode they had to re-record after, in true SIDT fashion, deleting the first draft!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss adults peeing the bed, replying to DMs, and how best to get Em more organised...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Chessie King. A few months ago, Chessie shared that her marriage to her husband Mat wasn't all it seemed. Behind closed doors, they'd been struggling, and even contemplating divorce. Once they finally confronted one another though, they decided to build up their relationship, brick by brick, all on the foundations of having fun. Chessie also shares details of Mat's postnatal depression, something that isn't discussed enough in men. Follow Chessie on Instagram @chessiekingFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls sift through their junk mail and find your lost messages! Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Kim, a traditional surrogate who is known online as the Travelling Surrogate. Kim shares her story, which includes two surrogacy journeys thus far, and answers all of the girls' burning questions about the incredible life of a surrogate.You can follow Kim on Instagram @thetravellingsurrogatePurchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex come to you from backstage discuss Al's hand eye coordination, the phrase bum fun and why being a stand up comedian is the bravest job ever...Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by none other than AL'S MUM! First off, the girls record their GBA from backstage ON TOUR, BABY! Norma and the girls dive deep into her experience of early motherhood, and how she handled 5 girls under 6! They cover it all, from shame and guilt to the freedom and joy of motherhood. This episode is an insight into how to help those who may be struggling in those early days, and if you can relate yourself, see this as a big, warm hug from the gorgeous Norma.Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em and Alex chat tradwives, double-taps on Insta DMs and the death of cancel culture...Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Scummy Mummy Helen Thorn! Helen had been with her husband for over twenty years when out of the blue, she discovered he'd been having an affair. It was at the start of the pandemic when her life was thrown into chaos and she began her life as a single parent. Helen shares how she harnessed the earth-shattering news to carve out a better life for herself.You can follow Helen on Instagram @itsmehelenthornPurchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Get ready for whiplash... the Is It Just Me's are returning! We heard you, and we listened! Please enjoy this silly episode with chats about penis museums, Snow White and fake bellybuttons. Enjoy! Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Farah Benis, founder of Catcalls of London, a campaign which raises awareness and amplifies stories of public sexual harassment. Following the internet's recent obsession with the man vs bear debate, Farah and the girls delve into one big question: is misogyny worse now than ever?Follow @catcallsofldn on InstagramYou can check out Farah's online store here: www.houseoftomfoolery.com 60% of all profits from "Lonely Old Slag" products will be donated to RefugePurchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's Thursday ep, the girls gather your responses to last week's episode and discuss Monday's Met Gala looks.Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by writer Beth Ashley. They delve into the origins of slutshaming: where it comes from, why we do it and how we should fight it.Follow Beth on Instagram @bethashleywriterYou can order Beth's book Sluts here https://www.penguin.co.uk/authors/301813/beth-ashleyPurchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's Thursday ep, the girls discuss the resurgence of skinny culture. They dive into the responsibility of body confidence advocates, whether diet culture is being hidden under the guise of health and if Alex and Em have the right to lose weight and talk about it.Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by writer Ellen Atlanta. They delve into the desire to be beautiful and explore how current toxic beauty standards affect women today.Follow Ellen on Instagram @ellenatlantaYou can pre-order Pixel Flesh here: https://geni.us/PixelFleshPurchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's bonus episode, Em details her experience of running the London Marathon, and ABSOLUTELY SMASHING IT!Support Em's crowdfunder for The 18 Keys Project here: https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/em-clarkson-1Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by a real-life Magic Mike... Jake Brewer! Jake has been a member of the MAGIC MIKE LIVE cast since it first premiered on the London stage. Jake shares his thoughts on body image, the pressures of his role and why he very nearly declined the Magic Mike audition.Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM the girls talk nuggets, moral quandaries and Bridget Jones...Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Bryony Gordon! Bryony was a guest on the podcast way back in its early days and she is back to tell the girls all about her new book, Mad Woman. Detailing her experience of various mental health illnesses, Bryony shares how she navigates a world that doesn't encourage self acceptance.You can purchase Bryony's book Mad Woman hereYou can follow Bryony on Instagram @bryonygordonPurchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM the girls break down Karma, Jojo Siwa's brand new single, and all of the backlash that she has faced because of it...Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Thank God Jacq is back! The girls have been going through it and NEEDED life coach and #1 selling author Jaqueline Hurst back on the pod. Jacqueline talks about the power of choice, tackling feelings of overwhelm and how good enough, is good enough.Visit Jacqueline's website here jacquelinehurst.comPurchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Silly Goose ProductionsMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM the girls talk poached eggs, marriage and Elvis...Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by artist Sophie Tea! Sophie's career began 10 years ago, she was backpacking and ran out of money so offered painting services to a hostel in order to cover her stay. This flipped a switch for her: she left her job back home and decided that she was going to pursue a career in art. Sophie shares her journey from having her bank card declined at the post office to having her work in the National Portrait Gallery. Her main inspiration is women and their power, and she wants to share the magic that happens when women come together.Follow Sophie on Instagram @sophieteaartPurchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Al is back for her first IIJM post-partum and the girls get straight to it with chats about cocktail tinnies, St Patrick's Day and dead caterpillars...Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alex is back! Listen for huge news, massive updates and all of the baby Tommy updates!Purchase tickets here for our first ever ✨LIVE TOUR!!✨Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast the girls are joined by none other than Bake Off legend Nadiya Hussain. Nadiya talks about her lifelong journey with anxiety, how Bake Off changed her life (not always for the better) and the advice she gives to her children.You can purchase any of her brilliant books here: https://www.nadiyahussain.com/books/Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Kat is back for this week's IIJM answering your all your questions, from sisterhood to tattoos to Ozempic...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Alex and Em are joined by Pandora Morris. Pandora struggled with her mental health from a very young age, which manifested in OCD and eating disorders working in tandem to make her life almost impossible. Now on her recovery journey, Pandora shares her story from breaking out of school to crossing the border in Mexico to the US to seek medical assistance during lockdown. You can listen to Pandora's podcast Hurt to Healing here: https://www.hurttohealing.co.uk/podcast or wherever you get your podcasts.Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, Em is joined by the legendary Katya, SIDT Live's resident storyteller and Em's sister. They discuss what it means to come from different generations...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Em and Al are joined by former model, horse rider, polo player, racing driver and pub landlady Jodie Kidd! She does it all! After knowing Jodie for a lot of her life, Em wanted to ask questions she'd never asked her before. Jodie takes us back to the 90s and 00s and shares what it was really like to be a supermodel, and why, despite being successful, she gave it all up.Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's special IIJM, Em attempts to rile up Georgie...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Alex and Em are joined by Naomi Evans, one half of the Instagram account Everyday Racism. Naomi and Natalie are award-winning writers, educators, speakers and sisters! Naomi talks us through how Everyday Racism came to be, why the school curriculum needs to be updated and why the UK is so reluctant to admit it has a racism problem.You can follow Naomi and Natalie on Instagram @everydayracism_You can purchase The Mixed Race Experience here, Everyday Action Everyday Change here, and if you want more details on the Anti-Racist School course, you can find them at https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-anti-racist-school-tickets-314601470467?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=escbFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss thongs, swingers and pineapples...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Em is joined by the incredible Crystal Hefner. Crystal met Hugh Hefner, who was 60 years her senior, when she was 21 years old. Quickly, she became one of his girlfriends and a few years later went on to marry him. The Playboy Mansion became a location for abuse: physical, financial and emotional. Crystal reveals what really happened, why she married Hef and asks, why did no one stop him?You can follow Crystal on Instagram @crystalhefnerFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss manners, parenting styles and the patriarchy...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, the girls are joined by the newly coronated (by Em) Queen of Dating, Logan Ury! Logan is Hinge’s director of relationship science and is here to impart all of her dating wisdom. She talks through attachment styles, the problems with modern dating and why you should let go of the ick…You can follow Logan on Instagram @loganury Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss people pleasing, falling out of love and watering your grass...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by author of Period Power, Maisie Hill. Ever since her period began, Maisie experienced debilitating pain when bleeding. After fifteen years of pain, she tried everything she could to relieve it and find answers. One day, she realised she could address more than just her physical symptoms, and began to explore the ways her emotions and mental health affected her during this time. She was finally able to deal with her period pain, and was inspired to teach others how to do the same. Follow Maisie on Instagram @_maisiehill_ You can buy her books Period Power here and Perimenopause Power hereFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls explore more of your intrusive thoughts, the benefits of screaming and Em's lack of impulse control...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Dan Richards AKA The One Armed Wonder. Em met Dan back in 2016 during a cycling event for Help For Heroes. Em was so moved by his story that she asked him to come onto the podcast to share it. Dan was in a motorcycle accident which flipped his world upside down. He was kicked out of the armed forces, couldn't get a job and ended up living at his parents with only 15p to his name. Dan shares how, through determination and self belief, he changed his life and became the man he is today.If you are affected by any of the topics discussed in today's episode, you can call the Samaritans on 116 123.Follow Dan on Instagram @theonearmedwonderFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss deleted texts, your intrusive thoughts and the BEST advice Alex has ever received...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by former Love Islander Kaz Crossley! Kaz's empathy and passion really stood out throughout this recording, making her such an endearing guest. Kaz was embroiled in an incredibly public scandal which saw her detained at an Abu Dhabi airport on suspicion of drug offences. She explains how this incident effected her, and why she continues to harness her social media platform to help disadvantaged people. Kaz has a deep love for Muay Thai and has made it her mission to empower women through the sport. Follow Kaz on Instagram @kazcrossleyFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls continue their exploration of intimate things, discuss phobias and the size of the ocean...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by crisis and hostage negotiator Nicky Perfect. After working in the Met Police for over two decades, it was recommended that Nicky try negotiating. She quickly realised it was her calling, and something she wanted to do for the rest of her career. Nicky's day-to-day life as a crisis and hostage negotiator was adrenaline fuelled: she was constantly dealing with people at breaking point and immersed in life-or-death situations, such as terrorist incidents and kidnappings. On this episode, Nicky shares her proudest moments, toughest negotiations, and biggest mistakes. She also explains why empathy is the most important factor in defusing highly volatile situations.You can purchase Nicky's book, Crisis, hereFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss things that aren't intimate but feel really intimate...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

