Queer Collective Podcast

What if love and attraction aren't the same thing at all? In this episode, we’re joined by Cody Daigle-Orians, aka Ace Dad Advice, an asexuality educator, influencer, and author who’s here to help us break down asexual and aromantic identities with humor and heart. From discovering your ace identity to navigating relationships outside society's romantic and sexual norms, Cody offers insights, ally tips, and myths debunked. Buy Cody's Books: https://acedadadvice.com/books Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW CODY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/acedadadvice/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@acedadadvice?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@AceDadAdvice/featured Website: https://acedadadvice.com/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com 00:00 Overview 02:19 How did you discover asexuality? 07:32 What does it mean to be asexual/aromantic? 09:48 What are the sub-categories of ace/aro 16:51 What are the signs you might be ace/aro 19:38 What is compulsory sexuality and amatonormativity? 23:50 Asexual or just low libito? 27:12 Common misconceptions 31:34 What can ace/aro teach us? 37:10 Relationships & sex 44:39 Queer platonic relationships 49:21 Managing partner expectations 52:02 Key to successful relationships 54:24 Advice for youth 01:00:55 Marginalization of ace/aro people 01:08:44 Health disparities for ace/aro folks 01:13:46 How can we be better allies?

The nitty-gritty of surrogacy—how it works, why it matters, and what the queer community needs to know. We’re joined by Nici, co-founder of Hive Surrogacy, who’s here to speak on queer birthing, the dark side of the global surrogacy industry, and what it’s like to be a surrogate herself. Is surrogacy empowering, exploitative, or a little bit of both? Let’s talk ethical baby-making, power dynamics, and why surrogates deserve way more credit (and probably cash). Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW NICI Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hivesurrogacy/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com 00:00 Overview 01:11 The role of a surrogacy agency 02:35 Who seeks surrogacy? 06:10 What's the surrogacy process? 13:03 Traditional vs Gestational surrogacy 15:05 How much does surrogacy cost? 22:05 Is exploitation a concern? 31:21 Can surrogacy be unethical? 34:35 Why not just adopt? 41:14 The good and bad of surrogacy 49:11 What makes a good surrogate? 1:00:33 Do surrogacy babies suffer trauma? 1:05:48 What supports do surrogates need? 1:07:27 Bonus audience question 1:09:02 Advice for couples seeking surrogacy

Humanity’s oldest, most suppressed queer identities, 2-Spirit. Tiktok star Chelazon Leroux and actor/model Haley Robinson tear open the wounds of colonial erasure and reclaim the beauty of being both Indigenous and Queer. From navigating intergenerational trauma to confronting settler microaggressions, they expose the raw truth about what it means to exist at the intersection of queerness and indigeneity. This isn’t just a conversation, it’s a call to unlearn everything you think you know about queer history. Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW CHELAZON Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chelazonleroux Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chelazonleroux/ FOLLOW HALEY Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@og.robinson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/og.robinson10/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com 00:00 Overview 02:41 Growing up Indigenous 10:56 What is 2-spirit? 16:02 Is 2-spirit accepted in communities? 23:33 Being 2-spirit AND queer 27:36 Indigenous culture 32:21 Colonial and religious indoctrination 37:45 What intergenerational trauma destroys 41:50 long lasting impacts of trauma 51:12 How the government is at play 56:38 on reserve vs off reserve 01:05:58 microaggressions you might be using

Transvestigation conspiracy theories are targeting women athletes. Are trans athletes really threatening fairness in sports, or is this just another excuse for exclusion? We’re joined by pro-athlete and gender nerd Tyra Blizzard to break down the myths, misinformation, and the shady politics behind it all. From Olympic scandals to TERFs being TERFs, we’re here to give you the tea on trans participation in sports and why it matters. Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW TYRA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tyrablizz/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tblizzy?lang=en FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com  

What happens when your home turns hostile? We dive deep into the raw realities of LGBTQI+ refugees with activist Latoya Nugent, who fled Jamaica with the help of Rainbow Railroad. From persecution to queer liberation, learn about the global trends in anti-LGBTQI+ violence, how resettlement systems are failing refugees, and what it’s like to ‘prove’ you’re queer enough to escape. Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA RAINBOW RAILROAD Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rainbowrailroad/ Website: https://www.rainbowrailroad.org/donate FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Was it agriculture, capitalism, or the patriarchy that pushed us into "pair bonding"? Are humans actually wired to stay faithful, or is cheating in our genes? We'll dissect scientific theories, challenge old-school narratives, and maybe even giggle a little about group sex and jealousy. Whether you’re team monogamy or polyamory curious, this episode is your ticket to understanding the wild, wonderful world of human connection. Get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about love and human nature. Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com  

The AIDS epidemic. There's a fierce stigma that still lingers, and the raw, real-life experiences of those living with HIV are often portrayed negatively. Our fabulous guest, Myles Sexton—a queer fashion nomad and HIV activist—shares their powerful journey, slaying myths and spreading love. From dating advice to radical vulnerability, this episode serves the tea with a side of empowerment. Let's break the stigma and discuss HIV/AIDS. Download DoorDash: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/doordash-food-delivery/id719972451 Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW MYLES Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylessexton/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com  

Society loves boxes, but what if they don’t fit? Dive into the fabulous world of non-binary identities! Featuring Heath V. Salazar, aka "Gay Jesus," and Halal Bae from Canada’s Drag Race, we explore gender beyond the binary, tackle misconceptions, and celebrate the joy of being non-binary. Whether you're new to the concept or living it, this episode is your gateway to understanding and embracing non-binary fabulousness. Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW GAY JESUS Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theirholiness/ FOLLOW HALAL BAE Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/halal.bae/ FOLLOW US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

