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Episodes
122. End Of Our Sex Lies Era....
So, today is very sad day as it's the final episode of Sex Lies & DM Sllides. We've love, love, loved doing the podcast, so today we're taking a look back at various topics we've discussed over the last 2 years - from long distance relationships, to age gaps, to our secret single behaviour. Thank you so much to all our incredible listeners over the years, we couldn't have done this without you! I'm sure you'll be seeing lots of content with us both in the future, but for now, thank you and enjoy!! xxxxx
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09/10/24•31m 26s
121. Texting Red Flags & Digital Body Language
Today, we are diving into the world of digital body language and what are texting green and red flags. We find out what the experts have to say about good and bad body language during a first date and also, what we'd personally put up with during the early talking stages of relationships. But first, let's have a catch up and chat about all things disney!!
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08/10/24•49m 18s
120. Revealing Our Beauty Secrets...
So, as the seasons are changing and our skin is trying to adapt, we thought we'd chat about our health and beauty secrets for today's bonus. We're revealing our favourite skin care products, Saff gives away the incredible health hack she learnt during her PT course, and finally, we're giving our hot takes on the latest crazy beauty trends!
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03/10/24•24m 58s
119. Cuffing Season & Winter Coating
Today, we're talking about a couple of dating trends we've been seeing -winter coating & cuffing season. But first, we're catching up on Saff's recent Maldives trip and Ana's night sleeping in a bed with 5 people?! We then work out what exactly winter coating is, decide whether we'll be jumping on the trend, and we'll also be breaking down the many stages of cuffing season (and there's A LOT)!
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01/10/24•47m 39s
118. Love Is Blind UK's Catherine Richards Reveals All | Part 2
Today is a veeerrrry exciting episode, as we are joined by Love Is Blind UK's Catherine Richards!! Catherine spills the tea on everything that went down on the show - from how she became a contestant, how the process works, what it was like seeing Freddie for the first time, and how the relationship quickly broke down. Catherine also has some shocking revelations about Freddie and what REALLY happened after the wedding, you don't want to miss this!
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26/09/24•37m 38s
117. Love Is Blind UK's Catherine Richards Reveals All....
Today is a veeerrrry exciting episode, as we are joined by Love Is Blind UK's Catherine Richards!! Catherine spills the tea on everything that went down on the show - from how she became a contestant, how the process works, what it was like seeing Freddie for the first time, and how the relationship quickly broke down. Catherine also has some shocking revelations about Freddie and what REALLY happened after the wedding, you don't want to miss this!
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24/09/24•40m 5s
116. What Classifies As Cheating?!
For today's bonus, we are deep diving into what we believe classifies as cheating and what we think is acceptable behaviour! Is it cheating if he likes another girls instagram photo? Watches porn every night? What if he offers to walk a girl home and gives her his jacket to keep her warm? We discuss it all!
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19/09/24•23m 25s
115. Dating Dilemmas: Mummy’s boys, Cults & The ’Talking Stage’
We're back with one our favourite types of episodes - dating dilemmas!! Before we get into all your questions and relationship problems, Ana shares a hilarious voice note that she recieved from her mum that morning! Next we tackle all your dilemmas - from how to get out of the talking stage, to dealing with mummy's boys, to dating the heir of Richmond sausages?! And finally, we share our car crash stories and bizarrely, there's a lot....
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17/09/24•51m 44s
114. Autumn Dating & Trends: Are Joni Jeans Back?!
In today's bonus episode we're talking all things AUTUMN - did you guys also know that 'Autumn' is Saff's middle name?? We're chatting about which colours are in this season and what trends we'll be jumping on. We also discuss our perfect autumn dating ideas, from mulled wine at markets to Harry Potter themed wilderness walks. What're your favourite autumn trends and date idea?!
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12/09/24•22m 6s
113. Friendship Breakups: Are They Harder Than Romantic Ones?
So, after a quick catch up about our recent dates and our experiences dating naked (if you know you know), in today's episode we are talking about reunions and friendship breakups! Although we don't care so much about Oasis' reunion, we DO have a lot to say on friendship breakups and how they compare to romantic ones. We also need you guys to help us find Ana's ex best friend - where is Katie?!
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10/09/24•48m 35s
112: Doom Scrolling & Doom Stalking
Hey guys! We’re back with another bonus episode and today, we’re revealing the habits with need to break - the main one being doom scrolling! We reluctantly reveal our screen times and discuss how our doom scrolling habits have been getting out of hand! Also, Ana is testing Saff on her knowledge of TikTok trends and we try to get to the bottom of why all these old videos are resurfacing of us? Can anybody help?!
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05/09/24•26m 44s
111: Revealing Our Secret Single Behaviours
Today, we're revealing some of our secret single behaviours and how long it would take us to show them to who we're dating?! We hear all about Ana's manspreading and Saff's surprising way of disposing of her contacts lenses. Also, has Ana recently been love bombed or should we have a little faith in this potential love interest? Let us know your thoughts in the comments or on our socials @sexliespodcast
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02/09/24•51m 54s
110. Dream Cheating: Should You Be Mad When You Wake Up?
In this episode, we’re diving into the fascinating (and sometimes frustrating) world of dream cheating. It’s more common than you think, but can you really be annoyed at your partner for something they did in your dream? We explore whether our subconscious might be trying to tell us something and how those tiny thoughts from the day creep into our dreams. Plus, how do you deal with the lingering anger the next morning? And the importance of writing your dreams down before they slip away. Join us as we unpack the mysterious realm of dream cheating!
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28/08/24•20m 32s
109. Big Catch Up: Mykonos, Ibiza, and Unforgettable Stories
We’re back from traveling the world, and we’ve got so much to share! In this episode, we’re giving you the inside scoop on our adventures in Mykonos and Ibiza, including the weirdest story we’ve ever experienced involving vomit and a suitcase (you won’t believe it!). We also gush over the Greek gods—err, we mean men—Ana encountered, including the time she was chatted up by an actual knight. Meanwhile, Saff is embracing her wholesome, not-caring-for-men era. Join us for a fun, chaotic, and unfiltered catch-up!
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27/08/24•46m 43s
108. Should we always tell the truth?
Today, we’re back with one of our favourite types of episodes - answering YOUR dating dilemmas! And this week, we’re tackling some brutal topics and offering some serious advice…What do you do if you have chemistry with your bff’s boyfriend? How to deal with an ex getting back in contact? And finally, what do you do if your new partner is keeping you a secret from everyone? Tune in to hear our hot takes!
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21/08/24•22m 34s
107. Dating Dilemmas: Chemistry With Your BFF's Boyfriend?!
Today, we’re back with one of our favourite types of episodes - answering YOUR dating dilemmas! And this week, we’re tackling some brutal topics and offering some serious advice…What do you do if you have chemistry with your bff’s boyfriend? How to deal with an ex getting back in contact? And finally, what do you do if your new partner is keeping you a secret from everyone? Tune in to hear our hot takes!
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20/08/24•47m 15s
106. Brat Summer
Sooo, today we’re finally talking all things Brat Summer (and turns out Saff has been embracing hers before Charli even came up with the phrase?!) We talk about the craziest things we’d do on a date and we start our preparations for our Ibiza trip!
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14/08/24•19m 47s
105. Relationship Comparisons: Are We Sharing Too Much?
In this episode, we’re diving into the tricky world of relationship comparisons. Would it be strange to have an argument and then post about it online? We explore why we compare our relationships to others, especially when social media only shows the highlight reel. We also fantasise about our dream proposals—would we drop hints, or let it be a surprise? Plus, Ana shares the details of a reading that predicted she’ll have a baby in 2025. With relationships being so accessible now, is it too much? Tune in for an honest discussion on love, comparison, and modern romance.
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12/08/24•48m 11s
104. Do You Have to Be Fully Healed to Date Again?
Today, we tackle the big question: do you have to be fully healed to date again? We explore what it truly means to be healed and why some people find it hard to hop from relationship to relationship. What is this "healing era" everyone talks about, and why is it easier to heal when you hate somebody? We also discuss the signs that you might not be ready to date again and whether searching your ex on socials counts as a red flag. Join us for a deep dive into the complexities of healing and dating.