As we welcome in the new year, many of you will be dabbling with sobriety through Dry January. It can feel like the perfect antidote to a heavy month of boozing and indulging over the festive period, but how many of us actually consider why we drink? Sober Awkward is a podcast run by sober pals Victoria Vanstone and Hamish Adams-Cairns, and they join Alex and Em to discuss what it really feels like to be sober and why they were both compelled to do it. They share the best things and worst things about being sober, and how to tell people to just f**k off when you need to...You can listen to Sober Awkward here or follow them on Instagram @soberawkwardFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls dissect a list of things that should be left behind in 2023, and they disagree with quite a few...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Happy New Year! As per annual tradition, Em and Alex present to you a round up of the year, featuring chats about Gwyneth Paltrow's court case, the missing submersible, Blue Ivy's dancing, Russell Brand's expose and much much more...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this festive IIJM special, the girls discuss their Christmas traditions, dealing with difficult expectations and how self-care routines go out the window...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Merry Christmas everyone! As our festive gift to you, we have collated our best moments of 2023. You will hear from top guests Milly Pickles, Jacqueline Hurst, Emma the Embryologist, Em's Mum, Tess Holliday, Sarah de Lagarde, Andrea Cheong and Dr Amanda Brown. Cue unheard moments, wisdom, laughs and burps...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For this IIJM, Alex and Dave rejoin Alex and Em to play Mr & Mrs (albeit incorrectly). Get ready to hear even more wild quirks and strange habits, cue plastic bag straggles...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, the girls are joined by their husbands, Alex and Dave! They answer all your questions about each other, their relationships, their icks and their bad habits. Dave is perpetually confused. Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss blue sweets, trigger warnings and laser tag...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, the girls are joined by co-founder and CEO of Kic, Laura Henshaw! Laura was over from Australia on a whistle-stop visit and tried to book in a coffee with Em, who convinced her to come on the pod instead. With no real plan, this episode turned out to be a chaotic, fun-filled ride all about hygeine, puddles and diet culture.You can follow Laura on Instagram @laura.henshaw and her work with Kic over at @kic.appFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss being too selfless, printing money and appendicitis in Antarctica...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Al are joined by founder of Black Women Rising, Leanne Pero MBE! Leanne is a Social Entrepreneur, Author, Speaker, Breast Cancer Survivor. She shares her story with us today: from childhood trauma and entrepreneurship, to a cancer diagnosis and finding herself again. Follow Leanne on Instagram @leanneperoofficial and Black Women Rising @blackwomenrisingukFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss Em's new look, weighing yourself and looking silly in public...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Al are joined by sex and relationships expert, author and presenter Ruby Rare! In this episode, Ruby and the girls steer away from sex-only chats to delve into relationships. They discuss navigating porn, cheating, solo sex and life drawing.You can follow Ruby on Instagram @rubyrareFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss bridesmaid woes, Hailey Bieber's arms and vaginal steaming...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by Dr Amanda Brown. Twenty years ago, Amanda was content working as a GP at a quiet, suburban family practice, with many patients she'd seen throughout their entire lives. One day, after a shock meeting, she decided to leave the practice with no idea what was coming next. Out of the blue, she was asked if she wanted to take a shift at a prison. Despite never even thinking doctors worked in prisons, Amanda went on to have the most fulfilling years in her career as a prison doctor. She worked in both men's and women's prisons and talks us through their differences. She also shares why women are being failed in the prison system and how she only ever once had to ring the panic button.You can purchase Amanda's books The Prison Doctor, Women Inside and The Final Sentence hereFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss minor and mundane things that are SO annoying: the wind, airpod connection and tangles of all kinds...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em and Al are joined by Issy Hawkins. Issy came onto Em's radar after the recent passing of Matthew Perry, who famously struggled with addiction issues his whole life. Issy went into recovery at the age of 21 for alcohol addiction after her life tumbled down around her. Issy breaks stereotypes around addiction and alcoholism with her honesty and vulnerability every day online. You can check out her TikTok and Instagram @issyhawkins_ Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss more auto-correct fails, out of context willies and mums that overstep boundaries...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Em and Alex are joined by the brilliant Jackie Adedeji. When Jackie was 11, she woke up to find she had FF cup boobs. She was unable to do the things her peers around her were doing, limited by the size of her breasts. Jackie was shamed into feeling as though her breasts made her a burden, and strongly considered getting a breast reduction. However, she decided practiced body neutrality as a stepping stone towards self acceptance. Jackie is now thriving, but it isn't always easy. Her energy is joyous, and you can follow her on Instagram @ohmygoshitsjackie or check out her Channel 4 documentary here: https://www.channel4.com/programmes/my-big-boobs-untold/on-demand/74692-001Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss homework, Em's granny and auto-correct mishaps.Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Al are joined by embryologist and lab technician at the Evewell Clinic, Emma The Embryologist! Emma's mission is to reduce fertility journey anxiety. Alex met Emma during her own fertility journey, and wanted to get her on the pod to demystify common misunderstandings around fertility. She discusses eggs, sperm, discharge, and stresses that there is no such thing as a fertility cliff.Follow Emma on Instagram @emmatheembryologistFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss the illuminati, supermarket conveyor belts and coping with a new puppy...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Marin was tired of being in a dating rut. Dating toxic co-workers, rehashing old patterns, she decided to take action. In the month of love, February, she undertook a challenge: to go on a date every single day. She went on 28 dates in 28 days, and as she shared her challenge on socials, it went viral. She shares how she did it and what she learnt along the way. She talks splitting bills, the pink tax and waiting 90 days before having sex...You can follow Marin on Instagram @lifeofmarinnycFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss more TikTok wisdom, friendship breakups and the human body...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by consultant dermatologist Dr Alexis Granite. She answers all of your questions about skincare: from filler to acne and pimple popping to verrucas! Alexis breaks down what we really need to maintain healthy skin, and how to get a routine you can really stick to.You can follow Alexis on Instagram @DrAlexisGraniteFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss crossfit, slides and just wanting to be whelmed...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls are joined by Milly Pickles! Milly is an online fitness coach, amputee, electrocution survivor and world record holder. After an accident six years ago that almost took her life, Milly had to have one of her legs amputated. She embraced her survival by living life like never before: she blazed through physiotherapy to get back to work, got a first in her degree, became a world record holder as the first amputee to complete the Red Bull 400 and learnt to never accept bullshit in her love life. Milly's fierce can-do attitude is iconic, and we can't wait to see what she gets up to next.Follow Milly on Instagram @millypicklesFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls decipher internet behaviour: people being judgmental, passive aggressive and outright mean online...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by model Felicity Hayward! Over the course of Felicity's twelve-year modelling career, she started noticing that although brands wanted to use her to represent plus-sized people, they weren't actually increasing the sizing range of their clothing or making their products more accessible for larger people. Tired of being used as a gimmick to boost brands' false facade of inclusivity, Felicity invented the hashtag #IncludingTheCurve to shine a light on authentically inclusive brands and designers. Keen to make a long-term impact on the fashion industry, Felicity has continued to analyse every single show at every fashion week, persisting in her mission to discover who is and isn't making real changes. Felicity dives deep with the girls about the realities of modelling, her love of fashion and why she boycotted the British Fashion Awards...Follow Felicity on Instagram @felicityhaywardFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week's Is It Just Me is a little different... Due to popular demand, Em and Al take a deep dive into the reaction to the recent accusations surrounding Russell Brand. This episode contains discussions of sexual assault.Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by fashion educator Andrea Cheong. Andrea founded the Mindful Monday Method on Instagram to challenge consumers to consider whether what they are buying is actually worth their money. Andrea teaches her audience how to look for quality, value and sustainable practices when it comes to clothing and accessories. On this episode, she demonstrates how to successfully clear out your wardrobe, examine brands and understand your own personal fashion needs. You can explore Andrea’s methods further through her book: Why Don’t I Have Anything To Wear? available here: https://geni.us/AndreaCheongBookFollow Andrea on Instagram @andreacheong_Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls chat lifts, wind and washing your feet in acid...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today, we share one of our most highly requested episodes. It’s an interview with Em’s Mum! Having favoured smoking and drinking over exercise her entire life, Francie was given the opportunity to partake in an Ironman and said yes… without knowing what it actually was. An Ironman is a gruelling triathlon that consists of a 2.4-mile swim, a 112-mile bicycle ride and a marathon. Yep, a 26.2 mile run ON TOP of all that. Francie’s can-do attitude and endless hard work pushed her to compete in 10 Ironmans over the course of her 50s. Francie takes us through her extraordinary journey, how she still experiences imposter syndrome and you will see why Em is her number one fan (soon you will be too)!Don't forget to check out The Hags @thehaveagosFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls chat ice baths, bare bums and the downstairs loo...