From indoor vs. outdoor work to the Nordic model’s pitfalls, we deep dive into the real sex worker experience. Discover why sex work is a queer issue and how allyship can transform lives. We explore what sex workers truly need from the law and society. Tune in for an enlightening, candid, and a bit cheeky conversation that shatters myths and celebrates sex worker resilience. Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT MAGGIES Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maggiestoronto/ CONTACT JENNA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dejennarate/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com  

Are we seeking male validation or is it all just comp-het? Unpack compulsory heterosexuality with Tyra Blizzard, the dynamic author and pro basketball player. We’ll explore queering relationships, smashing societal expectations, and Tyra’s own journey beyond the binary. Tune in and start deprogramming your comphet through an insightful talk into the heart of queer love and identity. Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA The Gender/Sexuality Journal https://www.thegendersexualityjournal.com/ CONTACT TYRA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tyrablizz/?hl=en Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tblizzy IN Magazine: https://inmagazine.ca/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Coming out later in life can be both nerve-wracking and exhilarating. We dive into this journey with our fabulous guests, queer sex educator Eva Bloom and Toronto’s own sapphic pop diva, Ralph! From battling imposter syndrome to navigating intense first loves, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a "late bloomer" or simply queer-curious, this episode is packed with insights and a sprinkle of glitter. Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT RALPH Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/songsbyralph/?hl=en CONTACT EVA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whatsmybodydoing/?hl=en CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

We're diving headfirst into the question: Are periods solely a “women's issue”? Join the conversation as we explore the often overlooked world of trans menstruation. From unraveling the mysterious history of menstruation to empowering you with ways to degender your menstrual vocabulary, we're covering it all. Plus, we'll be sharing personal insights into the trans menstruation experience and shedding light on the critical intersections of period poverty thanks to our guest Elgin Pecjak (petz-yak) (he/him), who is a queer, trans researcher. He is finishing up his Ph.D. at University of Ottawa in Feminist and Gender Studies on the topic of reproductive technology use among transgender and gender diverse AFAB folks. Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT THE PERIOD PURSE Instagram:: https://www.instagram.com/theperiodpurse/ Website: https://www.theperiodpurse.com/links.html CONTACT ELGIN Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elgin-pecjak-395a6421b/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eapecjak/ Academia.edu: https://uottawa.academia.edu/ElginPecjak CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

The data is clear: LGBTQ2S+ people are overrepresented at every stage of the criminal justice system and this is especially true for trans people, who are subject to particularly inhumane conditions and treatment while incarcerated. Today we’re taking a deep dive into the experience of being trans behind bars. We’re using the Canadian correctional system & our guest Moka Dawkin's story as a case study, but this reality is all too common and often worse across the globe. In Todays episode you’ll hear Moka’s story of wrongful conviction, her trans incarceration experience, and we’ll be discussing the systemic criminal justice issues that are plaguing our community. Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA FOLLOW MOKA instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moka_dawkins/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

We're getting vulnerable as we delve into the complex experience of dating as a trans person. Throughout this episode you’ll hear from King, a trans man and Ms. Myles, a trans woman, about their personal journeys and realizations. From navigating positives and negatives, to addressing issues of disclosure, fetishization and violence, we’re going to cover it all. & we hope you stay with us until the end, as we’ll be closing things off with some valuable advice. Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA CONTACT OUR GUESTS King: https://www.instagram.com/king.https/ Ms. Myles: https://www.instagram.com/ms.mylesmua/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

The world of kink. What is the psychology behind our deepest desires and fetishes? We are joined by academic Pat, an advocate for sex positivity and consent. From overcoming shame to exploring play parties, get ready for an eye-opening conversation. Discover the art of embracing taboo desires and forging connections in this exhilarating journey through Kink 101. Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Polyamory episode 2: https://youtu.be/BE1zSWobjQ8 Polyamory episode 1: https://youtu.be/wn9hVnP_haQ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

What the heck is heteroflexible? we are joined by Maceo Paisley on a journey of self-discovery and celebration. We'll define this sparkly term, explore its roots in sexual exploration and debate its place in the LGBTQ2S+ community. From personal anecdotes to societal perceptions, discover the allure and complexities of identifying as heteroflexible. Download FEELD: https://feeld.onelink.me/TRZt/queer Vizzy Hard Seltzer: https://www.vizzyhardseltzer.ca/en-CA Is Bisexuality Queer Enough? https://youtu.be/Ey2eOg_kjiY?si=CX4LUU33AaHbHGr5 MACEO Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maceopaisley/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Shannon Burns, the vibrant host of Virgin Radio's midday show, joins us dive deep into the world of pop culture. From queer awakenings, to dissecting queer baiting, Taylor Swift and Sam Smith, we explore how pop culture shapes identities and ignites social change. Get ready for a dose of wit, wisdom, and a splash of rainbow as we navigate the fabulous intersection of music, movies, and queer empowerment. CONTACT SHANNON Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsshannonburns/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsshannonburns CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Another tantalizing dive into the world of polyamory with the fabulous Yaz (@yazthehuman). From navigating differing desires to drafting those infamous relationship contracts, we uncover the pros and cons of polyamory with a dash of wit and wisdom. Get ready to swipe right on poly dating, find your inner compersion, and laugh your way through jealousy's rollercoaster ride. It's time to redefine love and laughter, one relationship at a time. CONTACT YAZ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yaz.thehuman/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

The colorful world of alternative drag! 🌈 we chat with Toronto's drag creatures Anne Alien and Yovska about being trans in drag, pushing boundaries, living outside the norm, and shaking up the drag scene. From shocking performances to inclusive language debates, this episode is a wild ride you won't want to miss! Get your wigs ready and join us for a queer and quirky exploration of drag's vibrant spectrum. This Podcast is sponsored by Vizzy Hard Seltzer CONTACT ANNE ALIEN https://www.instagram.com/anne__alien/ CONTACT YOVSKA https://www.instagram.com/yovska/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