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07/08/24•21m 38s
103. The 36 Questions to Fall in Love: Part Two
This week, we dive back into the 36 questions to fall in love quiz, exploring some thought-provoking and fun topics. From whether we rehearse phone calls to whether we'd prefer to retain the mind or body of a 30-year-old, we get deep and personal. Plus, Ana gives us a quick update on her cruise adventures—did she manage to book that couples massage, and why do these eager guys keep flocking to her?
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05/08/24•45m 31s
102. Have you ever had a flirtationship?
Today, we’re diving into the world of flirtationships and what happens when they move from DMs to real life. Ever had someone slide into your DMs and a flirtationship that only exists there? We’re sharing your responses and stories. Ana spills on the time she left after 10 minutes because of a major catfish—have you ever been catfished? Plus, we debate whether Instagram is actually the biggest dating app out there. Join us for a fun and revealing episode!
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31/07/24•16m 13s
101. Dating Dilemmas: The Juiciest Confessions
We’re back with another episode full of juicy dating dilemmas! Today, we’re discussing everything from sleeping with someone in the friendship group to not having sex with a partner for 10 years. What’s it like to sleep with a new partner right after a relationship? How do you handle time differences in a long-distance relationship? Plus, dealing with a boyfriend’s mum who doesn’t like you and the tricky situation of an ex wanting to be friends. Tune in for our hot takes and advice on these complex scenarios!
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29/07/24•43m 29s
100. Right Person, Wrong Time?
Today, we're diving into the age-old dilemma: meeting the right person at the wrong time. Saff shares her two different approaches to this tricky situation. Is it just an excuse or a coping mechanism? Do you believe there's ever a right time? Ana weighs in on whether it's all situation-dependent. Plus, we explore the fascinating invisible string theory. Join us for a deep and thoughtful conversation on timing in relationships and what it all really means.
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25/07/24•20m 10s
99. Are Dating Apps OUT?
Today, we're tackling a hot topic: are dating apps on the decline? We debate whether they're an amazing way to meet people or just a platform for judging someone by their photos. What would work (and what wouldn't) if a guy approached you in real life? We share our thoughts on whether it's harder to find a genuine connection on apps. Plus, Ana spills the tea on whether her cheesy chat-up lines have worked and Saff explores if running clubs are the new hot spots for dating.
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24/07/24•40m 29s
98. Embracing Our Feminine Energy!
Today, we're diving into the world of feminine energy! What does it mean to give off feminine energy, even if sometimes we sit with our legs spread? We'll explore the concepts of light and dark feminine energy and debate if embracing feminine energy is reviving outdated roles. Plus, when dating, do you tap into your feline energy? And, of course, we discuss our dream dates!
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17/07/24•20m 9s
97. Catch Up Ep
We’re back with another juicy episode! Ana just got back from her wild trip to Bali and Saff’s been living it up in Berlin. Bali was party central, but Ana didn’t go on any dates there... because she had one right before her trip with a finance bro she matched with on Raya! Raya’s been working wonders for Ana, and today she’s reading out her messages (with a little help from Saff, of course). Plus, we’re diving into the latest Love Island drama and Saff shares her thoughts on the cheating scandal. It’s an episode you don’t want to miss!
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15/07/24•41m 19s
96. YOUR Jaw-Dropping Dilemmas: Should I Date My Exes Mum!?
We’re BACK with our absolute FAVEEEE kinds of episode. Yep, you guessed it - it’s YOUR dating dilemmas. And boy oh boy do we have some shocking ones for you today… from ‘Should I date my exes mum (?!)’ to ‘What is an acceptable body count to have?’ We answer them all!
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11/07/24•26m 5s
95. Can Men and Women EVER Really Just Be Friends?!
It's that age old debate made popular in the hit movie When Harry Met Sally. But why are we still questioning it to this day? Today, we discuss if men and women can ever really just be friends, or whether they will always end up being romantically involved. Plus, Ana shares her own experiences on this topic.
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08/07/24•42m 11s
94. Are We In Our Celibacy Era?
Celibacy is something we've been wanting to talk about for a hot minute! After seeing that #celibacy has 78 million posts on TikTok, we knew we had to give our hot take on the topic. Today, we discuss all things celibacy, our opinions on it and whether we've ever taken a period of celibacy... by choice or not!
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04/07/24•18m 45s
93. Hot Girl Summer Is Finally Here!
It's finalllly the summer - the weather is weathering, England are doing well in the Euros and things are looking up. AND hot girl summer is upon us! Today we reminisce about our previous hot girl summers, holiday we've taken together and our plans for this summer too. Plus, we talk about if our holiday romances and give our tips on how to have a hot girl summer.Got a hot girl summer story? DM us @sexsliespodcast on Instagram
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02/07/24•45m 27s
92. Your Dilemmas - Am I Dating The Wrong People?!
We are back with another one of our absolute FAVE episodes! Yes, you guessed it: we are answering MORE of your dating dilemmas. In today's episode, we discuss what to do when your boyfriend of 10 years doesn't want to have sex with you, tips on dating with anxiety and how to deal with it when a boy says ‘I like you but I’m not ready.' Plus, we give our hot take on one of your more *gross* dilemmas. You'll have to listen to find out!
As always, these are anonymous and we aren’t dating experts, we are just giving you our opinions on your questions.
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26/06/24•21m 23s
91. The Three Loves Theory
Have you ever heard of the 'Three Loves' theory?
Today, we discuss the idea that you only have 3 loves in your life: the first love, the intense love and the everlasting love. We give our hot take on whether we believe this theory AND we discuss how many times we've been in love.
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24/06/24•42m 16s
90. The Different Attachment Styles in Dating
We've been wanting to talk about the different attachment styles in dating on the pod forever and some of these really resonate with us! From anxious attachments to avoidant to secure, we discuss them all. Plus, we talk about which attachment styles we think we are or have been in previous relationships.
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19/06/24•23m 35s
89. Manifesting QUEEN Roxie Nafousi on All Things Manifesting
We absolutely LIVE by manifesting, so we are super excited to be joined today by Roxie Nafousi, who is a 2x Sunday Times Bestselling Author and the absolute QUEEN of manifesting. In this episode, she answers all of your questions on all things manifesting, from how to create a vision board to daily manifestation practices and how you can remove fear and doubt when manifesting your perfect life. Plus, Roxie gives her top tips on how to manifest a relationship.
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18/06/24•49m 24s
88. Can You REALLY Fall In Love At First Sight?
There are soooo many reality dating shows nowadays that depict contestants falling in love with the potential suitor in *an instant*. This got us thinking… can you ACTUALLY falling in love someone at first sight? We give our two cents on the topic and we reveal if we’ve ever fallen in love with someone when first meeting them.
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12/06/24•19m 23s
87. Boundaries in Dating
Boundaries are such an important part of dating, whether you just started seeing someone or you are in a long-term relationship. We wanted to break-down some of the different boundaries you should keep in mind and the importance of them - from physical to emotional and more. Plus, Ana opens up about the boundaries she put in place when she was dating her ex-boyfriend.
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10/06/24•36m 18s
86. Do The 36 Questions To Fall In Love Actually Work?
Have you ever wondered if you actually fall in love someone by asking them a handful of questions? Well a study by psychologist Dr. Arthur Aaron seems to think you can! We take a look at those 36 questions and whether these can help you fall in love.
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05/06/24•22m 19s
85. Men vs. Women Female STEREOTYPES
We’ve all come across certain types in our dating lives right? From the bad boy, to spending time with “mr.unavailable” or the classic ‘man child’, we take a look at ALL the common stereotypes in men when on the dating scene. Plus we look at some of the stereotypes that women tend to fall under in the dating world as well.