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Our Alex is pregnant! To celebrate, Em and Al have a gorgeous solo episode to share, where they answer your questions (pretty much every single one was baby related) and have a general catch up. Not one to miss! Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls chat boybands, reverse parking and Taylor Swift...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jacq is BACK! With as many truth bombs as ever and more wisdom to impart on the listeners who sent in questions. She tells you how to avoid waiting for him to text you back, how to trust your gut and how to ignore the naysayers…You can follow Jacqueline on Instagram @jacqueline_hurst_Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls deep dive into dogs, babies, and whether people should call their dogs their babies...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Em and Al are joined by the one and only Vicky Pattison! This interview has been a long time coming, and boy, do they cover everything: Geordie Shore, body image, being in the public eye, challenging expectations, egg freezing, success, love and self worth. Vicky’s journey to a happy and healthy life came with huge leaps, many sacrifies, and a whole lot of judgement, but she wouldn’t have it any other way. Her positive energy radiates throughout this episode and it was a joy to have her on the podcast.You can follow Vicky on Instagram @vickypattisonAnd listen to her podcast, The Secret To, here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/vicky-pattison-the-secret-to/id1510516160Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comFollow us @shouldideletethatProduced & Edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls talk running, waxing and christianity...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em and Alex are joined by personal trainer and OG Instagram influencer Alice Liveing. When Alice started using social media, the support and praise she received from the online world kept her afloat; but soon, her desire for virtual validation had become all-encompassing, and she realised it was preventing her from truly knowing herself. She knew she needed to accept her whole self, and this meant accepting that she wasn’t perfect. She and the girls discuss how little space is given to existing imperfectly online. Alice also shares her heartbreaking experience of living through an abusive relationship. If you or someone you know are affected by any of the topics discussed in this podcast, you can check out Women’s Aid at https://www.womensaid.org.uk/ or Refuge at https://refuge.org.uk/ or call the National Domestic Abuse Helpline on 0808 2000 247Follow Alice on Instagram @aliceliveingEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comFollow us @shouldideletethatProduced & Edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls dive deep into the questions of the universe: why haven't we been back to the moon? Where does all the poo go? Why are all the cemeteries full? How do you become an air-traffic controller? How many people in the world are having blow jobs right now?Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by Sophie Martin, AKA The Infertile Midwife. After getting married and settling down, Sophie and her husband decided they wanted to have a baby. After years of trying, and spending all their savings on IVF, Sophie’s hope was waning, and all the while she was surrounded with new mothers and babies every single day at work. Sophie shares all the trials and tribulations in her pursuit of motherhood, the indescribable highs and heartbreaking lows. This episode contains discussions of baby loss, so please listen with caution.You can pre-order Sophie’s memoir here: https://geni.us/theinfertilemidwifeAnd follow Sophie on Instagram @the.infertile.midwifeSands Support: https://www.sands.org.uk/Dad Still Standing: https://www.dadstillstanding.com/The Miscarriage Association: https://www.miscarriageassociation.org.uk/Get A Life: His & Hers Survival Guide to IVF: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Get-Life-Hers-Survival-Guide/dp/1409155013The Fertility Network: https://fertilitynetworkuk.org/Email us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & Edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls talk dad bods, worms and chocolate...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s episode Em and Al are joined in the studio by Imogen Ivy. Self proclaimed ‘Aussie Cowgirl in London’ Imogen came to London as a documentary maker ended up being scouted as a model. Promoting body neutrality, Imogen has done campaigns for Superdrug and Pretty Little Thing. Imogen talks about how she grew up in a nudist household in Australia, and how her parents promoted open communication and healthy mental and physical health. Follow Imogen on Instagram @imogenfkingivyFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy Grant & edited by Hattie MoirMusic by Alex AndrewHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's IIJM, the girls discuss the perils of micellar water, spray tans and building sites...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em and Alex are bringing you a special episode in collaboration with the Gloucestershire Police, to highlight their new campaign all about stalking. This episode shows how to look out for signs of stalking and what to do if you, or a loved one, is affected by stalking. Em opens up about her experience with a stalker when she was younger and how it has impacted her life, ‘Maddy’ details her frightening story of her dangerous and obsessive ex-partner, Sophie Jarrett explains the importance of the campaign and finally, Sarah Louise from the Suzy Lamplugh trust joins us to show how we can support victims.For more details on the Gloucestershire Constabulary’s stalking campaign, follow this link: https://bit.ly/GC-Talking-Stalking there you will find helpful tips to identify stalking behavioursFor further support, you can visit the Suzy Lamplugh Trust here: https://www.suzylamplugh.org/Or call the National Stalking Helpline at 0808 802 0300Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss why you shouldn't compare your life to others and how to avoid a traumatic brain injury...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we bring back one of our most popular guests of all time, sexpert and co-creator of Come Curious, Reed Amber! Reed is back to answer your questions on dirty talk, anal play and shame. Reed also shares how she got into the world of sex work and what it's like to be censored online, and she opens up about her own fetish...Follow Reed on Instagram @reedamberxFollow Come Curious on Instagram @comecuriousBuy Florence's book This Book Will Make You Feel Something here: https://geni.us/thisbookwillFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls talk Grey's Anatomy, wedgies and Em's scooter skillz...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Em and Al talk all things pop culture with Caroline O'Donoghue, author and host of the incredible podcast Sentimental Garbage. They discuss why women’s interests are devalued in society and why, artistically, women’s work is taken less seriously than men’s. They deep dive into the death of romcoms, the 2010s and Leonardo DiCaprio’s taste in women…Follow Caroline on Instagram @czaronlineBuy Caroline's latest book here: https://store.virago.co.uk/products/the-rachel-incidentListen to Sentimental Garbage here: https://open.spotify.com/show/6w97FzDaRfaE4jWz98npWQ?si=74a1e6b14b0548afFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls chat about being too much, super bendy and overreactive...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: SuicideThis week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by Married at First Sight UK contestant Gemma Rose Barnes. Gemma wanted the perfect partner to complete her life, and so she signed up to MAFS in the belief that she was going to find just that, even getting a tattoo in honour of this man who she hadn’t met yet. She ended up becoming a controversial figure on MAFS due to her willingness to make crude jokes and openly talk about sex. She shares that her words were edited and taken out of context, and that her new husband’s keenness was edited out all together. Gemma experienced various mental health and addiction struggles, exacerbated due to the show, and had to make a change. Now sober, Gemma shares the reality behind this “reality” TV show, and how we as viewers need to take a more discerning attitude towards it.EDIT- A Channel 4 Spokesperson said: "Contributor care and wellbeing is of paramount importance and appropriate support is available to contributors before, during and after broadcast. Any concerns raised by contributors about safety would always be taken extremely seriously and we would take prompt and appropriate action when needed. Any action taken would always be agreed with the cast members involved to ensure they were satisfied with the resolution and outcome. Contributors are able to leave the process at any time. During filming, alcohol consumption is at the discretion of individuals, but it is monitored and limited by the production team and contributor welfare is always prioritised. All broadcast episodes of MAFS U.K. are a fair and accurate reflection of the events that took place."Follow Gemma on Instagram @reallifeofgemroseFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comEdited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's very phallic IIJM, the girls discuss the male anatomy, Al's hypothetical boner and we are joined by our resident penis...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex are joined by social housing activist Kwajo Tweneboa. Kwajo grew up in social housing, and his family were housed in inhabitable conditions: unsafe spaces riddled with mould, cockroaches, mice, leaks and damp. Kwajo’s father was diagnosed with cancer and, whilst being nursed in this environment, passed away from his illness. After receiving little to no help in making their home habitable, Kwajo decided enough was enough, and gathered evidence from over 500 tenants that lived on his estate; this enabled them to shame their housing association into finally carrying out the works that were needed. From there, Kwajo has been continuing the fight, shaming landlords and housing associations across the UK into providing safe, sanitary homes for all. Follow Kwajo on Instagram and Twitter @kwajohousingFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss emergencies abroad, body conscious therapy and buying loo roll...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by Dr Karen Gurney AKA The Sex Doctor on Instagram. She answers your questions about mismatched libidos to waning desire, and enlightens us with a few new terms – blue labia, for example!Follow Karen @thesexdoctor on InstagramBuy Karen’s book, Mind the Gap, hereFree resources to improve your sex life: https://thehavelockclinic.com/resources/Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss loggy logs, staring at the dentist and refusing chivalry...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls are joined by creator, cancer survivor and close friend Georgie Swallow. At 26, Georgie was diagnosed with stage 4 Hodgkin Lymphoma. Without any time to think, she had to jump into chemotherapy to save her life. The only way to get through the exhausting and devastating process was to remain positive and power through. Now, after a second diagnosis and treatment, Georgie is living life at her healthiest. However, this doesn’t mean that cancer doesn’t still cause her daily issues. From infertility to gut health issues, Georgie marches through each day, and as the girls say, all while exuding sunshine. Georgie uses her platform to spread joy, body confidence and share what life is like after cancer.Follow Georgie on Instagram @georgieeswallowFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss their dream homes, the embarrassment of treading water and answer a listener's question about death (promise they get into it once they got the uncomfortable giggles out of the way!)Megan Rose Lane's book recommendation on the subject is Dying to be Me by Anita MoorjaniFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, the girls chat to actress and content creator Shenae Grimes-Beech. Shenae shot to fame on 90210, after featuring in the tv show Degrassi in her native Canada. Shenae was alone in Hollywood, navigating her late teens, and grappling with misinformation and harassment from the tabloid press. This newfound attention caused rifts within the cast and meant that she felt more alone than when she arrived to the States. Shenae shares her story, smashes the misconceptions invented by the tabloids, and discusses life beyond 90210.Follow Shenae on Instagram @shenaegrimesbeech and Youtube @shenaegrimesbeechand Tiktok @joshandshenaebeechFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss noughties fashion faux pas, fake tanning and whether girlbossing is good for one's health...