The vibrant mosaic of the mixed-race journey with Kelcy Timmons Chan, the whimsical queer pop artist and mural painter. Discussing the sense of belonging and family dynamics, we explore the intersection of identity and artistry. From managing stereotypes to embracing authentic selves, Kelcy's kaleidoscopic perspective illuminates pathways to inclusivity and self-discovery. Join us for a colorful conversation that's equal parts insightful and fabulously queer! This Podcast is sponsored by Vizzy Hard Seltzer! CONTACT KELCY Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mixt.paints/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Is Queerness Natural? 🦓 From dismantling heteronormative biases in science to spotlighting our fabulous gay fish ancestors, we are joined by Seb, a trans-masc/non-binary powerhouse with an animal science background, leads us on a journey through the animal kingdom's LGBTQ+ spectrum. Unmasking the arguments against queerness, revealing the rainbow of sociosexual behaviors, and exposing historical erasures, this episode celebrates the vibrant diversity within nature. Get ready for a WILD Thornberries-style adventure that's educational, entertaining, and unapologetically queer! This Podcast is sponsored by Vizzy Hard Seltzer! FOLLOW SEB instagram: https://www.instagram.com/squishymangoboy/ Jewelry: https://www.instagram.com/natureboythings/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Unearth the roots of transness in ancient cultures, from the gender fluidity of mythological gods to India's resilient Hijra community. Explore the Islamic Golden Age and Christian conflicts in the medieval period. Travel through the cross-dressing culture of the early modern era and discover forgotten trans stories from the American Wild West. Delve into the scientific origins of transvestism and the impact of World War II. Navigate the ups and downs of the 20th century, from the Lavender Scare to the Stonewall Riots, AIDS epidemic, and increased visibility in the 2000s. Join us on this powerful journey through time, celebrating trans resilience and exploring the ongoing struggles in the fight for trans rights. Enjoy! This Podcast is sponsored by Vizzy Hard Seltzer! CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Embrace your own authenticity through external expression and the transformative power of makeup. Our special guest, Brandi Leifso, shares her inspiring journey from a domestic violence shelter to founding EVIO Beauty at just 21, a brand committed to making a positive impact. Having collaborated closely with EVIO on our project Turning Heads Vol. II, a short documentary which gave 9 queer folks drastically different suprise makeovers. Watch Turning Heads Vol I: https://youtu.be/ukxSTc0JI_k?si=dtc57dV7V4vwrF7- BRANDI: https://www.instagram.com/brandileifso/ EVIO: https://www.instagram.com/eviobeauty/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

We're smashing heteronormative traditions with queer, trans, and body-positive activist turned wedding officiant, Kaleb Robertson. We tackle mental barriers to marriage, navigate the collision of queer and family worlds, and defy the historical shackles of misogynistic traditions. From ditching the 'giving away the bride' drama to garter toss critiques, we're rewriting the wedding rulebook. Stick around for Kaleb's favorite queer wedding story, and if you want Fluffy at your wedding, find them where glitter meets love! Let's queerify 'I do'. CONTACT Kaleb: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncle_kaleb/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Today we are joined by Mahmoud Shabeeb,  also known as Moody. Moody is with us today to speak on the queer Palestinian and greater Palestinian experience. Please note that this episode was recorded on October 20th, since then the situation in Gaza has escalated greatly and we recommend watching closely via sources like Democracy Now. Big thank you to Moody for trusting us with his story, we encourage you all to take a deep breath and please listen to today's episode with an open mind and loving heart. CONTACT MOODY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itismoody/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto

Can a negative coming-out experience coexist with familial, cultural, and religious ties? We are joined by Taha, a trailblazing content creator exploring the intersection of queerness and the South Asian immigrant experience. Taha shares his story of navigating stigmatization in South Asian culture, the complexities of setting boundaries, committing to family despite rejection, and navigating the delicate balance of culture without religion. Enjoy! CONTACT TAHA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tahalikesyou/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tahalikesyou CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

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In today's episode we’re joined by local queer & trans advocate Kaleb Robertson, who is also known in Drag as Fluffy Soufflé. Fluffy is one half of the magical storytelling duo, Fay & Fluffy. Together we leave no stone unturned when chatting about recent anti-trans protests across Canada & the issues surrounding drag story times, parental consent & sex education. Contact Kaleb: https://www.instagram.com/uncle_kaleb/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

The Queer Muslim Experience. What does that look like? Can the two co-exist? Bilal Ahmed, a queer Muslim and refugee from Dubai now residing in Canada, challenges stereotypes with their profound connection to both queerness and Allah. Discover the intricacies of navigating queerness in predominantly Muslim countries, family dynamics, and Bilal's personal reconciliation between being a queer Muslim. We hope this conversation bridges the gaps between faith, identity, and acceptance. Enjoy! CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

We’re talking bisexuality! In this week's episode we’re joined by three of Toronto’s hottest bisexuals to explore everything from coming out to affirming your identity as a bisexual. Thank you to Megan, Kristine, & Victoria from Something for joining us on this week's episode. SONTACT SOMETHING https://www.instagram.com/somethingcreative.co/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

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The pivotal question on everyone's minds: 'Should you come out at work? And how? In this episode we dive into the rich history of LGBTQ+ workplace struggles, from the Lavender Scare to today's challenges, supported by compelling statistics. Explore the psychological intricacies of internalized homophobia, microaggressions, and implicit bias. Hear real-life experiences of microaggressions, and discover actionable steps towards fostering safe and inclusive workplaces and becoming a powerful ally. Enjoy! CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Gender Ideology has created a moral panic across north America. In this episode we dismantle the uproar around gender ideology and explore gender theory's evolution, from Simone De Beauvoir's groundbreaking manifesto to Judith Butler's enlightening insights. Through stages of moral panic, we celebrate LGBTQ+ acceptance triumphs. Learn to navigate the confusion, embrace the gender revolution, and bask in the queer spirit. Enjoy! CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