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03/06/24•46m 9s
84. Dating Milestones: The “Exclusive” Chat
Going through the stages of dating can be quite the journey (we would know!) So we thought this bonus episode would be a perfect chance to look at dating milestones and how to navigate those big moments, one step at time. From when should you make things official, to when should your meet partner's family and when is the right time to book your first holiday today together as a couple? Plus, we discuss whether being "exclusive" is a cop out
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29/05/24•23m 58s
Beige Flags vs. Red Flags
We’ve been wanting to do an episode on this for ages! Beige flags is a major trend on TikTok atm so we wanted to talk about all the major differences between beige AND red flags. We also discuss some of our own beige flags and reveal some of yours too! Plus Saff gives an update on her trip to LA, and the very “interesting” fact she’s learned about the new gym she is going to.
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27/05/24•49m 0s
82. Reading OUR DM's
We wanted get back to basics with this podcast…so thought we'd share some the wild and weird DMs WE have received. From Ana's flirtatious messages from guys, to people sending Saff some very traumatic breakup stories - these are honestly wild!
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22/05/24•23m 11s
81. Your Dating Dilemmas - “When Mum HATES Your Boyfriend….”
It’s that time again! In this episode, we try and answer all of your dating & relationship dilemmas. From what to do if you fancy your housemate, to dealing with feeling left out when being the only single girlie in your friendship group, and how do you navigate the awkward situation if a friends boyfriend starts flirting with you? Plus, we answer the big question… how to talk to your mum if she does not support your relationship? Remember these are all anonymous!
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20/05/24•41m 19s
80. Unrequited Love
We all had that feeling of literally being *obsessed* with someone, but has a crush ever gone TOO far for you? This bonus episode we take a look at trending terms called unrequited love and limerence - plus we confess if we’ve both ever felt this way before…
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15/05/24•18m 25s
79.The Female Gaze vs. The Male Gaze
We’re getting pretty deep in this episode! There’s a major trend on TikTok on the topic of the "male gaze" vs the "female gaze"... especially when it comes to dating. We talk about the major differences in what men find attractive compared to women, from dating apps to dress sense and more! Plus, we give tops tips to spice up your dating profiles just in time for hot girl summer.
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13/05/24•46m 2s
78. All About The DMs…
We wanted to get back to basics and discuss all things DMs! We chat about top tips to slide into someone DM’s, and the weirdest DM’s we’ve ever gotten. Plus, you guys sent in some of the brave way you've slid in... and we were honestly shocked by the responses!
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08/05/24•21m 28s
77. Can Situationships ACTUALLY Work + Ana’s Own Experience
We’ve all been in a situationship, aka not a real relationship and a lot of confusion about where you stand with the other person. This got us thinking... can they actually work and can casual dating ever be a good thing? Plus, we take a look at the major differences between situationships and friends with benefits, and Ana opens up about her own experience.
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06/05/24•49m 4s
76. Dating Non-Negotiables - The Things WE Wouldn't Put Up With
Everyone has things they absolutely would never put up with when it comes to dating, while some people are more open when they are dating someone new. So, we wanted to take a deep dive into some dating non-negotiables, like would you ever date someone who doesn’t want kids to would you date a smoker. Plus, we give our hot take on our non-negotiables.
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01/05/24•24m 28s
75. Can You Ever be FRIENDS with an EX?
Since we both met up with our exes recently (just as friends), we thought we would discuss all things break ups and exes. Like can you actually be friends with an ex? Would you ever let one of your friends date your ex? Plus, you sent us some crazyyy break up stories
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29/04/24•50m 11s
74. STOP Telling Single People This!
We all know our coupled up friends mean well when they give us advice... but sometimes, it’s just NOT helpful! So, we’re turning the tables and gently reminding our friends who are in relationships why certain things are just not useful to tell a single friend.
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24/04/24•25m 15s
73. Coachella Catch Ups + Saff Addresses Relationship Rumours
We are BACK from Coachella and boy do we have a lot catch up on! Our trip also got us thinking about all the major differences between America and the UK.. from dating to lifestyle to fashion (trust us, there are A LOT!) Plus, Saff spills the tea on whether she found her soulmate in LA and she addresses rumours about her ex-boyfriend. You won't want to miss this one! x
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22/04/24•54m 8s
72. Your Dilemmas - Can You REALLY Love Two People At Once?
It’s that time again, we help answer your big dating dilemmas. Can an open relationship REALLY work? Can you love two people at the same time? We also discuss what to do when your partner likes another girls thirst traps on Instagram, and whether you should end a relationship if you haven’t had sex for SEVEN years. As always, dilemmas have been kept completely anonymous and this is just our take on these, we are not experts! xo
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17/04/24•20m 17s
71. Our (and Your) Worst EVER Dating Stories!
Sometimes you end up having a date that goes horribly wrong... but we keep telling ourselves it’s for the plot right?!? In this episode, you guys sent in your WORST ever dating stories that honestly had our jaws on the floor. Plus, we share our own worst dating stories! From someone demanding that their date paid for their train home, to a date that turned into a strange supermarket errand, to a guy wanting to keep a date on the DL.
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15/04/24•46m 46s
70. One Night Stands - Is There A DOUBLE STANDARD Between Men and Women?
In this week’s bonus episode we’re exploring a little bit of a taboo topic (well it shouldn’t be in 2024)… one night stands! From what we really think about only sleeping with someone once and never seeing them again, to the insane double standard of men vs. women for one night stands, and what is actually the proper etiquette with ONS?
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10/04/24•19m 0s
69. How To Be A Girl Boss, Babe!
We’ve been wanting to do this episode for such a loooong time and it’s finally here! Today, we’re giving alllll of our top tips on how to be a bad ass girl boss in 2024... Because we think we’ve learned a few things from working for ourselves over the years. Plus, we talk about what it’s really like to be an influencer (it’s not all glitz and glam!)
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08/04/24•44m 2s
68. New Season, New Us??
Spring is FINALLY upon us, which got us thinking about all the things we’re absolutely obsessed with this season and how we're levelling up! From spring cleaning, to what is on our bucket list for hot girl summer, to Ana’s insane Coachella plans & Saff’s adventure in LA. Eeeekkkk we’re sooo excited! Love you guys!
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03/04/24•21m 36s
67. Your Dating Dilemmas Answered & Saffron's Relationship Update
You asked and we delivered! In today’s episode, we answer all of your MAJOR dating dilemmas like how to get back into dating pool after a break up, what to do if your ex starts seeing someone immediately after you break up and how to pluck up the courage to ask a guy out! Plus, Saff gives us a little update on how she’s been since becoming a single girlie again (*hint: she’s thriving*)! As always, these dating dilemma questions are anonymous and we aren’t dating experts, we are just giving you our take on your questions.
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01/04/24•42m 43s
65. Dating Older vs. Younger - Does Age REALLY Matter?
Something that seems to be a dating trend in 2024 is cross-generational relationships. So we thought we’d take a deep dive and ask the big questions.... like would we rather date someone older or younger than us? Does age REALLY matter when you’re dating someone and can age gap relationships really stand the test of time? Plus, we talk about the major differences when dating older vs. younger.
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28/03/24•20m 31s
65. The Power of Female Friendships
This episode is for the girlies!! We don't know about you but female friendships have always been so important in our lives and in this episode, we thought we'd talk about all the amazing reasons why our female friendships are so special to us. Plus, we chat about the secret to long lasting friendships, the major differences between female friendships and male friendships and we ask: are our female friends really our soulmates??
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26/03/24•44m 57s
64. It's Just A Little Crush
Everyone’s had a little crush in their life right? Well in today’s bonus episode, we thought we’d explore the topic a little deeper and look at our own experiences of having a crush. We chat all about inappropriate crushes, silly things we’ve done to impress the crush and which silver fox do we fancy in Hollywood atm?
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21/03/24•20m 57s
63. Celebs Go Dating expert Anna Williamson Answers YOUR Dating Questions/Dilemmas
We’ve been saying for aaaages that we wanted to get a dating expert on and we finally have! In today’s episode, we are joined by the dating expert to the stars, Anna Williamson, to answer all of our (and your) burning questions! Please note all of these will remain anonymous.