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, the girls talk to author, podcaster and former chief content officer of goop, Elise Loehnen. Elise has co-written twelve books, five of which have been New York Times bestsellers, and Em and Alex are joined by her to discuss her latest, On Our Best Behaviour: The Price Women Pay to be Good. Why can women rarely recover from their failures? Why is the patriarchy so devastating to boys and men? Elise shares her manifesto, which argues that the seven deadly sins (lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, wrath, envy and pride) have been used by the patriarchy to control women throughout our history. This fascinating theory expands on our episode with Jameela Jamil, back in January 2022, in which the girls spoke about why, as a society, we build women up only to tear them down. Pre-order Elise's book On Our Best Behaviour: The Price Women Pay to be GoodListen to Elise's podcast: Pulling the ThreadFollow Elise on Instagram @eliseloehnenFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls are back with their amazing live audience to dive into some breathtaking embarrassing stories, and share some wisdom around body positivity with summer approaching. Thank you to all of those who came to the show, we're looking forward to doing more in the future! Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy Grant & edited by Hattie MoirMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s episode, Em and Al are joined in the studio by Charlie Craggs, a British transgender actress, activist, and author from London. Charlie talks about her recent experience in court, where she was fighting a trans hate crime. She talks about how she was misgendered in court, and how the court handled her case by letting her attacker off, and what message this sends. From this, Charlie is setting up free self defence classes for trans women, to ensure other trans people feel safe in public. The three discuss activism online and the media’s role in the debate around trans rights. NOTES: Self Defence Classes for Trans People Go Fund Me: https://www.gofundme.com/f/free-self-defence-classes-for-trans-peopleCharlie’s book ‘To My Trans Sisters’: https://www.amazon.co.uk/My-Trans-Sisters-Charlie-Craggs/dp/1785923439Charlie’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/charlie_craggs/?hl=enCharlie’s BBC3 documentary: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p093wyx7Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy Grant & edited by Hattie MoirMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss some constructive feedback, making friends as an adult and plumbing. Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy Grant and edited by Hattie MoirMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Alex and Em are joined by none other than the Gynae Geek herself: Dr Anita Mitra, who is on a mission to make it less scary to own a vagina. Anita answers a bunch of your questions: from discharge to pap smears, cysts to douches and answers the most important question of all: 'what's the weirdest thing you've found up someone's vagina?' Anita shares how to advocate for yourself at the doctors and how to really get to know your own vagina.Follow Anita on Instagram @gynaegeekFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss Irish twins, Bill Nighy and covid testing...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode, Alex and Em are joined by Caggie Dunlop, who you may recognise from the earliest iteration of Made in Chelsea. Caggie's late twenties were a mixture of confusion and instability, seeing her friends settling down and having babies just as her life seemed to be at its most turbulent. Then she was introduced to the astrological concept of Saturn returns, which made her understand she wasn't alone in her discomfort. Now, with a podcast and a new book dedicated to Saturn returning, Caggie shares her story and this concept with Alex and Em. And it does happen to send Em into a bit of a spin...Find out more about Caggie and her work at https://caggiedunlop.komi.io/Follow Caggie on Instagram @caggiesworldFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss breast reductions, sexual shame and gym knickers...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex chat to Marla McEntire. Her pregnancy was not traditional by any stretch, most notably because Marla actually had no idea that she was pregnant. She only found out 40 weeks into her pregnancy, when she went to the bathroom and after pushing, she realised a baby was in the toilet! This is Marla’s baffling, incredible and heart-warming story…Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls talk wine gums, breast milk and the male gaze...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Should I Delete That? Em and Alex are joined by model, content creator and wearer of tiny hands: Louise Boyce! When Louise started her instagram to aid her modelling career, she never thought that hilarious videos of her impersonating a toddler with a high pitched voice effect and tiny plastic hands would be what catapulted her professional life. Now, three kids later, almost half a million instagram followers and a book being released in June, Louise shows that Mama really has still got It...Louise's book is out on June 8th 2023, click here to pre-orderFollow Louise on Instagram @mamastillgotit_Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls discuss queuing, hyper wipers and what's been giving Al the ick lately...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's episode, Em and Alex are joined by astrologer Francesca Oddie. Francesca shares her journey into astrology and explores what Em and Alex's birth charts say about them. As avid listeners will be well aware, Alex is a skeptic of astrology, can Francesca persuade her of the power of the stars? So, whether you are a cynic or a fanatic, you're sure to take something from this episode!Follow Francesca on Instagram @francescaoddieastrology Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls talk about athletics, horse racing and whether Alex is in fact down with the kids...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Em and Alex are joined by Sasha Pallari. Sasha is an influencer, YouTuber and the creator of #FILTERDROP, a hashtag and movement on instagram dedicated to showing real skin. Sasha also took this movement to the Advertising Standards Authority in order to prevent make up and skincare brands from advertising with filtered skin, and she won! Sasha talks about her journey with confidence, and how #FILTERDROP and theatre have helped her along the way…Find Sasha on YouTube, Instagram and TikTok @sashapallariFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's IIJM, the girls talk about the end of the ick, the Kardashians and why you should always wear pyjamas...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week the girls are joined by mentor, coach and Instagram icon Megan Rose Lane. Megan shares her incredible wisdom, with a particular focus on the shadow self and what that means to her. She explains that all growth and understanding, whether with oneself or others, comes first from compassion. Follow Megan on Instagram @megan_rose_laneFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls talk men's egos x sex toys, how to conduct oneself in a whatsapp group and how to deal with weight talk at the doctors...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls have possibly their funnest interview yet! They sit down with content creator, choreographer and dancer Austyn Farrell. During the first lockdowns, Austen starred in some incredible viral videos that showed him entertaining his neighbours and anyone who happened to walk past. His videos even caught the attention of Kim Kardashian, who shared his impersonation of her on her own socials! Austyn has been a beacon of joy and light on the internet, despite sometimes struggling through some pretty dark times himself. Austyn shares his story, including his battles with mental health, but still manages to make Em and Alex laugh all the while.Follow Austyn on Instagram and TikTok @austyn_farrellFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls get a follow up from some previous advice they gave, discuss what it's like to go for a wax and the collective Millennial fear of Gen Z...Tickets for our next live show at The Podcast Show in London can be found here: https://tourlink.to/ShouldIDeleteThatTPS (pre-sale Thursday 30th March, on sale from Friday 31st March)Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Alex and Em are joined by none other than the ICONIC Tess Holliday. Tess is renowned for her modelling career; as a plus-size woman she has been a role model for many, and has garnered a lot of attention, unfortunately not all of it positive – Piers Morgan, we're looking at you! In this episode, Tess opens up like never before about her relationship with her body, notably her anorexia diagnosis and how it feels to get older in the public eye. Follow Tess on Instagram @tesshollidayFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls discuss balloon animals, misheard quotes and slugs...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the pod, Alex and Em are joined by chef and writer Alasdair (Ali) Gill. Ali and Em - whose parents were close friends - have been mates for years. Ali’s late father is the renowned journalist, author and critic A. A. Gill. Like his father, Ali has suffered with addiction, which led him on a journey to rehab; it was there, during his recovery, that he sought comfort in his father’s memoir, which details his own struggles with alcohol. Though this moment came after his father’s death, Ali felt seen, and finally understood that he wasn’t alone.You can follow Ali on Instagram @aligill421 and check out his catering business @gordonandgillFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special bonus episode in partnership with Get into Teaching, Alex is joined by Nicola Whiston. Nicola is an Assistant Principal from Stoke-on-Trent AND 2018 Math’s Teacher of the year. In this chat, Nicola told us about what made her get into teaching, the influence of social media on young people and her most memorable moments. Teachers are such foundations in our youth and this conversation got a little emotional so if you listen, are feeling inspired and are looking for a career where every day is totally different and every lesson can shape a life, then search Get Into Teaching now to find out more. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls discuss the ethics of The Chase, Alex's limited car knowledge and explore a new theme: Ick or Sick...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls chat to Laura Mathias. Laura was 13 when she started losing her hair. No one could help her – not her mum, her friends or even her doctor. She was told, as a teenager, that stress was contributing to her development of alopecia. Stress management wasn’t easy, how could it be at that age? And as Laura’s hair continued to fall out, she finally plucked up the courage to ask for a wig. Now, almost two decades later, Laura has found herself finally ready to accept herself and her baldness. She’s starred in photoshoots, appeared on national television and even walked a runway, all without her wig. Laura wants other women and young girls with alopecia to not feel the helplessness that she did. Laura’s confidence #journey is incredible, and Em and Alex are so proud to share her story.Follow Laura on Instagram @relightalopeciaFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's round two of your unpopular opinions, covering bagels, Beyonce and babies...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls welcome the newest member of the podcast crew... Em's baby! Em shares her birth story and what the first month of being a mum has really been like for her. Welcome back Em and welcome to the gang, Arlo Rose! Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss YOUR unpopular opinions. They cover pizza, alcohol, parenting and even things you don't like about their content...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex talk to hormones expert Dr Sohère Roked. Sohère is a GP who specialises in Integrative medicine. She works to understand the emotional, spiritual, environmental, social, nutritional, lifestyle and psychological issues that influence the health and well-being of her patients, something she feels conventional medical practice does not provide. In this episode, she answers your questions and covers myths and misconceptions around progesterone, polycystic ovaries, PMS and more! She will challenge you to track your period, deconstruct your preconceptions and make you ask, “is it my hormones?”You can find Sohère's website here: https://drsohereroked.co.uk/Sohère's book: The Tiredness CureSohère's podcast: It's Your Hormones!