The history of lesbians is a hidden tale that history tried to erase. We journey through time to uncover the rich tapestry of lesbian history, digging up the life of Anne Lister, a 19th-century entrepreneur whose coded diaries unveiled her secret affairs with women. We explore the global impact of colonialism on queer communities, from Africa's diverse gender roles to Two-Spirit acceptance in the Americas and love celebrations in the Caribbean. Travel through suffragist struggles, the Lavender Scare's dark era, and the rise of powerful lesbian activists. We celebrate victories, honor heroes, and paint a more colorful future. Enjoy! CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Explore the world of body liberation and mental health with the incredibly talented vocalist and TikTok content creator, Jenna Marie. Discover the distinction between body positivity and body liberation, and how Jenna's personal journey led her to embrace self-liberation from body insecurity. Confront society's misconceptions and negative stereotypes surrounding fat people, while discussing the diverse reasons behind body weight. Tune in for an empowering conversation promoting body acceptance and self-love. MORE FROM JENNA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennamarielive/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jennamarielive CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Does Nudity belong at Pride? We deep-dive into a wild whirlpool of thought-provoking topics: the untamed history of nudity's stigmatization, whether nudity and Pride have a passionate connection, and the uproarious debate on public nudity making us look 'bad.' Discover the dazzling reasons why bodies aren't innately sexual, and why consent takes center stage. Join us in a liberating celebration of body positivity, freedom, and family-friendliness. Enjoy! CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@queercollectivepodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

From toxic relationships to male fragility, aging, and mourning dreams, Vivek's newly released album, "Baby, You're Projecting," is a queer anthem extravaganza! Discover how her personal experiences influenced this beautiful work through her journey identifying and escaping toxic relationships. She opens up about pushing through setbacks, mourning a dream and finding unexpected rewards. Tune in for laughter, inspiration, and celebrating queerness. More of Vivek Shraya Website: https://vivekshraya.com/projects/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vivekshraya/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@vshraya CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Curious about the black trans experience? We are joined by Ms. Myles to explore topics such as self-discovery, trans joy, gender affirming care, the intersection of race & gender, healing your inner child, & finding community. We recently connected with Ms. Myles through our upcoming short film, Turning Heads Vol. II, where she will be featured as one of our MUAs. During that process, we found her to be so well spoken and knew there was so much more of her story that needed to be shared. We hope you enjoy this conversation as much as we did. MS. MYLES Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ms.mylesmua/ CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

Is therapy-speak taking over our relationships? Licensed therapists are using social media to spread valuable knowledge, but therapy-speak can also create communication barriers when used out of context. We uncover how this language can be misused and weaponized, creating barriers to authentic connection. Plus, we discuss the danger of over-protecting boundaries to the point of loneliness and the vital role of community in building resilience. We hope our experiences and solutions will guide you in navigating therapy-speak in your daily conversations. Don't let jargon get in the way of your relationships. Enjoy!

Is there ever a good time to have a baby? We're joined by Nancy and Daniela, co-founders of LES Studio, and their adorable baby Miguel to chat about all things queer family-related. From taking the traditional route of marriage and kids to the unique challenges of same-sex parenting, we cover it all. We also discuss the process of having a baby that shares both of their DNA and how they've dealt with discrimination and stigma from others. Hope you enjoy!

The queer and trans sex ed you should have gotten in high school! We're joined by the amazing Eva Bloom, a sex educator who's here to bust myths, talk sexual scripts, and share tips on effective communication with sexual partners. Plus, we dive into pleasure anatomy, the impact of hormone replacement therapy on sexual response, and the unique sexual health challenges facing queer and trans communities. If you're ready to learn, laugh, and get a little turned on, this episode is for you. Enjoy!

Republicans OUTRAGED! Bud Light's latest marketing ploy featuring trans TikTok star Dylan Mulvaney has the conservative working class up in arms. But is it really just a case of 'Go woke, go broke'? We break down the phenomenon of 'Rainbow Capitalism' and why it's got some people pouring out their cans (or shooting them, yep, really). So grab a cold one and join us for a discussion on corporate propaganda and queer culture!

How important are BIPOC-specific spaces within the larger queer community, and should white people be allowed in? We explore the benefits of BIPOC-specific spaces, while also addressing critiques that label them as "segregationist". We also examine the role of white allies in these spaces, highlighting both the potential for positive support and the recurring mistakes that can occur. We also discuss the alarming trend of disappearing queer spaces, particularly those dedicated to marginalized members of the community, and explore ways we can support the creation and sustainability of these spaces. Join us in this provocative podcast as we delve into the nuances of creating safe and supportive spaces for marginalized communities.

Internalized homophobia is something that many of us in the LGBTQ+ community have to work through in order to fully embrace our true selves. For some, it may be a quiet voice in the back of their minds telling them that being queer is wrong or shameful. For others, it may manifest as a fear of rejection by loved ones or society. In this episode, we share personal experiences, tackle internalized homophobia and offer tips to help you overcome negative thoughts that hold you back from embracing your fabulous, audacious queerness. Enjoy!

Our society's self-esteem is being destroyed by gender norms that dictate what it means to be "masculine" or "feminine," starting from our earliest moments of life. These norms have a profound impact on our perception of self, particularly regarding body image and sexual identity. We delve into the Male and Female Gaze and their contribution to perpetuating harmful stereotypes, exploring the detrimental effects on our mental health and wellbeing, and examine ways to combat these destructive gender norms and promote a more inclusive and accepting society.