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19/03/24•45m 33s
62. Outdated Dating Etiquette - Should It Stay or Go
In this week’s bonus episode, we look at well-known dating etiquette and traditions from over the years and whether these are still relevant in 2024 or outdated and need to go. We discuss things like calling vs texting, whether a guy should pick up a girl for a first date, and waiting 'til the third date to seal the deal. Love you guys! Xoxox
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14/03/24•20m 24s
61. Common Dreams & What They REALLY Mean
This is honestly one of our fave episodes to date! We take a look at some common dreams and what they REALLY mean - from dreaming about being naked to falling and flying. Plus, we share some crazy dreams we've been having recently - honestly your jaws will be on the floor after hearing these stories! Please note: we are NOT dream experts so these are all down to interpretation and can generate multiple meanings.
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12/03/24•37m 43s
60. What We Do in Early Stages of Dating Vs. Serious Relationship
There are so many unspoken rules especially when it comes to what you supposedly should and shouldn’t do in early stages of dating vs in an established relationship. From when should you be comfortable enough to go to bathroom (particularly going for a number two), to when should you start leaving stuff at your partners house to doing “wifey s***” like booking appointments for them - we look at all the scenarios!!
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07/03/24•19m 42s
59. Is Love REALLY Blind?
We’ve been watching the hit Netflix reality dating series Love is Blind and it really got us thinking about what are the most important things in a relationship... *especially* when it comes to physical vs emotional attraction. We also have a little chat on whether love really IS blind... and do the little things actually matter when you are dating someone?!
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05/03/24•42m 58s
58. Advice From Dating Coaches - Do These ACTUALLY Work IRL
There’s so much dating advice out there - so we’d thought we’d get two cents from the real professionals! In today’s bonus episode we are looking at tips from dating coaches and decide whether any of them are useful or simply outdated in 2024.
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29/02/24•21m 20s
57. Teens vs. Our Twenties - The HONEST Truth
So much has changed in the last few years it’s absolutely wild! So we thought we would look back on our teenage years vs. now: our early twenties and the major lessons we’ve learned along the way! From relationships to dating dos & don’t, body image advice we wished we'd told our younger selves (remember you are ALL GORGEOUS) and more! You won’t want to miss this episode!
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27/02/24•47m 1s
56. Weirdest Ghosting Excuses
Dating is not for the weak - especially when it comes to dealing with ghosting & relationships ending. But sometimes people give the absolute weirdest reasons as to why they do it… So we’d thought it’d be a perfect opportunity to look at the craziest reasons why people have ghosted, broke up with someone or rescheduled a date and we debate whether they were valid reasons or just absolute rubbish!
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22/02/24•17m 44s
55. Sex Myths Debunked
There are so many questions and rumours around sex and intimacy so we’d thought we’d debunk some myths once and for all! We tackle myths like can you actually get pregnant when you’re on your period to questions around contraception and more! And honestly we also learned a thing or two as well! And remember if you have any further questions - please don’t hesitate to contact your gynaecologist or GP as they are the best medical professionals to ask!
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20/02/24•48m 50s
54. Insane Things Girls Do That We Never Tell Men About
This episode is dedicated to all the girlies out there, as we bond over all the wild & insane things women do that they never tell men about! From giving secret code names to boys girls are dating, to everything shower and more.
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15/02/24•21m 10s
53. Is Valentine’s Day Actually Worth It?
Love is in the air so you know what that means…. we fill you guys in on our romantic and not so romantic Valentine’s/ Galentine’s plans. And we ask the all important question is Valentine’s Day still a thing in 2024? Plus we fill you guys in our Valentine’s day & Galentines day plans this year and Ana reveals the actual insane dating rejection story- honestly the audacity of men sometimes!!!!
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13/02/24•42m 3s
52. Biggest Dating Lessons We’ve Learned
We’ve ALL made mistakes when it comes to dating and finding a romantic partner. In this week’s episode we asked you guys what are the most important dating lessons you’ve learned along the way and we’ve got some very fun and serious ones! You won’t want to miss this ep girlies! Xxx
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08/02/24•19m 3s
51. How To Survive & THRIVE in A Long-Distance Relationship
Saff’s man is chasing his dreams in America atm which means Saff is in a long distance relationship (again!!!). So we’d thought this is the perfect episode to chat about how to navigate and *keep* the romance alive when your partner lives far away. We also chat about pros & cons of being in a long distance relationships (we promise there’s deffo more pros than cons)! And you know what they say, distance makes the heart grow fonder…. Plus Saff reveals if is she'll move to America to be closer to Louis and Ana spills the tea on if her and blind date boy are *officially exclusive*!!!
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06/02/24•47m 13s
50. Is 2024 The Year of Male Vulnerability?
As we’re leaving January blues behind and looking ahead to the rest of the year, we thought we’d dive into the top predicted dating trends for 2024. From polyamory, to age-gap dating and is this the year where men will share more emotional side in their dating lives?? Watch now to find out!
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01/02/24•19m 48s
49. Being Delusional - Dating & Romance
Everyone has been delulu in some point of their lives and in this episode we dive into what people can be delusional about especially when it comes to dating and relationships! Because come on girls don’t lie, we know we’ve alllll been there! From chatting about unrealistically planning your wedding in your head after a first date with a guy, to grand gestures to show your love for someone and we ask the important questions like are men or women more delusional when it comes to relationships? Plus Saff spills the tea on her very traumatic ski trip, her boyfriend chasing his dreams in America and Ana gives a lil update on her dating life - is 2024 the year of the boyfriend???
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30/01/24•51m 59s
48. Ask Us Anything (and I Mean Anything!)
We always love answering your questions and this episode, we answer everything your have been dyinggggg to know! From when our next girl trip is, to advise on figuring out your twenties, and what do we see each other doing in ten years. It’s giving major girl boss energy (in a good way!)
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25/01/24•20m 10s
47. Are Saff & Her Boyfriend A Match-Made in Heaven?
This week’s episode you’re in for a real treat! We dive into astrology and we ask the hard hitting question like, does astrology actually make a difference in someone’s dating life? Is zodiac sign compatibility really a thing? We even do a little chart reading and learn if it’s written in the stars that Saff & her BF are the perfect match that will stand the test of time. Plus, are Saff & Ana destined to be BFF’s for life? The future could be in our charts….
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23/01/24•51m 25s
46. dating terminology
There are many new terms and words in the dating world right now that we can’t keep track! So we’d thought we’d put our dating skills to the test and guess what each dating slang means. Honestly some of the words will have your jaws on the floor!
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18/01/24•19m 28s
45. dating & desirability
In this week’s episode we chat about all the little secrets we do in order to feel more confident/ desirable when going to a night out on the town. From positive pep talks, to what perfume our outfits we’d deffo wear to make us feel our best, and body language to give the boys a hint to strike a convo. And remember ladies, the most important thing is you want to make yourself feed good and being desirable for YOURSELF. Self love is sexy and it’s alll about the female gaze, no male gaze over here! Plus Ana spills the tea on if she’s going on a second date with the January boy…
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16/01/24•50m 37s
44. Ins & Outs
We've seen a lot of people sharing their 2024 ins & outs and thought it was time to get in on the action, so Saf & Ana are sharing theirs for the year in this week's bonus ep!
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11/01/24•26m 17s
43. New Year New You
2024 has started with a bang and there is already so much to catch up on - hospital visits, New Year's chaos and a very promising first date amongst a lot of other bits
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09/01/24•47m 37s
42. 2023 life lessons
It's nearly the end of the year so Saff & Ana chat about their 2023 life lessons with a list of what they've learned, and what energy they're taking into 2024 with them. HNY everyone!
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28/12/23•23m 46s
41. Boxing Day Special
The girls are back on Boxing Day to chat about what they got up to on Christmas Day, the logistics of cooking a big roast and Elf on a Shelf. Saffron has a big NYE coming up, and Ana let us know what big gift she got her girls for Xmas!