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss Al's dream life, video games and unfortunate places to feel a bit under the weather...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, Em and Alex talk to The Office star, Lucy Davis. Lucy shares her story from performing skits to her friends at school to facing scrutiny in the press due to her appearance. She details her experience with eating disorders and body dysmorphia, and how now, she has learnt to accept herself. Her wit and wisdom inspires the girls, so much so that they suggest she should become a life coach!In the GBA, Alex is joined by a not so special guest…Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss co-parenting, understanding your partner's kinks and Em's varied career...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, the girls talk to Sarah de Lagarde. In September 2022, Sarah was involved in a freak accident that would change her life forever. After falling asleep on the tube, Sarah woke up and realised that she had slept past her stop. Like anyone in that situation would, she promptly got up and raced over towards another train that would get her home. As she did, she slipped on the wet platform and the unimaginable happened: she tripped and ended up falling down onto the tracks. Sarah lost her arm and her leg after the train took off, and with sheer determination she shouted for help by saying “My name is Sarah, I don’t want to die”. Twenty minutes later, after what must have felt like an eternity, someone finally heard her and got her the help she needed. Almost four months on from the accident, Sarah joined Alex and Em in the studio to discuss the incident and how she has managed to get through it all so gracefully.Sarah's Instagram @sjdelargardeSarah's Go Fund MeDonate to London's Air AmbulanceFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss sleep paralysis, the english language and winning the raffle...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's here! All the best bits of Should I Delete That? in one place. Taken from the start of our *journey* all the way back in December 2021 to now. In this compilation you will hear snippets from our episodes with: Bonita Norris, Jameela Jamil, Come Curious, Jules Von Hep, Candice Brathwaite, Holly Hagan, Laura Bates, Kayley Stead and our resident coach Jacqueline Hurst. On top of all that goodness, we've picked out some never before heard gems, our top funniest moments with Em and Alex and the most embarrassing stories sent in by you, our amazing listeners! Thank you for all your support as ever. We can't wait to bring you even more incredible interviews and laughs as the show grows!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls friendship breakups, over-sensitivity and whether Em could be a spy...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Alex and Em talk to Iranian feminist activist Samaneh Savadi. The Islamic Republic of Iran has been experiencing turmoil as a result of the government’s misogynistic regime and the murders of many protestors and dissenters.After noticing their story views drop significantly whenever they spoke out about this issue, the girls wanted to bring a deeper awareness of it to themselves and to others by talking to Samaneh about her understanding and experience. Samaneh herself cannot go home to Iran out of fear of being arrested, or worse, for speaking out and campaigning for women’s rights. She suggests that one of the best ways to help women in Iran is by continuing to speak out, so hopefully this episode gives you the impetus to do so.Follow Samaneh on Instagram @samaneh_savadiFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss cheating, dodgy bumcracks and confusing aioli for areola...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, the girls meet influencer and reality TV star Georgia Harrison. Em and Alex wanted to talk to Georgia about how, over the past few years, she has been living a nightmare after falling victim to revenge porn. Her ex, sex offender and fellow reality TV star, Stephen Bear, non-consensually recorded him and Georgia having sex. He spread the video across the internet, subsequently profiting from it, which became an all-consuming battle for Georgia as she fought to not only remove the video, but to have Bear convicted. The girls get the details of this betrayal, the brave steps Georgia took to prosecute and how it felt when she finally saw justice. You can follow Georgia on Instagram @georgialouiseharrisonFind out more about Refuge here: https://www.refuge.org.uk/You can call the UK's National Domestic Abuse Hotline on 0808 2000 247or access their live chat Monday to Friday, 3–10pm at www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls answer 0 emails, discuss Em's special friendship with Molly Mae and catch up on "current affairs"...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the podcast, the girls are joined by Aleeza Rosenberg. Aleeza is a dietitian who specialises in eating disorders and she is actually the person that helped Alex on the path to a healthy relationship with food. She also went on to contribute to Alex’s book, You Are Not A Before Picture, and this interview shows why she had such an impact on Alex. Aleeza is incredibly warm and compassionate, and also full of facts and wisdom ready to bust what you thought you knew about diets and, specifically, carbs! This episode does discuss eating disorders and so if you’d prefer to skip it after the Good, Bad and Awkward segment, we’ll catch you next week.Follow Aleeza @aleezarosenberg_dietitian or visit her website hereClick here to buy You Are Not A Before PictureFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss Excel spreadsheets, watching sex scenes with your family and forgetting to wash in the shower...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, there’s a traitor in our midst…It’s Wilf! And Hannah, lovely faithful Hannah!Just like the rest of the nation, Al and Em have been completely obsessed with The Traitors. They had to get best friends, legends and rivals Hannah and Wilf to share their experiences, secrets and gossip! It was everything they hoped for and more, leaving Al well and truly starstruck…Follow Hannah on Instagram @hannahbitch_cough_ski and Wilfred @wilfredwebsterofficialFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss canned applause, Spotify wrapped and whether or not a proposal should be a surprise...Big shout out to Rachel xxxFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls are joined by the incredible Sarah Nicole Landry, AKA @thebirdspapaya. What a woman - Sarah, a divorced and remarried mum of four (from babies to teens), shares her own self love and self acceptance story and breaks down the nuances of why we police women’s bodies in the most brilliant way. Em and Alex bring in the New Year with their resolutions; less guitars and more whiteboards, not to mention a baby!Follow Sarah on Instagram and listen to her podcast here. Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced by Daisy Grant & edited by Hattie MoirMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss your festive embarrassing stories and IIJMs. A lot of you don't like roast dinners? Seriously?!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Should I Delete That? is now one year old! If you've been with us from the very start, you'll know our first episode was a year ago almost to the day. In what now can be considered annual tradition, Alex and Em are going to give you their round up of the tumultuous year that was 2022: sharing with you their news, cultural and personal highlights!Thank you for being with us and supporting us all along the way, we couldn't do it without our wonderful, ICONIC listeners. Bring on 2023!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls are back with their brilliant live audience to delve into even cringier embarrassing stories, share their reasons for potential divorce and sing you out for the year...Thank you so much to all of those who attended, we're looking forward to doing more live shows in the future!Sponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, in the run up to Christmas, Em and Al speak have decided to turn the spotlight onto Ukraine. With the war still raging on, the girls wanted to understand more about what was happening on the ground and what we can all do to help. First, they spoke to Ukrainian lawyer Nadiya Bilous who is on the board of Dattalion. Dattalion is an open-source database containing Ukraine war footage and a list of verified eyewitnesses to the invasion. Founded and run by women, it was created to fight disinformation. They then spoke to Liza, a musician who escaped Ukraine (and coincidentally lives with previous guest Lizzie Pickering in the UK) about the emotional impact of fleeing her home.Find out more and follow Dattalion's work here: https://dattalion.com/Check out the White Eagle AppealYou can find Liza's music on Spotify, Youtube and follow her on Instagram @slozaworldFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls are joined by a BRILLIANT live audience to discuss google searches, surprise (and unwelcome) poos and what they've learnt from doing the podcast this year...Thank you so much to all of those who attended, we're looking forward to doing more live shows in the future!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em and Alex are joined by iconic TikTok comedian Hayley Morris. You would have seen her nail various different characters: concierge at the illustrious Vagina Hotel, the fake orgasm and of course, her own labia. Hayley breaks taboos in a masterful and hilarious way, making us all feel less alone. She also shares how she got into comedy, with inspiration from her brilliant late father, and why she will never take it for granted...Follow Hayley on TikTok and InstagramPre-order her book "Me vs Brain: An Overthinker's Guide to Life" Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss gym embarrassment, the pressure around having kids and dodgy cubicles...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls chat to Anna Whitehouse, AKA Mother Pukka. Anna is an incredible writer, campaigner and radio host, and is the founder of the Flex Appeal campaign, calling for all workers to be entitled to flexible working. This conversation took some twists and very unexpected turns, with Anna’s quick wit and brilliant sense of humour peppered throughout. Everyone could benefit from flexible working, not just mothers, and Anna shares how...Follow Anna on Instagram @mother_pukkaFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss impulse control (including farting in your sleep), avoiding small talk and whether Alex is feral...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls chat to financial planner and money expert Makala Green. Makala is the author of The Money Edit, a fantastic book that helps its readers feel more confident and in control when it comes to their finances. Em and Alex take this opportunity to pick Makala's brain about the things they've always wanted to know but were too scared to ask. They discuss debt and mortgages and recessions, and Makala shares a breakdown of what a pension actually is...Follow Makala on Instagram @thewealthcheckBuy Makala's book The Money EditEm's Alex has been reading Hate Inc.: Why Today's Media Makes us Despise One AnotherFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls answer a moral dilemma, chat baby names and try to solve a gaslighting mystery...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em and Alex talk to former Love Island contestant Andrew Le Page. His very public misstep and subsequent apology went viral as he uttered “I sucked on her tits or whatever…”. These simple words sent the general public into a tailspin while Andrew, living in Mallorca with the UK’s most eligible singles and no access to the outside world, was completely oblivious to the frenzied response. He shares what this was like, opens up about his relationship with Tasha, and enlightens the girls with some production secrets (our fave!).Alex and Em teased this announcement on socials, and you might already know what’s coming, but listen to find out what exactly it is that they’ve been hiding!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss how to deal with body image with children, period disasters and choking...Buy Body Happy KidsFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week the girls talk to the incomparable Alex Elle. Alex is an author and restorative writing teacher, and she shares some of her incredible wisdom on boundaries, healing and generational trauma on the pod today. Her unique and sage perspective gave Alex and Em food for thought, especially around the complexities of prescription medication for mental health. Follow Alex on Instagram @Alex (our Al is incredibly jealous of this handle)Order her latest book How We Heal Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss destiny, Antarctica and being a Londoner vs being British...