We discuss why Gen Z is more accepting and open to queer identities than any generation before them, exploring the three main reasons for this shift. We also touch on the importance of diversifying one's friend group beyond just the queer community, while finding support and community within the LGBTQ+ community. Our conversation delves into the nuances of queer representation and acceptance, and we share personal experiences and observations that have informed our perspectives. Tune in to hear our thoughts on why Gen Z is gayer than ever, the future of queer acceptance, and building diverse communities.

Get ready to be inspired by the fabulous Jonathan Van Ness! We sit down with the Queer Eye star to chat about their journey from small-town Illinois to becoming a global superstar and activist. JVN shares their wisdom on self care, the Kardashians, advice for up-and-coming artists, and the importance of using your platform for a cause. We dive deep in this episode, so join us for an empowering conversation with the iconic JVN!

The Republican Party is attempting to target and arrest LGBTQ+ individuals, with over 419 anti-LGBTQ+ bills currently being tracked by the ACLU. 15 US state legislatures have introduced bills banning gender-affirming care for trans youth and drag performances. We'll use Tennessee's bills as a case study as they're similar to others. These bills go against our values of equality and freedom, and it's time to fight back against this bigotry and discrimination. Join us to demand change for our LGBTQ+ community.

Get ready to explore the captivating world of polyamory with our guest, Yaz The Human. Yaz candidly discusses the challenges of managing multiple relationships, including coping with jealousy and establishing healthy boundaries and agreements. Yaz's experience serves as a valuable lesson for anyone interested in exploring non-traditional relationship dynamics. This episode is a must-listen for all the cuties seeking to understand polyamory and its intricacies, or anyone who's ever felt like the traditional model of monogamy just doesn't quite fit them. Yaz's story is a testament to the power of individual agency, and a reminder that love and relationships can take many different forms. So buckle up and prepare for an eye-opening and thought-provoking conversation on polyamory - we guarantee you'll come away with a new perspective. CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com

With the rise of AI-generated art, we discuss the potential for automation in creative industries and how AI can enhance human creativity. Discover the impact of AI technology on creative jobs as we explore the concerns and potential uses of AI, sharing insights from AI experts and our perspective as artists. Join us as we delve into the exciting possibilities and potential challenges of AI-generated art in the future of creative jobs.

Step into a world beyond your wildest imagination as we unveil the startling truth about our existence and get ready to confront the ultimate question: are you real or just a pawn in a simulated game? Join us as we explore the mind-bending theory that challenges everything we know about reality and exposes the evidence suggesting we're living in a computer-generated simulation.

In this episode, we explore the entrepreneurial mindset for artists and how it can change our luck in 2023. We'll share valuable lessons we've learned, including the importance of having multiple income streams, prioritizing physical health, and believing in oneself. We'll also discuss common mental obstacles artists face when starting their entrepreneurial journey, and practical solutions to overcome them. With our 2023 mindset, we'll take charge of our own entrepreneurial journey and make our own luck. Don't miss out on valuable insights and tips, so be sure to like and subscribe!

Are you ready to take on one of the toughest challenges in your life? Coming out as queer to your family is never easy, but it becomes even more complicated when you come from an immigrant background. It's time to break down those walls and be true to yourself. Join us as we explore the 3 key steps to take before having the conversation and approach it with confidence.

We are officially saying goodbye to the podcast as we know it. It's not all sad though! The end of one thing is the start of a new adventure. For our last conversation we're going deep & asking each other BIG questions. Join us for this cuddly conversation. Don't forget, we will be coming back bigger and better than ever with new, fresh conversations and guests. So make sure to subscribe so you don't miss a beat! Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/queercollective CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com Karbon: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam_karbon/ Emily: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emgiosk/

It's official Conversion therapy will soon be banned across Canada after Bill C-4 cleared both the house of commons & the senate. This is the liberals 3rd attempt to pass this bill....so you may be wondering, what changed?? join us this week as we breakdown what happened , the history of conversion therapy & as always our thoughts and personal experiences. . Don't forget to subscribe! https://www.youtube.com/queercollective CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com Karbon: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam_karbon/ Emily: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emgiosk/

The Zuck is at it again. Changing the company name from facebook to Meta is quite suspicious no? Why is everyone starting to talk about the metaverse? and who is benefitting from it? In my experience, certainly a lot of dudes worldwide. It's time for more women and queer folk to start taking action into this new and undiscovered territory. Enjoy!

So if "Queer" originally meant ODD, STRANGE & WEIRD, why the heck do we like to use it? This week on the podcast Karbon & Emily take you back in history to the origins of the word "Queer" & how it came to be an inclusive umbrella term for a wide variety of people across a spectrum of sexual orientations & gender identities. Enjoy! . Don't forget to subscribe! https://www.youtube.com/queercollective CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com Karbon: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam_karbon/ Emily: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emgiosk/

What should you never say when someone comes out to you? This week on the podcast Karbon & Emily chat about the internets reactions to celebrities and athletes coming out. Is there a right and wrong way to react & who benefits from their public coming out? All this and more in this weeks episode, enjoy!

Comedian Dave Chappelle faces backlash over the transgender jokes he made in his most recent Netflix special, ‘The Closer.’ He is facing online hate comments, outrage and about 100 Netflix employees protesting outside Netflix's headquarters. But is the reaction warranted? Emily and Karbon discuss it on this week's podcast. Tune in and enjoy!

What's the best way to get your feet through the right doors and living out your passion? Networking is a popular strategy but does it really work? How important is it? And how do you know if you're doing it right? This week Emily and Karbon give you all their best do's and don'ts of networking. Enjoy!