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26/12/23•55m 8s
40. Stalking the ghosts of Christmas past
Tis the season girls! We’re getting allllll cosy and giving you a festive survival episode - we’re brainstorming Christmassy date ideas and talking setting fire to marshmallows, festive ex-stalking and situationship gift-giving…plus, what do you do when time with the fam leads to pressure to put a ring on it?
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21/12/23•27m 50s
39. Dilemmas: The Festive Edition
Christmas is less than a week away and what better way to get ready than with a round of festive dilemmas?! Ana and Saff rate roast dinners, chat about Xmas texts from your ex and whether or not your situationship deserves a gift.
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19/12/23•46m 42s
38. Dating advice: DM’s edition
We always love doing a little q&a so we thought why not do it again this week! We help answer your dating problems from what gifts to get your special someone (because honestly shopping for men can be so hard!) Plus will we be each other’s maids of honours one day?? And Ana admits to a quite an embarrassing twerking encounter with her mum!
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14/12/23•29m 28s
37. Get ready with us! Holiday edition
It’s that time of year again…. And what better way to get into the holiday spirit then a little get ready with us! We spill all the tea on what our Christmas and NYE plans are this year (including Saff’s festive plans with her boo!).
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12/12/23•58m 54s
36. Ana’s wild Hinge date
Ana gives us allllll the tea on what really happened on her recent Hinge date and it definitely gives us main character energy. Plus, will she see him again???
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07/12/23•23m 45s
35. Your Dating Dilemmas Solved!
You asked, we delivered! We answer all of your burning questions and dilemmas in today’s episode, which also features a little story of us potentially being faceapped by the same man a while back??!!
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05/12/23•52m 0s
34. A moment for the single girlies
Yes Saff has left her single girl era and honestly, we love to see it. It is cuffing season, after all! But today's episode is an ode to singleness and Ana's positive perspective on embracing being uncoupled.
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30/11/23•30m 37s
33. Saffron's got a boyfriend
We saw the hard launch, we need to know the details. Grab a cup of tea, it's time to hear all about Saffron's new boyfriend...
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28/11/23•41m 6s
32. Snog, Marry, Avoid
Grab a drink girls, it's time to play snog, marry, avoid! We honestly couldn't keep it together in this episode - way too many hilarious combinations. Please tell us what your answers would have been?! (Goes without saying, this episode was filmed before Saffron's new relationship.)
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23/11/23•19m 19s
31. Flirting: the awkward, the weird and the chaotic
With all the travel we've both been doing recently, we recorded this episode a couple of weeks in advance (just before Saff dropped the hard launch). In this episode we deep dive into the chaotic world of flirting, discovering we both go for sarcasm and teasing over anything and that boys truly will say the weirdest shit to get your attention.
(06:00) Americans and Brits flirt SO differently
(10:45) Ana's best/worst flirting story
(13:36) The Box is the wildest club??
(16:40) Flirting with *a certain* YouTuber
(20:00) Different dates make flirting way easier
(20:41) Eye contact is top tier flirting
(23:39) You've still got to keep the spark going when you get into a relationship
(26:25) It's so much easier to flirt with someone if you DON'T fancy them??
(29:00) When boys can't get the hint
(29:50) "Shut up and kiss me"
(33:55) Teasing and playfulness is such an easy in
(38:00) The hall of shame
(45:00) Ana's going to Paris for a first date then..
(50:00) Hearing from you guys
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21/11/23•59m 18s
30. Your DMs: "His ex's parents were eating at the table next to us?!?!"
We're delving into the DMs you guys have sent us today discussing all things "meet-the-parents" and you guys delivered!! From bumping into your boyfriends ex's parents at a restaurant, what you'd do if your boyfriend's mum didn't like you and our advice on what to do if your parents aren't keen on your new partner..
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16/11/23•26m 1s
29. Saff's hinted at engagement rings, Ana's off-putting "meet the parents" experience and our mums have their say
By now, Saff has revealed Mystery Man on IG - the hard launch none of us saw coming! In this episode recorded just before the big reveal, we talk about meeting the parents - why it can be such a stressful occasion and our mum's perspectives on it. See you Thursday for our bonus ep!!
(03:07) Saff’s NYC debrief
(07:22) ..and now she’s off to Monte Carlo with Mystery Man
(10:00) How far off meeting the parents is she?
(11:30) What made Ana feel nervous about introducing a boyfriend to her mum?
(14:40) why Saff loves introducing people to her family
(17:45) Julie’s voice note - her perspective on meeting the boyfriend
(21:45) “What are your intentions with my daughter!!!”
(22:36) Ana feels ready to move forward with someone new
(25:05) Wendy’s Red flags (voicenote)
(29:00) Wendy’s Green flags (voicenote)
(31:00) Wendy’s opinion on when to meet Saff’s boyfriends (voicenote)
(32:00) We hate to admit it, but parents are always right
(35:30) Meeting before you’re official - just a waste of your parents time?
(39:00) How soon is too soon?
(40:00) Saff has told Mystery Man what engagement ring she wants???!!
(40:42) Meeting the friends vs Meeting the family
(43:24) How come Ana never met her ex’s family?
(46:30) Would you be more nervous to meet the Mum or the Dad?
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14/11/23•55m 47s
28. Do we believe in... Karma
The saying goes that what goes around comes around and when it comes to boys screwing us over, we are firm believers. In today's episode we unpack the idea of karma and whether it's a more mature approach to wish people well and move on from situations..
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09/11/23•25m 7s
27. Return of the exes: who we want closure from and who is best kept in the past
This week we’re talking about the return of the exes - they aaaaalways come crawling back and today we’re unpacking why we think that is. Also guys, for some reason we lost Saff’s camera footage for much of this episode :( next week you'll have her in full HD quality - sorry! See you on Thursday for our second episode of the week!
(01:50) Ana’s trip to LA and Vegas debrief
(11:09) Saff is heading to NYC
(14:34) This year has been the year of partying and dating for Saff
(16:50) All of Ana’s exes have come back into her DMs lately
(22:15) If Saff said she was getting back with her ex, what would Ana say?
(24:24) Why does it hurt more when situationships come to an end versus relationships?
(29:00) Saff's exes... she sees you watching her stories...
(30:35) Are they seeking closure or an excuse to see you again?
(33:28) Are there any relationships or situationships that we feel we never got closure on?
(40:43) Is there anyone from our dating history we're secretly hoping will get in touch with us again?
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07/11/23•54m 33s
26. Your DMs: Is ghosting EVER justified?
Is there ever a nice way to ghost someone? We always assume being ghosted is a brutal way of letting someone know you're no longer interested, but could there be a different perspective to consider? Let's dive in together...
(0:00) - What you missed in the main episode
(0:39) - Your experiences with ghosting
(0:47) - Is ghosting always a bad thing?
(1:55) - Asking you about ways to ghost someone
(2:04) - What are the good reasons to ghost?
(6:00) - No, there aren’t good reasons to ghost
(7:36) - We’ve put our producer to work - why would his friends ghost someone?
(9:52) - Are guys scared to get into relationships?
(11:28) - Are there different forms of ghosting?
(13:02) - Ghosting to make us want them more, it’s an ego thing
(13:50) - When does ghosting hurt the most?
(16:03) - Guys who ghost but still watch everything you do
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02/11/23•21m 38s
25. Ghosting, being called a catfish and accidentally matching with an entire friendship group
It's halloween and we've got a pretty apt topic for this week's episode - ghosting. We chat about the times we have been ghosted and we didn't care, the times when it really hurt and the times we were the ones guilty of ghosting.
(2:00) Ana has ghosted.. and she’s ashamed to admit it
(4:48) The story of the guy who thought Ana was a catfish
(10:00) When Saff got ghosted by the guy she actually really liked
(16:01) The plot thickens… this is the same guy from episode 2
(18:38) Ana matched with all the boys in this friendship group which caused one of them to ghost her
(24:15) Saff’s opinion on matching with your friendship group
(28:28) Why do you actually think people ghost?