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em and Alex chat to author, mentor, broadcaster and former professional rugby player Ed Jackson. Ed shares his his incredible story with us, explaining how an injury completely transformed his life. When Ed was 27, he was involved in a tragic accident and suffered a spinal injury that left him paralysed from the neck down. Despite being told his body wouldn’t recover from below the level of injury, he defied all odds. Now, Ed shares his journey with us, and you can follow the work of his foundation Millimetres 2 Mountains here.Click here to buy Ed's book, LuckyFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls give some grown up advice, Em gives us an exquisite reading list and Alex shares her ideal type of man...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week the girls chat to iconic sex and relationships expert, Oloni! Oloni answers your all burning questions, from working with mismatched libidos to how to squirt. She tells them what it really takes to have the best sex of your life, and how to communicate your way there.You can buy Oloni’s book, The Big O, here, or follow her on Instagram @oloniSponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss catcalling, waxing and CORN!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls sat down with GambleAware CEO Zoë Osmond, psychologist Dr Linda Papadopoulos and two women with lived experience of gambling harms, Jo and Lisa, to learn more about women and gambling. They spoke about the unique challenges women who experience gambling harms may face, and what could we all do to have better conversations about this topic.If you are worried about your gambling or that of a loved one, or are starting to lose track of time, spending more than you can afford, or hiding your gambling from others, please don’t hesitate to visit BeGambleAware.org for free confidential support, or call the National Gambling Helpline on 0808 8020 133Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss body neutrality, crossing the road and why you should love pigeons...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Imagine you had been engaged for two years, had your wedding dress for the same amount of time, paid £12k for the big day, invited guests from all over the UK and on the DAY of your wedding your partner doesn't show... Well, this happened to Kayley Stead. Rather than cancelling, she indulged in the ultimate act of self love and spent the big day celebrating herself with family and friends holding her up. The girls find out how she did it, get the dirt on her ex and celebrate Kayley even more...Follow Kayley on Instagram and TikTokFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? it's Al's followers that kill it with a variety of quick-fire embarrassing stories, Daisy pops in to share an Is It Just Me? of her own, and Alex asks Em how to use a washing machine.Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls are graced by feminist Quing (don't ask) writer, podcaster and comedian Deborah Frances-White! They sit down to talk all things from makeup to Roe Vs Wade to pud. Deborah's insight and wisdom gave us the hope we didn't know we were looking for and, as expected, the laughs we needed too. Follow Deborah on Instagram @dfdubz and Twitter @DeborahFW, find out more about The Guilty Feminist on their website, www.guiltyfeminist.comFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls talk boundaries, blagging it and cover possibly the most embarrassing story to top all embarrassing stories #mayonnaise... Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em shares big some news and the girls chat to magician Joel M joins the girls in the studio for a chat, some magic and mentalism. He blows their minds with some unbelievable tricks and manages to make it all entirely accessible in an audio format, who knew! He shares how he got into magic, why he does it and how it truly is better to not know how the trick works.Check out Joel’s new podcast Influenced! wherever you get your podcasts, and follow him on Instagram and TikTokFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? Em rapid fires embarrassing stories at Al, airing all your dirty laundry from pantyhose nightmares to period pad hell...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls chat to co-founder of Isle of Paradise, podcaster and body confidence legend Jules Von Hep. Jules started out in fashion and fell into spray tanning, and while his relationship with his own body suffered, he was uplifting women day in and day out as they entered the booth for a bit of fun and a glimmer of hope. Jules shares his own body confidence journey, and how that was influenced by the thousands of women he spray tanned over the years. He certainly still has the ability to uplift and put one at ease, and we hope you feel that from this conversation.Follow Jules on Instagram @julesvonhepThis episode is sponsored by Butternut Box, visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesThanks to Waterloo Podcast ProjectFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? The girls discuss untrustworthy drivers, pressured friendships and getting unusual things stuck in train doors...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls chat to Soma Sara, author and founder of Everyone’s Invited: a forum for people to anonymously share their experiences of sexual assault and harassment. Through opening up that space, Soma was inundated with stories from survivors and has dedicated her time to assist in making a change. She shares her belief in the importance of empathy, compassion and understanding, and how this, above all else, is the key to making that change. With a rapidly changing world that is increasingly focussed online, and where 9 out of 10 school girls are pestered to send nudes, this change couldn’t come quicker.Everyone's InvitedFollow Everyone’s Invited and Soma on InstagramBuy Soma’s book hereFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? The girls discuss prescription goggles, queefing and how signatures are embarrassing...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We recorded this episode before the news of Queen Elizabeth II's passing broke. As the UK mourns their monarch, we want to acknowledge the Queen’s 70 years of service and send our love to all members of her family and those who are dealing with grief at this time.This week, the girls chat to Laura Adlington: podcaster, fashionista and 2020 Bake Off finalist. Laura opens up about her experience with trolling from the public, her disordered eating and journey with body confidence. In the Good, the Bad and the Awkward, the girls end up in a spiral about their personal style at a recent event...Follow Laura on Instagram @laura.adlingtonFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? The girls discuss the lies of the Kardashians, old people and Em’s ego…Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em and Alex chat to Nadine Baggott, beauty expert, writer and presenter, who happens to have recently turned 60. She gives the girls an insight into ageism and her thoughts on how the beauty industry needs to change in order to be fully inclusive. Why are ageing men seen as attractive and ageing women considered unsightly? Why should you have older friends in your life?You can follow Nadine on Instagram @nadinebaggott and watch her YouTube videos hereFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do do gnomes, pampas grass and pineapple door knockers have in common? Listen to find out...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After sharing a clip of Tyra Banks telling a America’s Next Top Model contestant to eat a burger without the bread, Alex was sent a DM. The message was from that very model, Keenyah Hill, who had been essentially told to eat less by Tyra on cycle 4 of ANTM. Keenyah, 19 at the time, had also been compared to an elephant by the judges, and edited in a way that exaggerated how much and how often she was eating. Keenyah wanted to share her version of events, how being on ANTM affected her life and what it taught her about the real world of modelling. Now a pose coach and model mentor, Keenyah teaches aspiring models how to be confident in themselves and let that confidence carry them through.You can follow Keenyah and check out her work via her Instagram @keenyah.hillFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss pampas grass, super yachts and catherine wheels...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’ve got an extra delicious summer special for you! With no guest this week, the girls answer YOUR questions and have a big announcement to make. Em explains why she is being targeted by Limp Bizkit fans, asks Al if she's done anal and (TW) opens up about the premature death of her husband’s prized plant. They reflect on what they’ve learnt from doing the pod and even Daisy pipes up to have her say… enjoy!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss mansplaining, geology (what exactly is it?) and park rangers...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week the girls chat to Betty Kubovy-Weiss. When Betty was 7, she was diagnosed with childhood obesity and her doctor told her mother that she would need to lose weight for the good of her health. She was put on a diet, and then, her mother wrote about that experience in Vogue. Now, at 18, she shares with Alex and Em how this has affected her self confidence and body image. We are excited to hear your thoughts on this conversation! DM and email us to share.Em has a lot of awkwards to share, and Al suddenly realises that a lot of people actually listen to the pod: that’s you people!Sponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss whether straight boys and girls can be platonic mates, how playing "guess who?" is a terrible idea and Ben Shepherd in his little golden shorts...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, the girls speak to Stuart Sandeman of Breathpod. He teaches them the basics of breath work, despite their initial trepidation, and details why these basics could be the unexpected practice that helps you in the most surprising places... In the Good, Bad and Awkward, Em traumatises Alex with her hair, they celebrate the Lionesses and I think Em says the plural of sheep is sheeps? Anyway, you decide, and let Daisy know in the emails… I may have misheard. Enjoy!Follow Stuart @breathpod on Instagram, buy his book Breathe In Breathe Out, and catch Decompression Session on BBC Radio 1.Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss the public reactions to the Lionesses' legendary victory against Germany (especially from the men in your lives), wedding dress photos and Em's air-fryer obsession...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em and Al are joined by sexy legends Florence and Reed of Come Curious! They get really deep in a conversation about non-monogamy, sex parties and anal play. The girls ask YOUR questions at the end too, once they got their own curiosities out of the way!In the Good, Bad and Awkward, the girls are back in London to talk more about puffins and discuss boot camps...Follow Florence, Reed and Come Curious on Instagram and listen to F**ks Given here!This episode is sponsored by VUSH, go to https://www.vushstimulation.com/icomefirst use the code SIDT50 for 50% off your Empress 2!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss your responses to last week's OnlyFans debacle. Em opens up a Pandora's box of embarrassing situations to keep you awake at night and Al searches for allies in her life without cooking...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week the girls chat to iconic couple Shaaba and Jamie. We hear their love story: from being best friends, to Jamie coming out as trans, to him professing his love for Shaaba. Due to Shaaba’s family having problems with their relationship, they had to make some pretty bold commitments to one another at a young age. Em can't wait to adapt their gorgeous love story into a film! Would suggest staying until the end to hear a pretty brilliant outtake.The girls join us from the Isle of Man and talk about mental health, grief and puffins…Check out Shaaba and Jamie's website hereThis episode is sponsored by WUKA, use the code SIDT20 this week to get 20% off your first order!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss men wearing kilts (yes with no pants), forgetting childhood memories and why Em can never fly a plane...