Is it okay to be bad at keeping in touch? It doesn’t feel okay. It feels shitty. Every time we forget to call someone it feels like a choice, like we've prioritized something else that's more important to us than the people we care about. Except scrolling our phones definitely is not more important than calling our grandparents.... so why don't we prioritize it?

Knowing how to deal with tough situations isn't easy. That's why Karbon and Emily have put together 3 tips to help you deal with any conflict you face in your life going forward. Losing your cool during times of conflict has happened to us all at one point or another, but learning to approach it in a new way can help you diffuse a situation before it escalates . Enjoy!

Choosing not to get married is often seen as protest against the misogyny of traditional marriage. So why did the queer community fight so hard for it? Join us this week as Karbon and Emily unravel the history behind same sex marriage and why it is important for the LGBTQ2S+ community. Enjoy!

We all know that it's easy to talk a good game and deliver nothing. So what's different about this election? Who is just serving lip service and who actually has a meaningful plan? All this and more on this week's episode. Enjoy! . Links! MAKE YOUR PLAN TO VOTE HERE: https://www.elections.ca/home.aspx Find out more about the green party: https://www.cbc.ca/listen/cbc-podcasts/209-front-burner/episode/15850663-infighting-allegations-of-racism-plague-green-party Find out more about each parties platform on Climate: The Green Majority Podcast ranks each parties platform on Climate: http://www.greenmajority.ca/the-podcast/2021/9/9/ranking-election-platforms-cop26-amp-the-future-of-energy-779 CBC Front burner podcast where the major parties stand on climate: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/where-the-major-parties-stand-on-climate-change/id1439621628?i=1000534544591

We're livin' in "The Great Resignation" era. Since we're all saying eff capitalism and following our dreams we figured its time to chat about how we've overcome some of the biggest challenges & fears associated with leaving your 9-5 job. Don't forget to subscribe! https://www.youtube.com/queercollective CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com Karbon: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam_karbon/ Emily: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emgiosk/

Have you ever cried in public? Of course you have. We've all been there and we'll probably be back soon. This week on the pod Emily & Karbon chat about their favourite cry spots and tell you their "main character" crying in public stories. . Don't forget to subscribe! https://www.youtube.com/queercollective CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com Karbon: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam_karbon/ Emily: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emgiosk/

Have you ever told a lie that had ENORMOUS consequences? This week on the podcast Karbon and Emily share stories about the biggest lies they've ever told, and the consequences that followed...can you guess which one of us is the biggest liar? . Don't forget to subscribe! https://www.youtube.com/queercollective CONTACT US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.colle... Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collec... Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com Karbon: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam_karbon/ Emily: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emgiosk/

The wort pain of your life... and it's hilarious. This past week Karbon severely injured her back and was unable to walk for several days. If you've ever had a serious injury you know how painful, depressing and BORING it is to be injured. In this week's podcast we talk all about injuries. The bad, the ugly, the hilarious, and what we learned from all of our shenanigans.

Making friends is hard, & often maintaining those friendships can be even more challenging. In this weeks episode Karbon & Emily talk about their trip into the woods, the loss of a friend, and the revelations they had that encouraged them to break the cycle of bail culture in their own lives & put themselves back out there.

Let's get real. As a queer person, sometimes just being yourself can be scary, nerve-wracking and even downright dangerous. This week Emily and Karbon uncover their internalized homophobia and speak on the times they have felt like they should "act straight" in order to protect themselves. Today we get down to the root cause of why we experience these behaviours in ourselves and why you might be doing it too. Enjoy the episode!

Queer identity is heard enough. Now to bring queer relationships into the mix can be confusing, thrilling, exciting and heartbreaking all at the same time. This week Emily and Karbon talk about their first queer relationships, how it differs from straight relationships, and how their first queer loves were the most intense breakups.

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TRIGGER WARNING - after feeling guilt, shame, invalidated and fear for years and years Emily felt called to share her experiences with sexual assault on this weeks episode. This was the absolute hardest episode we have ever filmed, edited and released. We hope that Emily bravely sharing her stories can help make others feel less alone and perhaps move the needle on the ongoing conversation about consent. If you need support or someone to speak to after this episode, our email and dm's are open. We love you and thank you for watching this heavy but important conversation.

As we were biking to work we noticed an excessive amount of police in the park. there were fences and horses and too many yellow vests. It's no secret that Toronto has a huge homelessness issue, but is kicking people out of their encampments the answer? Or is there a better way? That's this week on the podcast. Enjoy

The reality is that every young girl with curvy features will most likely experience being ridiculed or spoken down to for clothes fitting her in a way that isn't overwhelmingly baggy and a "distraction to boys". This week, Emily and Karbon discuss everything that's wrong with dress codes and why they are toxic to our children.

Happy Pride month, its that time of year again where corporations slap rainbows all over the logos and businesses. This goes by many different names, rainbow capitalism, rainbow baiting, or maybe pink washing. But how do we know if a company is really supporting the queer community? or is it all just one bit marketing ploy. This week on the Pod Karbon & Emily give you their take, the history behind rainbow baiting and also dive into the idea of needing to compensate the artist.

Well...we have some life updates for you. There's rats living under our deck and Emily's bike got stolen...AGAIN. In this weeks episode Karbon & Emily play a game of two truths and a lie. After three years of dating the couple have to get pretty creative to fool each other. Enjoy the stories and let us know in the comments which stories fooled you!