(29:50) We can’t believe this guy used THIS excuse for ghosting…
(33:34) In the DMs: the last messages between Ana and the guy she was ghosted by
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31/10/23•39m 48s
24. How old was Saff when she lost her virginity, Ana's blocked list and our love languages ranked
We're feeling nostalgic and wanted to throw it back to the OG YouTuber trends with a friendship test. How well do we know each other, our dating history and preferences in boys? Watch on spotify and let us know in the Q&A box which other challenges you want to see from us!
(01:43) Who, when and where was Ana's first kiss?
(03:21) How old was Saff when she lost her virginity?
(03:46) How old was Ana?
(04:05) Who is the most famous person who has ever slid into Ana's DMs?
(06:56) Lights on or off?
(07:28) How many of the people Ana has got with has she blocked?
(08:15) Who is Saff waiting for to become single?
(08:45) Whats the highest number of people Ana has got with in one night?
(09:45) What does Saff think is her best feature?
(10:13) Something that gives Ana the ick
(12:22) What's Saff's biggest turn on?
(13:24) What kind of reality stars is Ana most likely to get with?
(14:32) Ranking our love languages
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25/10/23•22m 30s
23. Hot Girl Summer was a movie and we did some WILD things for the plot..
Get ready for the summer debrief guys. We were both single this summer AND we went away together loads - a perfect combination for some very questionable decisions, kissing in the clubs and some below average dates..
(05:00) This was our first hot girl summer
(05:37) Saff’s date in LA with the guy in the fluffy hat
(15:00) Ana kissing the friend… just for the plot
(21:10) Saff’s 48 hour whirlwind romance
(27:47) What happened to Alan???
(28:58) The Cruise
(33:45) Jerry, the sex addiction and the family blessing
(39:08) How old is too old for a kiss?
(41:31) The Ibiza Silver Fox
(43:43) Who’s been in our DMs?
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23/10/23•50m 56s
22. Your DMs: Can friends-with-benefits ever work out?
It's Thursday and it's time to dig into our DMs from you guys. In Tuesdays episode Saff told the story of her Friends with Benefits situation over the summer but we wanted to dig into it some more and hear some of your stories and opinions. We unpack what we define FWB to be, what we actually mean by it "working out" and what typically make it all fall apart with feelings being hurt.
(01:35) Saff recaps why her FWB felt like the perfect scenario
(02:10) Where's the friendship at now?
(03:20) Poll Results: "Can FWB ever work out?"
(04:56) Q&A DMs: Tell us your opinions and stories about FWB
(05:25) "It's only gonna go wrong if one person catches feelings"
(06:35) Do you think it's easier if it's someone you've been friends with beforehand, or someone new to your life?
(10:56) Do you think men and women approach Friends with Benefits differently?
(12:48) Tips for telling your FWB that you've caught feelings
(14:43) "Yes! It can work!" Your thoughts..
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18/10/23•23m 10s
21. Why Ana's relationship ended, Saffron tried friends-with-benefits and the hangover from hell
We're back and here to stay, girls! Since we left off in February so much has happened in our love lives and we can't wait to fill you in... It felt only right to kick off the new season updating you on why Ana's relationship came to an end (he seemed so perfect?) We unpack what led to the break up, Ana's Mum's opinion of him and remaining friends since calling it quits. Also, Saff shares all the details on the fun friends with benefits situation she had over the summer - why she went for that guy in particular and how it has impacted her views on dating.
Don't forget you can watch every episode exclusively on Spotify and this season we're spoiling you with two episodes - every Tuesday and Thursday - each week. As always, we love you guys sliding into our DMs with your thoughts, stories and dilemmas so make sure you're following us @sexliespodcast to play your part!
(00:00-01:43) We're back! What to expect this season, our relationship status
(04:05-12:39) The hangover from hell
(12:40) Ana's first ever relationship - the debrief
(20:22) the perfect valentine's day and Ana's WILD gift to her boyfriend
(30:10) when did it end and who decided to call it quits?
(32:43) getting over a relationship and why situationships can be harder to move on from
(34:48) Saffron's friends-with-benefits situation
(36:34) How it happened
(38:28) Did Saff ever consider it could evolve into a relationship?
(41:53) Enjoying FWB without getting emotionally attached
(44:46) How the FWB situation came to an end and who called it off
(48:00) What happens now? Where are we at and what do we want out of dating
(48:32) The big debate: can FWB work?
(51:48) We wanna hear from you! Tell us what you think...
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16/10/23•55m 53s
A new era for Anastasia and Saffron..
It's been a minute but Sex Lies & DM Slides is back and here to stay! Every Tuesday and Thursday Ana and Saff will be bringing you all the juicy stories from their love lives, unpacking the drama and big dilemmas we face as women dating in their twenties. Don't forget you can watch episodes in full on Spotify and look out for Instagram stories on @sexliespodcast to play your part! Hit follow so you never miss an episode and join us for the first episode back on Tuesday 17th October!
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11/10/23•53s
20: Dating Preferences For Different Genders, Dating Rumours, and Bowling Icks with Amber Gill
Going out with a bang in honour of our last episode this season as we're joined by none other than Amber Gill! We chat about how preferences can change when dating men vs. women, is it possible to get the ick when you REALLY fancy someone, and of course she spilled some love island inside secrets. You don’t want to miss this episode babes! Thank you for tuning in every week this season. See you very soon xx Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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21/02/23•1h 6m
19: Tom Malone Jr addresses the Rumours PLUS Valentine’s Day Horror Stories & Being a Hopeless Romantic
Happy V Day babes! Tom Malone Jr is here to set the record straight, addressing the rumours that he and Saff have been dating. Plus we talk about crazy Valentine’s Day stories, how Tom is really just a softie when it comes to relationships - get ready to swoon. Naturally, we got stuck into the DMs and heard some absolute shockers from you guys! Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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14/02/23•50m 44s
18: Toxic masculinity, should men pay on the first date & dating red flags in women with Ehiz Ufuah
Ehiz joins us this week to chat toxic masculinity - how to embrace your flamboyance and refusing to conform to macho stereotypes when dating women and his ideal date scenario. He gives his two cents on red flags and the age-old debate of who should pay on a first date... and of course we couldn't resist diving into his DMs! Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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07/02/23•1h 3m
17: Saff's double date AND is Ana entering the year of the boyfriend??
Hey babes! We are so excited for this week’s episode - we give you a super JUICY update on our dating lives (*cough* Ana could be off the market soon *cough*), discuss major red flags in both men AND women, and some of our NSFW DM’s (you guys, some of our messages literally are horrendous lol). Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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31/01/23•1h
16: F*** boys, love bombing and getting catfished with Ash Holme
Creator, presenter, actress and hilarious TikToker Ash Holme is totally UNFILTERED in this week’s episode. From spilling the tea on situationships, to opening up about dating bad boys (we’ve all been there sis), and the insane thirst traps men post on TikTok that have us in a chokehold. Plus Ash tells us an unreal story about the time she got catfished (it should honestly be turned into a movie). Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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24/01/23•1h 8m
15: Age gap in dating, weird partner nicknames and living alone in London with Issey Moloney
Issey Moloney (@isseypovs) is our guest this week and this one is full of surprises! From chatting about interesting nicknames you’d call your partner, if she will move in with her BF anytime soon (FR)… and is dating with an age gap really that big of a deal? Plus Issey updates us on what it’s been like living on her own in London at just 17. She is seriously killing it. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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17/01/23•53m 47s
14: Biggest dating icks and the art of breaking up with someone with Kyron Hamilton and Sam Denton
Hello lovelies, happy 2023! We’re starting off the new year with a big bang with special guests Kyron Hamilton & BF Sam Denton. On this week’s episode we cover a lot from HUGE dating icks and we’re pretty surprised with some of their answers tbh. From Kyron & Sam’s adorable love story and when is actually the best time to break up with someone (note to self: don’t do it on a national holiday *cough* Saff *cough*). Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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10/01/23•49m 4s
13: Why people cheat, friends dating your ex and matching with celebs on dating apps with Flossie
Internet sensation and all around baddie Flossie Clegg shares some very INTERESTING stories on this week’s podcast. Like we have no words still. Our girl opens up about what it’s been like since becoming a single Pringle what dating is like in London versus Manchester, and the INSANE thing she’s done when she got the ick at a boys house. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman
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03/01/23•58m 28s
12: Message from an ex on Christmas Day, Saff's recent dates and sliding in to DM’s over a roast
Happy Holidays babes! In honour of this festive period we thought we’d squeeze in one more episode to celebrate 2022 with a bang. This episode has full of juicy updates. From what we really think about dating over the Xmas period and is it ever acceptable to slide into the DMs to a story of someone’s Xmas dinner!? And of course, we’re also catching up on Saff's recent dates and Ana’s trip down under (plus, what really happened in the hostel bunk beds). We both hope you have the most wonderful Christmas if you’re celebrating it, and a great New Year! See you in 2023! Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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27/12/22•1h
11: Max Baledge talks getting catfished, sexual experimentation and Grindr: the gateway to open relationships?