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week the girls chat to fashion and lifestyle influencer Sophie Milner. They deep dive into the contentious topic of surgery, coming away with potentially more questions than answers. Sophie has been open about her surgical procedures online, something that Em and Alex applaud, but does it mean that everyone in her position should be just as open?The podcast goes on tour again with the girls on holiday. They talk geography, kayaking and the red room…Follow Sophie on Instagram and TikTokSponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy Grant Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? the girls discuss how to dress for a black tie event (with VERY differing views), Em's premium karaoke set up and a listener asks about coming out as bisexual when in a long term heterosexual relationship...Al suggests checking out Alicia McCarvell who recently came out as bisexual and is happily married to her husband.Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jac’s back… another emergency call to our resident coach Jacqueline Hurst. This week, Em opens up about her slip into checking online forums. She talks to Jacqueline about how it has really impacted her self esteem, and Jac helps dissect exactly why. This isn’t only for people who, on the off chance, may find themselves being spoken about on a forum, but for anyone who has ever been criticised. Jacqueline wants to show you how to not let it impact you, and as Al sees it, how you can use your skin as a barrier against negativity.In a slightly switched format to usual, the girls discuss snapping gussets, foul moods and why we should all #PrayForDave at the end of the episode...Check out Jacqueline's website here: https://www.jacquelinehurst.com/Sponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy Grant Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? we receive our first EVER voicenote (email us baby)!! The girls discuss unconventional ways to soothe yourself to sleep, Em’s quest to uphold good name of women drivers and Alex’s forthcoming Only Fans account… (just kidding)Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Last week we lost Em’s dear friend and inspiration to us all, the incredible Dame Deborah James. You can support the Bowel Babe Fund here: https://www.bowelbabe.org/In this episode, the girls talk with mental health ambassador and podcast host, Gemma Styles. They discuss how she chooses to be a good influence while working through her own mental health and making peace with her ADHD diagnosis. If you want more, you’re in luck! You can listen to Alex and Em on Gemma’s podcast, Good Influence, available here.Al also talks us through her decision to freeze her eggs and Em accuses her of dressing like a postman…Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me?, the girls explore when and why hen dos can be hen don’ts, why feet and restaurants should be a dish left unserved and, er, biting your dentist. Enjoy!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A heads up, this episode contains talk of suicide and eating disorders. If you'd rather skip this ep, take care, and we'll catch you on Thursday!This week the girls chat to presenter, author and former member of The Saturdays, Frankie Bridge. Frankie lives with depression and anxiety, and was one of the first celebrities to openly and publicly discuss their mental health, so the girls wanted to chat to her about this in more depth. In the Good, Bad and Awkward, the weather is again the hot topic of discussion, as are fridge magnets…This episode is sponsored by WUKA, use the code SIDT20 this week to get 20% off your first order!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? The girls receive some kinky wisdom, explore their own bellybuttons and discover the true horror of Wagamama’s firecracker chicken….Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode discusses disordered eating and dieting. If you need to sit this one out, no worries, we’ll see you on Thursday!Em and Al chat to Love Island star Shaughna Phillips. She gives them a deeper insight into what happens behind the scenes on the show. We hear more about her experience with lipoedema and her decision to have, and pay for, surgery to treat her legs.In the Good, Bad and Awkward, Em and Al deep dive into the weather before they decide that there are in fact NO bads this week…Follow Shaughna on InstagramSponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s Is It Just Me? The girls dive into bellybuttons and Dolmio sauce as they cover cousins, kinks and what-about-isms…Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we've got a slightly different episode that saw us take the podcast into central London to join the Women’s Equality Party as they Marched On The Met. When we initially contacted Patsy Stevenson, we thought this would be a standard interview week, but then we realised that there was much more that needed to be shared. Patsy attended the Sarah Everard vigil on Clapham Common in March 2021; she quickly became synonymous with the arrests that took place that day, carried out by police who saw the vigil as a breach of covid regulations. Her face was suddenly everywhere, the face of the unrest that happened when women's attempts to mourn were crushed.The story is bigger than this though. After Patsy shared her thoughts on what really happened that day, we followed her to Trafalgar Square to join a protest against institutional misogyny and racism within the police. We heard from some incredible women there, and wanted to share their thoughts with you.The speakers you heard from today were:Patsy StevensonMandu ReidMarvina Eseoghene NewtonJenn SelbyChantelle LuntDawn ButlerBell Ribeiro AddyMiss YankeySouthall Black SistersAlso, we suggest checking out Sistah Space and their work on Valerie's Law.Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For this week’s Thursday episode, Em interviews our very own best-selling author, Alex Light! Alex talks about her new book, You Are Not A Before Picture, and why YOU deserve a better life than what diet culture gives you...Please take care with this episode as the girls do discuss eating disorders and Alex’s experience, so if this episode isn’t for you, we’ll catch you on Monday!If you’re struggling with an eating disorder and are in the UK, the Beat Eating Disorders charity has a hotline. The number is 0808 801 0677 or you can visit the website at beateatingdisorders.org.uk. You can now buy Alex's book here or from all good book shops!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Em’s drunk again and Al’s sick of her new stairs…This week, the girls interview Em’s school friend and drama partner Harry Trevaldwyn, now an incredibly successful superstar actor in his own right. After deciding to take his career into his own hands during the pandemic, Harry reluctantly began posting sketches to his Instagram. They went viral, he got an agent, landed a role in The Bubble with comedy giants and then starred in the UK’s take on the cult hit Call My Agent! A true breath of fresh air, he brightened our days and we hope he brightens yours!Check out Ten Percent on Amazon and Harry’s Comedy Blap, Billi, on All4Follow Harry on Instagram @HarryTrevaldwynFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to the first Is It Just Me? Thursday special! Em calls in from her honeymoon after a few glasses of wine and Alex from the midst of moving chaos to discuss diet culture, selective hearing and yep, you guessed it, poo. Enjoy!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Em's on her Honeymoon and Al's moving house, but there will always be an episode of Should I Delete That? to bless your ears! This week's topic is one particularly close to Em's heart. In partnership with Venus and The Lady Garden Foundation, the girls talk to Jess Brown and Dr John Butler about cancer, specifically gynaecological cancer. They chat about the importance of the doctor patient relationship, knowing your body and why a cancer diagnosis isn't always doom and gloom.Follow Jess @jessbrown.98 & John @drjohnbutlerThis week's episode is sponsored by Venus!#KnowYourPubicFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we’ve got a tasty little episode for you! Not only are we celebrating half a million downloads, but we are signed to the Acast Creator Network! We couldn’t be prouder. In honour of the news, our gorgeous Amy asks the girls YOUR questions. So buckle up because its gonna be full of confessions, drum kit updates and a sprinkling of the usual poo chat…Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Here’s an episode from our friends at the Go Love Yourself podcast that we think you’ll LOVE! Laura and Lauren had Alex on to chat about diet culture, loving your clothes, and the f***ed up beauty standards that come with weddings. They also chat about the time Alex had to get Dave to take campaign photos of her in the bath, and how Betty won’t stop humping her… TW: This episode contains references to eating disorders. If you’re struggling with an eating disorder and are in the UK, the Beat Eating Disorders charity has a hotline. The number is 0808 801 0677 or you can visit the website at beateatingdisorders.org.uk. Additionally, if you're experiencing a mental health crisis, you can call the Samaritans at 116 123, or visit crowdnetwork.co.uk/helplines for a list of people you can go to for help.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week has been a tough one for Em and Al since hearing that their friend, Dame Deborah James, is now receiving end-of-life care for her battle with cancer. Em pops in to say a few words about Deb, and we encourage you to donate the cost of a drink (the girls reckon a rosé, as you will hear!) to the Bowelbabe Fund to raise money for Cancer Research UK.The girls have the honour of being graced by feminist royalty, Laura Bates. Laura is the author of now six books including her latest, Fix The System Not The Women. Although troubling and shocking, Laura's message is filled with hope and optimism for future generations to work and fight towards equality.You can follow Laura on Instagram @laura_bates__Show timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:15Interview with Laura - 00:25:38Is It Just Me? - 01:22:55Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week is Mental Health Awareness Week in the UK. This week Alex and Em are joined by the incredible Safiyya Vorajee, who lost her baby daughter, Azaylia, to childhood cancer just one year ago. Driven by the love for her daughter, she and Azaylia's father started a foundation in her honour, The Azaylia Foundation. Safiyya bravely takes on life with optimism and determination, and we want to shine a light on her story. In the usual segments of the pod, Al tries her hand at amateur gymnastics and Em wants to start a gang...Show timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:04:39Interview with Safiyya - 00:28:08Is It Just Me? - 01:28:15You can order Safiyya's book, Loving and Losing You, Azaylia here: https://smarturl.it/lsofotAnd to donate to The Azaylia Foundation, click hereFollow @beducatedcomFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Bird & Blend Tea Co.The team at Bird & Blend have said they will throw in some cheeky free samples of our favourite teas (so far!) when you use code DELETE22 at checkout - www.birdandblendtea.com, or pop into one of their stores to claim, there is a list of locations over on their website.Produced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jacq's back! Life coach Jacqueline Hurst re-joins the girls for an EMERGENCY podcast recording after their candid confessions last week around miscommunication with one other. They delve deep into what it really means to be a people pleaser, and how Em is finally free from the pressure to be just that. They also talk through Em's hen do, advocate for Popworld and debate who would win in a physical fight...Show timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:20Interview with Jacqueline - 00:30:43Is It Just Me? - 01:30:00https://www.jacquelinehurst.com/Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Em is back from her holiday and she and Alex get deep about the difficulties of maintaining a work-life balance post covid. The girls are joined by Amber Davies and they discuss her performing career, her intentions behind going on Love Island and why she would never go on again. Em also gets caught out by Siri and Al gives us a bit too much information about Dave's toilet habits...Follow Amber on Instagram: @amb_dTickets to Proud CabaretShow timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:03:28Interview with Amber - 00:31:31Is It Just Me? - 01:22:38Sponsored by Mindler, use code DELETE22 for 50% off your first therapy session.Mindler is an online therapy app, offering video call sessions with psychologists. Self-help programmes are also available in the app, covering a range of diagnoses.Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Alex is back from an eventful stint in Manhattan, and Em joins us from her holiday to talk to Sophie Butler. Soph shares how being experimental and playful with makeup and fashion has helped her become her best self. She talks about being unapologetically joyful despite the critics, and the perils of trying to be relatable.Follow Soph on Instagram @sophjbutlerShow timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:03:46Interview with Soph - 00:25:18Is It Just Me? - 01:23:22Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Mindler, use code DELETE22 for 50% off your first therapy session.Mindler is an online therapy app, offering video call sessions with psychologists. Self-help programmes are also available in the app, covering a range of diagnoses.Produced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Heads up, this episode contains a lot of heavy themes including sexual assault. Listener discretion is advised, so take care, and if you decide to sit this one out, we will see you next week!The girls have an emotional and inspiring conversation with Natalie Lee (@stylemesunday) about her journey from sexual shame to sexual freedom. They discuss when to start talking to kids about sex, owning and demanding pleasure, and how masturbation can increase your self esteem and communication skills… as well as much, much more! Alex and Em also fill us in on their holiday mishaps, including sweaty feet, solo dates and dissolving sick bags.Click here to pre-order Natalie's book from AmazonShow timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:34Interview with Natalie - 00:27:57Is It Just Me? - 01:25:46Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Mindler, use code DELETE22 for 50% off your first therapy session.Mindler is an online therapy app, offering video call sessions with psychologists. Self-help programmes are also available in the app, covering a range of diagnoses.Produced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Em and Alex talk to Nelly London about her life as an influencer and her methods for dealing with incessant trolling. Nelly also describes how being objectified and sexualised as a young person affected her relationship to her body, and influenced her anxiety. As well as that, Em and Alex talk periods and awkward accidental hand-holding!Follow Nelly on Instagram @_nelly_londonShow timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:04:40Interview with Nelly - 00:23:25Is It Just Me? - 01:31:32Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Mindler, use code DELETE22 for 50% off your first therapy session.Mindler is an online therapy app, offering video call sessions with psychologists. Self-help programmes are also available in the app, covering a range of diagnoses.Produced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week Alex and Em talk to Sarah Jayne Dunn about double standards and hypocrisy in the media. They delve into her exit from Hollyoaks and how she has found empowerment through OnlyFans.Show timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:14Interview with Sarah - 00:22:23Is It Just Me? - 01:28:55Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In part 2 of their live episode at the FENOMENAL festival, Alex and Em chat to writer Bryony Gordon. Together, they talk about Bryony’s journey with Pure O and addiction, breaking mental health stigmas paving the way for future generations to talk more openly about these issues. As always, the girls discuss your Is It Just Me?'s, and this week they explore how it feels to a partner who doesn’t understand your body image struggles.You can find Bryony's most recent books below:No Such Thing As NormalGlorious Rock BottomShow timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:01:36Interview with Bryony Gordon - 00:25:36Is It Just Me? - 01:00:55Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by George at Asda, check out their latest collection at george.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Alex and Em interviewed Candice Brathwaite for their first ever live episode! The recording took place on International Women's Day at George's FENOMENAL festival, a day dedicated to celebrating and redefining femininity. Candice talks about childbirth and how, as a black woman, her concerns were dismissed and she was almost fatally mistreated, an all too common experience that is explored further in her first book I Am Not Your Baby Mother (link below). The girls also explore And Just Like That, the pitfalls of comparison and, of course, Candice's incredible style...You can find Candice's books below:Sista SisterI Am Not Your Baby MotherAnd you can follow her on Instagram @candicebrathwaiteShow timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:21Interview with Candice Brathwaite - 00:20:34Is It Just Me? - 01:01:04Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by George at Asda, check out their latest collection at george.comProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For International Women's Day, we have partnered up with the incredible charity Refuge, who are tirelessly working to put an end to domestic abuse and violence against women and children. We speak to three women: survivor Natasha Saunders, barrister Cherie Blair and Refuge's CEO Ruth Davison. We hope this episode gives you a deeper insight into the importance of Refuge's work and mission, and if you are able, please consider donating to Refuge via their website, link below.Find out more about Refuge here: https://www.refuge.org.uk/You can call the UK's National Domestic Abuse Hotline on 0808 2000 247or access their live chat Monday to Friday, 3–10pm at www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk Natasha's website is https://www.natashasaunders.co.uk/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On the release of this episode, it didn’t feel right to ignore or fail to address the tragic, heartbreaking developments in Ukraine.Depending on our schedules, we often pre-record our episodes before they goes live and for this reason, we haven’t acknowledged the devastating events that are currently unfolding in this upcoming episode.  While we’re still not entirely sure what we can do to help in even the smallest way, we are currently speaking with trusts and charities on how best to bring more light to the situation and share with you. Unfortunately, time isn’t always on our side and we haven’t been able to make this happen as quickly as we would have hoped. We’re sending love out to everyone and hope that we can help direct you to channels that share the facts on the situation and also what we as individuals can do to help.This week, we grill Dr. Joshua Wolrich on common dieting misconceptions. He busts myths about sugar, gluten, diet coke and even microwaves...You can find Dr. Josh's book here: https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/1120378/food-isn_t-medicine/9781785043451.htmlAnd you can follow him on Instagram @drjoshuawolrichShow timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:20Interview with Dr. Joshua Wolrich - 00:18:40Is It Just Me? - 01:17:00Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, the girls talk to grief guidance counsellor Lizzie Pickering, who Em has a special personal connection with. Lizzie shares her heart-rending experience of losing her son Harry to a rare form of muscular dystrophy, and explains how her grief taught her to live more in the moment and love even deeper. If you want to support the publication of Lizzie’s book When Grief Equals Love, you can donate at https://unbound.com/books/when-grief-equals-love/. Follow Lizzie @lizzie.pickering on Instagram, and you can find out more about Helen & Douglas House on their website: https://www.helenanddouglas.org.uk/Show timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:02:38Interview with Lizzie Pickering - 00:15:57Is It Just Me? - 01:23:00Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Happy Valentine's Day! Dating Educator @LalalaLetMeExplain joins the girls this week to share some priceless pearls of wisdom. She explains how to spot the pink and red flags in relationships, and why women should never settle for second best. Later, Is It Just Me? gets scatological as Em and Alex learn a little too much about the term “cup-caking”.Contacts:GIVE US A SHOUT - Text 'Shout' to 85258THE SAMARITANS - Call 116 123Show timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:05:36Interview with LalalaLetMeExplain - 00:21:28Is It Just Me? - 01:23:07Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Al is back from her honeymoon and FINALLY learns of the surprise guest that Em has lined up for her — luckily she couldn’t have been more prepared for this one! The girls also dive back into your embarrassing stories and Is It Just Me’s, and dish out a little bit of advice…Show timestamps:Good, Bad & Awkward - 00:07:25Interview with Bonita Norris - 00:23:17Is It Just Me? - 01:38:12Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by MindlerMindler is an online therapy app, offering video call sessions with psychologists. Self-help programmes are also available in the app, covering a range of diagnoses.https://bit.ly/3g1fQIeProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Alex and Em chat to their partners Dave and Alex. We get a glimpse of the boys’ sensitive sides as they talk proposals, the pros and cons of life with an influencer, and their increasing anal bead collections...Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by MindlerMindler is an online therapy app, offering video call sessions with psychologists. Self-help programmes are also available in the app, covering a range of diagnoses.https://bit.ly/3ubIuP0Produced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s a biggie this week! Em and Alex chat to none other than Jameela Jamil about the portrayal of women in the media. Jameela recounts her own experiences of being demonised online, and reflects on the ways that women have been taught to tear each other down. She talks about her attempts to buck this trend, and her mission to make I Weigh a non-judgmental space in which people can learn and grow. On top of all this, Em shares the difficulties of wedding-planning as a feminist, and Alex confesses to a Candy Crush addiction...@jameelajamil@i_weighFollow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by MindlerMindler is an online therapy app, offering video call sessions with psychologists. Self-help programmes are also available in the app, covering a range of diagnoses.https://bit.ly/3Kvof4r Produced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of ‘Should I Delete That?’ Em and Alex talk to the lovely Holly Hagan about her drastic shift in perspective when it comes to diet culture. Holly recalls the early abuse she received from trolls and the media, who put pressure on her to change her appearance but then judged her when she did so. She chats about the importance of having the space to make mistakes online and learn from them. The girls also get candid about marriage, contraception mishaps and even peeing in the shower!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by MindlerMindler is an online therapy app, offering video call sessions with psychologists. Self-help programmes are also available in the app, covering a range of diagnoses.https://bit.ly/3K7rU8JProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to ‘Should I Delete That?’, and our first episode of 2022! In their brand new segment ‘the good, the bad, and the awkward’, Em and Alex reflect on the past few weeks, covering everything from reaching number one in the podcast charts to getting shadow banned by Instagram! The girls turn to life coach Jacqueline Hurst for some fantastic tips on how to become less reactive to criticism, and they discuss the importance of feeling your feelings fully. In the final segment, Em and Alex share listeners’ embarrassing stories, and even let slip some zingers of their own…Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by L'OccitaneWith code DELETE, listeners can exclusively get 10% off purchases online at uk.loccitane.com, as well as free delivery on all online orders until 10th February 2022. Discount available for UK customers only.Produced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to 'Should I Delete That?' In this Christmas cracker of a first episode, Em and Alex look back on 2021 month-by-month. They discuss standout news stories and share memorable moments from their personal lives. Listen out for more episodes from Em and Alex, coming up in the new year!Follow us on Instagram @shouldideletethatEmail us at shouldideletethatpod@gmail.comSponsored by Butternut Box - visit www.butternutbox.com/alexandem for 50% off your first two boxesProduced & edited by Daisy GrantMusic by Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.