Emily asks Karbon some hard hitting questions...will it impact their relationship? If she answers wrong or delivers an unsatisfactory answer does that mean they have to break up? They just might.. You'll have to watch to find out. Enjoy! If you like this podcast and you want to support us be sure to like, comment & subscribe. If you're looking for more Queer Collective content go check us out on Instagram @queer.collective or facebook @queer.collective.to

As we grow older we start to think about responsibilities and work and stress and anxiety slowly begins to run our lives and in all that, we forget to play. When we're children we are our most curious, adventurous and fearless selves. This week we talk about how to get back to that and embrace it for the greater good and our mental health. Enjoy!

Have you ever been so close to finishing that you felt like giving up just before the end? Have you ever started something that you thought was going to be the thing you do for the rest of your life and then you realize 3 years later that you hate it? In this week's episode, Emily and Karbon talk about school, graduating, not graduating, and following your heart.

Have you ever been so close to finishing that you felt like giving up just before the end? Have you ever started something that you thought was going to be the thing you do for the rest of your life and then you realize 3 years later that you hate it? In this week's episode, Emily and Karbon talk about school, graduating, not graduating, and following your heart.

As we go to bed at night, we can hear the soft sound of lesbians all over the world rejoicing in blissful happiness; For they too, believe they now have a shot with Kehlani...

Let's talk facts. Cancel culture has a lot of mixed reviews. Is it good? Is it bad? Does it need a new name? This week Emily and Karbon have a spirited debate on the pros and cons of cancel culture, the flaws they see, how cancel culture affects people, and what happens when it is taken to dark extremes. Enjoy the episode!

Society (including ourselves) often gatekeeps the term "artist", making us feel like we don't belong. So, what actually gives you the right to call yourself an artist? This week Emily and Karbon get a little silly and a little serious when they talk about their history with the word "artist" and what they think about it today. Hope you enjoy!

Let's be real, Covid winters hit harder. If you've been down in the dumps you are not alone. This past winter may have been gloomy for a lot of us, but summer warmth and the rays of the sun bring us a new hope of the possibilities this summer, and we will NOT waste it! Hope you enjoy.

Have you ever felt like you're in a place where you don't belong? or like you're not doing enough? or like you're putting up a front and faking it till you make it? Well, you're not alone. This week Emily and Karbon talk about the feelings that come with imposter syndrome and how to make yourself feel more validated and like your work does matter and has a purpose. Hope you enjoy!

So we've all heard the theories of the JFK assassination, BUT, have you heard the theories behind the RFK assassination? Robert Kennedy (JFK's brother) was running for president 5 years after his brother died and had just finished a successful run in the Californian primaries. He was just getting off stage and entering the pantry of the Ambassador Hotel where he was greeted with a fatal shot to the head. Convicted murderer Sirhan Sirhan fired 8 shots in the hotel pantry that morning. So you would think this was an open and shut case right? Well.... there's some compelling evidence that might make you think otherwise. All this and more in this week's podcast. Enjoy!

We've all been there, falling for fake news and posting it only to take it down in a rush 2 hours later because you only read the headline and didn't check your sources. We get it. And telling real news from fake news can be hard. In this episode Emily and Karbon reveal just how hard it is to identify real news from fake news. Let us know how many you get right. Enjoy!

We have officially reached our zoom call limit. Anyone else feeling totally zoomed out? In this episode Karbon and Emily take us through what their 2020 was like, things they learned, things they experienced, and what they are looking forward to in 2021. Enjoy!

Did you leave your christmas shopping till the literal last possible minute? We experience this every single year as the 24th of December comes around and we are still googling "last minute gifts" just so we don't show up empty handed but end up defaulting to the usual lazy amazon gift card. This stops today! Every gift in this guide will be something you can buy and gift on the same day if needed (well... except for Emily's ideas that require too much effort for any normal person). Enjoy!

It's true that debt can be extremely crippling to every aspect of your health. Your finances affects you mental, physical and emotional health. So what can we do about our debt and how do we actually pay it off? Join Emily and Karbon on this week's podcast episode to learn exactly how Karbon paid off $25,000 of credit card debt in just 1 year. Enjoy!

Have you ever wondered if Shakespeare really wrote all of his own plays? Me either. But this conspiracy theory is SURE to get you questioning everything you thought you knew about the dreaded days you spent reading Hamlet and writing a report on it for your 11th grade English class. Join us this week as Emily and Karbon discuss some discoveries that will get you thinking twice about what you were taught in school. Enjoy!

Why is it so hard for progressives and conservatives to have constructive conversations about policy? When both sides believe the other is motivated by hate, is it even worth trying? In this weeks episode Karbon & Emily Celebrate the Biden/Harris win, talk about their thoughts on the president and VP elect and of course share their thoughts and experiences of debating conservatives.

In this episode Emily and Karbon share their very real fear of being alone when an apocalypse hits, how they both plan to survive it and ...when to call it quits. If you like this podcast and you want to support us be sure to like, comment & subscribe. If you're looking for more Queer Collective content go check us out on Instagram @queer.collective or facebook @the.queer.collective

Whether you believe in ghosts or not, we bet our "I was haunted" story times will leave your skin crawling. This week on the Halloween special of the Queer Collective podcast Karbon and Emily talk about costumes, carving pumpkins and best of all they share their scariest ghost stories.

From job interviews, to auditions, to saying yes to a job you don't know how to do yet, Karbon and Emily dive deep into how getting uncomfortable has helped them succeed and how you can start doing it too. If you need a push to follow your passion or a kick to getting started on your next project, then this is the podcast for you. Enjoy!