We adore Max Balegde and he did not hold back in this episode, seriously. We talked about experimenting with food in the bedroom, open relationships and the strangest voice note his boyfriend sent him when they were in the talking stage. We honestly can't unhear some of these stories. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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20/12/22•54m 54s
10: Talia Mar on having “the talk”, her engagement story PLUS what she has in common with a grandad & a porn star
YouTuber and singer-songwriter Talia Mar joins us this week. We dive into figuring out the real difference between exclusive versus being in a relationship; how Talia got engaged (trust us it is veryyyy romantic) and she gives us advice on how to REALLY take your relationship to the next level. So, to all the single men out there… take several seats and listen up! Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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13/12/22•46m 50s
9: Break ups and focusing on yourself with Maddie Grace Jepson
TikTok queen and newly-single Maddie Grace Jepson sat down with us on this week’s episode and girls, she is even more hilarious and STUNNING in real life. Maddie opened up about her recent breakup from a long-term relationship, how old school romance really gives us all the feels, plus how your social posts change after becoming single. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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06/12/22•50m 58s
8: Buying your first vibrator and training for the ultimate orgasm with Coco and Cheyenne
The bombshells have entered the villa… Love Island’s Cheyanne Kerr and Coco Lodge are on this week’s episode and we are absolutely buzzing! And GIRL, our chat was unfiltered; from sex positions to self pleasure and more! Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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29/11/22•50m 58s
7: Monogomy, cheating & selling your panties on the internet with Pete Wicks
F*** me, TOWIE babe Pete Wicks sat down with us on this week’s episode and it was high-key such a great chat honestly. We went through A LOT of big topics like what Pete really thinks of monogamy & polyamory, soft launching your relationship on social media and selling your panties online (it happens more often than you think guys!). Honestly his answers had our jaws on the floor. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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22/11/22•1h 4m
6: "Hot Girl Winter" with Chezablonde
TikTok queen Chezablonde sits down with us to cover... a lot! From what type of boy us girls are into, to our honest thoughts about cuffing season (start drafting ladies). Plus Chezablonde reveals what it’s been really like under the covers since having her sex reassignment surgery. She was definitely give off main character vibes okayyyyy. Don’t forget to sent us over your most scandalous DMs because of course, we will be reading them! Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman
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15/11/22•57m 58s
5: "I want you to feel my wrath" with Byron
Our very good friend and fellow YouTuber, Byron, reveals all in this week’s episode and it’s a JUICY one. This week we had no filter and chat our craziest one-night stands and hook-up stories, why Byron thought he had ended up in a porn movie, and what really goes down on influencer trips. And of course, we get stuck into Byron’s DM's to see who he’s been messaging! Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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08/11/22•1h 7m
4: "Plough me like your farm" with Kali Sluzza
Ya girl Single Sluzza aka TikToker Kali Sluzza is on this week’s podcast. We talked about everything under the sun from best pickup lines that work while on a night out with the gals to crazy sneaky link stories. Plus Kali spills the tea on a raunchy DM with a dashing farmer - and that story alone is now living in our head rent free. And don’t forget to slide into our DM’s because we are LIVING for your messages. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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01/11/22•50m 36s
3: “If he wanted to, he would” with Danica Taylor
Gather around the fire pit immediately! We pulled Love Island contestant Danica Taylor for a chat where she spills the tea on why she called it quits with Jamie Allen since leaving the villa and behind the scenes secrets while filming the hit reality series. Plus we dive into major red, green and pink flags when it comes to dating men in 2022. And don’t forget to slide into our DM’s because we are LOVING your messages. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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24/10/22•1h 1m
2: “Thanks, step-daddy” with Joe and George Baggs
Joe and George Baggs, Googlebox legends, TikTok superstars and fellow podcasters let us slide into their DMs this week… and let’s just say it’s giving BDE. We chatted about our first times, mums always knowing best and what’s it’s REALLY been like for George taking a dip into the dating pool. Of course, our DMs remain open for all of your stories so please keep them coming! Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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17/10/22•57m 21s
1: "I'm single as F***!"
Hey guys, Saffron and Ana here! Welcome to our first episode of Sex, Lies and DM Slides where we'll be diving head first into sex, relationships, dating… and of course, the juicy DM's. One things for sure, we’re not holding back, and in this ep we share alllll the details of our past relationships, current relationships, pick up lines that give us the ick and introducing Saff to the world of dating apps! It’s juicy, it’s scandalous and it’s definitely TMI - let’s go! Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast. Produced by Spirit Studios with Raymond Tannor and Kate Willis as the producers and from Spotify the Executive Producer is Rhyanna Coleman.
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10/10/22•49m 47s
Introducing: Sex, Lies and DM Slides with Anastasia Kingsnorth and Saffron Barker
Once a cheat always a cheat? Should we all have a sneaky link? What happens when you and your best friend are DMing the same person?! Anastasia and Saffron want to talk about it all - the cringey, the cute and the outright awkward. Watch and listen every Tuesday, only on Spotify.
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10/10/22•1m 24s
S1E26: Gizzi & Sydney | Father Damon
For years Damon Lawner, AKA Father Damon, ran possibly the most exclusive sex party in the world, attended by celebrities and billionaires alike with an annual membership fee of $75,000. Damon tells Gizzi & Sydney some eye-opening stories about his Eyes Wide Shut style orgies that took place in New York, LA and Moscow and why he’s moved beyond sex parties into spiritual retreats (that also involve sex). Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original podcast from Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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10/10/22•40m 51s
S1E25: Gizzi & Sydney | Gok Wan
Legendary stylist, presenter and author Gok Wan MBE comes on the show to give Gizzi & Sydney a crash course in how to have body confidence in the age of social media. Gok talks in depth about his own struggles with his weight and confidence and why he’s more confident now at the age of 46 than at any other time in his life. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•41m 31s
S1E24: Gizzi & Sydney | Killing Kittens
Emma Sayle, founder of Killing Kittens, comes onto the podcast to chat about the abuse she has received for setting up the popular sex club. Thankfully she says attitudes are starting to change. But Sydney and Gizzi want to know why she decided to serve sushi during a sauna orgy. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•41m 30s
S1E23: Gizzi & Sydney | Nimco Ali
Nimco Ali OBE is an FGM survivor and campaigner who has perhaps done more than anyone in this country to stop the horrific practice. Despite her incredibly important work and everything she’s been through, Nimco still gets bucket-loads of online abuse. She talks candidly to Sydney and Gizzi about her long-time weakness for posh Tory Boys amongst other things. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•35m 35s
S1E22: Gizzi & Sydney | Beam Me Up Softboi & Paige Woolen
Iona Erskine, the brain behind the incredibly popular Instagram account beam_me_up_softboi, comes on the show. She explains to Sydney & Gizzi exactly what a Soft Boi is and consoles them when they realise all of their ex-boyfriends may have, in fact, been Soft Bois. Then model Paige Woolen tells us about her exploits as a vigilante DM Slider, stress testing the willpower of boyfriends for their suspicious other halves. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•40m 25s
S1E21: Gizzi & Sydney | Judi Love
Comedian Judi Love comes on the show to give Sex Lies & DM Slides some unofficial agony aunt advice. One listener wants to know whether it’s ok to date an ex-terrorist. Sydney wants some tips on how to respond to some creeping DMing her to ask if she’s a prostitute and Gizzi has had some requests from people to send them her dirty knickers! Lots to chew on. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•33m 56s
S1E20: Gizzi & Sydney | Jeanie Crystal
Jeanie Crystal is the founder of Harpies, London’s first trans focussed strip club. She chats to Sydney and Gizzi about her time working as a stripper in some of London’s most exclusive clubs in The City where wealthy bankers pay top dollar for the ‘girlfriend experience’. Jeanie also advises strip clubs on best ethical practice and she chats about how the industry is changing. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•39m 45s
S1E19: Gizzi & Sydney | Daisy Lowe
Sydney and Gizzi chat to internationally famous supermodel Daisy Lowe about creepy photographers, famous boyfriends and what it was like shooting Playboy at age 21. Oh, and you’ll never guess which celebrity’s DMs she slid into once! Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•40m 26s
S1E18: Gizzi & Sydney | A Seeking Arrangement Love Story
Sydney and Gizzi chat to a smart and ambitious medical student in her twenties who used the Seeking Arrangement matchmaking website to meet a ‘sugar daddy’ over forty years her senior. Flash forward a few years - the couple are head over heels in love and have never been happier. Go figure! Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•36m 7s
S1E17: Gizzi & Sydney | Lou Sanders
Sydney and Gizzi invite award-winning comic Lou Sanders onto the show to talk about why she recently had a ‘man ban’ on the advice of her spiritual healer and why it was that blowjobs were still allowed. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•38m 8s
S1E16: Gizzi & Sydney | Crossbreed Queer Party
Sydney and Gizzi interview Alex Warren (DJ Kiwi) from Crossbreed, the sex positive fetish club and sex party. Alex discusses how a sexual assault within his social group initially got him into the sex club scene where consent is a central theme. Sydney and Gizzi are keen to learn about his relationship with his ‘domestic-sub’ and what happened during a Crossbreed Zoom sex party during lockdown. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•40m 45s
S1E15: Gizzi & Sydney | Amelia Dimoldenberg
Gizzi and Sydney chat to Amelia Dimoldenberg, the star of Chicken Shop Dates, about who her favourite date was, the stars that ghosted her and why AJ Tracey told her not to hug him at the Brits. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•34m 0s
S1E14: Gizzi & Sydney | Raven Smith
Vogue columnist, author and ‘King of the Caption’ Raven Smith discusses the big issues: Is it concerning to have more than 9000 selfies in your phone? And how did Noel from Hearsay respond when Rave slid into his DMs? Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•39m 17s
S1E13: Gizzi & Sydney | Lou Teasdale
Gizzi and Sydney chat to the influencer and BFF of One Direction about what it’s like going on tour with one of the biggest bands in the world. Lou discusses how she became one of the most successful beauty industry business women in the UK and how to protect your mental health in a world obsessed with image. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•36m 44s
S1E12: Gizzi & Sydney | Klub Verboten
Gizzi and Sydney chat to Karl Verboten the founder of Klub Verboten, the edgiest fetish club in London. They’re keen to ask him about why there is a no wanking rule in his sex club and are rather offended to learn that they can’t jump the queue. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•31m 21s
S1E11: Gizzi & Sydney | Jon Ronson
Sydney and Gizzi invite their first male celebrity guest onto the show - the acclaimed writer and podcaster Jon Ronson. The lads are keen to discuss his (journalistic) forays into the world of porn and his precinct book So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed, which forewarned the dangers of social media outrage long before it was this bad. L Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•43m 20s
S1E10: Gizzi & Sydney | TradWives: a growing trend
Alena Kate Pettitt is part of the growing 'traditional wife' movement in which women CHOOSE to live a 1950's housewife lifestyle in which their husbands are the breadwinners and control their finances while they stay at home to cook and clean up. Gizzi and Sydney are understandably baffled. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•30m 24s
S1E9: Gizzi & Sydney | Caroline Calloway
Influencer? Faker? Cambridge Graduate? Or camgirl? Who exactly is Caroline Calloway? It’s a question that has long obsessed the media and her legions of fans. In a disarmingly honest interview Caroline talks to Sydney and Gizzi about how she navigated the cloisters of Cambridge while addicted to prescription drugs. She advises them on how to create the sexiest OnlyFans content. And she opens up about her father’s suicide and mother’s cancer diagnosis. A rollercoaster of an episode, not to be missed. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•42m 22s
S1E8: Gizzi & Sydney | How Grindr may affect mental health
Sydney and Gizzi invite on Dr Jack Turban, a resident physician in psychiatry at The Massachusetts General Hospital and a clinical fellow in psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. He discusses his research into the mental health impacts of apps like Grindr - which makes for a shocking listen. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•24m 8s
S1E7: Gizzi & Sydney | Lily Allen
British pop icon Lily Allen is launching a new vibrator so Gizzi and Sydney had to get her on the show to chat about her orgasms and her recent Vegas marriage to Stranger Things star David Harbour. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•37m 30s
S1E6: Gizzi & Sydney | Munroe Bergdorf
Model and trans-rights activist Munroe Bergdorf chats to Gizzi and Sydney about the challenges and threats that trans people face on dating apps. She also explains the fascinating differences between male and female orgasms. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•50m 54s
S1E5: Gizzi & Sydney | Ruby Wax
Legendary broadcaster, best selling author and mental health campaigner, Ruby Wax OBE chats to Sydney and Gizzi about the psychological implications of social media and what it was like to interview some of the most toxic men ever from Donald Trump to OJ Simpson to Bill Cosby. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•35m 0s
S1E4: Gizzi & Sydney | Rose McGowan
Actor, director and activist Rose McGowan talks to Gizzi and Sydney about how the differences in US and UK dialect meant she found herself in a relationship by mistake. She talks about what must be one of the most bizarre dates in history and reveals that even today some very brave trolls still think it's wise to DM her dick pics! Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•36m 30s
S1E3: Gizzi & Sydney | Karley Sciortino
The sexpert herself, Karley ‘Slutever’ Sciortino chats to Gizzi and Sydney about having sex with a male sex doll, what it means to reclaim the word 'slut' and the etiquette of foursomes. Famous for her explicit Vogue columns and Viceland documentaries on erotica, Gizzi and Sydney are keen to ask her about her time working as a dominatrix and why she’s faked over 2000 orgasms. Also Sydney once went to a squat party with her… she thinks. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•49m 20s
S1E2: Gizzi & Sydney | Miquita & Andi Oliver
Chef and presenter Andi Oliver and her daughter and broadcaster Miquita Oliver chat to Gizzi and Sydney in an hilarious conversation about love and sex - much to Miquita’s embarrassment. As they open their social media inboxes, Miquita discusses the DMs she gets from prisoners who want to thank her for helping them to 'pass the time’ in prison and Andi chats about the messages she gets from angry Christians. Sex, Lies and DM Slides is a Spotify Original. This series was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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10/10/22•42m 12s
S1E1: Gizzi & Sydney | Sofie Hagen
Award-winning comedian and anti-fat shaming campaigner Sofie Hagen opens up her social media DM box to Gizzi Erskine and Sydney Lima to show what lurks within. From weird and downright abusive DMs to warm and supportive messages, she chats about what her inbox reveals about sex and love today, how she deals with trolls, and the extremes of fan behaviour - including her own teenage adoration of Westlife. This series of Sex, Lies and DM Slides was produced by Heydon Prowse Productions, edited by Podmonkey with music by Free Seed Films. For Spotify, the executive producers are Rachel Simpson and Alexandra Adey.
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09/10/22•44m 26s