Can you/ Should you change a person? Relationships can be hard to navigate. So how do you tell someone your needs without offending them? How do you stop arguing and start communicating? Are you in a toxic relationship or just not saying the right things? Emily and Karbon give you 5 actionable tips to start improving your relationships immediately, all on this week's episode. Enjoy! If you like this podcast and you want to support us be sure to like, comment & subscribe. If you're looking for more Queer Collective content go check us out on Instagram @queer.collective or facebook @the.queer.collective

Have you ever set off a bomb and burned 13,000 acres of land or killed your grandma all in the name of announcing your baby's genitals? Us either! So let's talk about why gender reveal parties are stigmatizing gender norms. Is it damaging our children? Our environment? Should this be a criminal offence? And do Emily and Karbon ever plan on having kids? All on this week's episode. Enjoy! If you like this podcast and you want to support us be sure to like, comment & subscribe. If you're looking for more Queer Collective content go check us out on Instagram @queer.collective or facebook @the.queer.collective

Don't forget to subscribe! This week Karbon & Emily smash some stereotypes of what a gay girl "looks like" & they give you the inside scoop on how you can actually determine if a girl is gay & into you. If you like this podcast and you want to support us be sure to like, comment & subscribe. If you're looking for more Queer Collective content go check us out on Instagram @queer.collective or facebook @the.queer.collective

Haven't watched Holly's video yet? CLICK HERE! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPa7AnjwUhE Well guys, it's official! The title says it all. One of us quit our job to become a full time artist. What kind of art? Which one of us is it? Watch to find out while we spill the deets on how we quit, why we quit, and advice for anyone who is looking to follow their passion. Enjoy!

Remember to sign the petition to cancel winter. Together we can override mother nature, don't ask questions just do it. Times are changing! Going "back" to school, summer is ending, events are happening again, taking public transit?!. So many changes and so much anxiety. This week we cover all of that and our feelings on the topic all while progressively losing our minds. If you got anxiety can I get a "heck yeah". Enjoy!

We all know that Becky that has bad luck with men and thinks she can just be a lesbian and it'll all be easier. Sweetie, If you keep running into the same problem, you're the problem. Lesbians aren't the scapegoat. In all seriousness, this week we talk about stereotypes straight people have towards gays, getting hit on by straight girls and give our unsolicited and unwanted advice. Enjoy!

Welcome to the Queer Collective Podcast where we bring you all topics (queer and whatever else!). Have you ever had bad luck? Take that experience and make it last years 😂. This week Emily & Karbon spill the tea on all the bad luck they've had together. Enjoy! Queer Collective: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/queercollective Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com Karbon: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam_karbon/ Emily: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emgiosk/

Karbon & Emily get real & talk about mental health & burning out.

Welcome to the Queer Collective Podcast where we bring you all topics (queer and whatever else). This week Karbon & Emily literally pick up a game off the side of the road called Never Have I ever, and spill the tea on every question from the cards they pick. Get ready for some laughs! Comment your questions/suggestions/feedback in the comments section below or message us on instagram & facebook and spread the love. Don't forget to rate or leave a review on apple podcast, spotify, google, stitcher, or your favourite podcast app.

Welcome to the Queer Collective Podcast where we bring you all topics (queer and whatever else). Story time: this week Karbon & Emily share their (very) embarrassing interactions with celebrities, what do we do with our hands??? Comment your questions/suggestions/feedback in the comments section below or message us on instagram & facebook and spread the love. Don't forget to rate or leave a review on apple podcast, spotify, google, stitcher, or your favourite podcast app.

Welcome to the Queer Collective Podcast where we bring you all topics (queer and whatever else). This week Emily's back on the pod to join Karbon as our new co-host. On this episode the pair play a game called Dragons Den But Shitty.... what is that? you'll have to listen to find out.

You know what time it is! We getting creative with our podcasts now. Karbon has never ever been in drag so we made her first time special by doing it on the podcast. Watch and tell us what you think. Enjoy!

This episode we're switching it up a little bit. I have my roommate Youssef with me and we're talking about Cosmos. If you haven't seen Cosmos, you can watch it on Disney +. Go watch and tell me what you think. Enjoy!

Yes, you read correctly! Today we are talking about the time I got a psychic reading and was told I have a mystery love interest. So many questions! Was it accurate? Did I find my mystery lover? Where am I now? Tune in to find out. Enjoy!

So, mental health, let's talk about it. Karbon talks about mental health pre and post COVID, the impact it has had on her, and the 5 steps she is taking to improve her happiness. Enjoy!

Today we bring you an in-depth view of the newest Netflix mini-series Unorthodox. Karbon discusses her takeaway, the impact that the show's message made on her and shares her own story of how she made a move that depended on taking a leap of faith on herself not knowing whether or not she would land. Enjoy!

What are the true differences between Gay Bars and Straight Bars? Today, Karbon discusses her experiences with both and the major difference when it comes to flirting. Enjoy!

Welcome to the Queer Collective Podcast where we bring you all topics (queer and whatever else). Pride Toronto is officially cancelled. In this episode we're talking about what the future holds for Pride Toronto and what this means for the events that are no longer taking place. Will there be virtual concerts? How is Queer Collective playing a part? Today we discuss it all. Enjoy! comment your questions/suggestions/feedback in the comments section below or message us on instagram & facebook and spread the love. Don't forget to rate or leave a review on apple podcast, spotify, google, stitcher, or your favourite podcast app. Queer Collective: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/queercollective Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queer.collective/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/queer.collective.to/ Website: https://www.queercollectiveto.com/ Email: queer.collective.to@gmail.com Karbon: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam_karbon/ Pride Toronto: https://www.pridetoronto.com/ COVID-19 Resources: https://www.pridetoronto.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/COVID-19-Community-Resources-Update-4.pdf Club quarantine: https://www.instagram.com/clubquarantine/

This episode we're practicing self-isolation while talking about 2 topics: how to stay safe & gay, and how artists are re-defining their purpose during quarantine. Stay safe out there and keep up the Queerantine!