Then & Now with Babatúndé and Leonie Aléshé

Navigating the complexities of family travel, Leonie and Baba dive deep into the joys and challenges of parenting on the go. They share personal anecdotes from their own experiences, highlighting the stark contrast between their childhood holidays and the realities of traveling with children today. With a candid approach, they discuss the overwhelming nature of packing, the logistical hurdles at airports, and the constant balancing act of ensuring that both parents and kids enjoy their vacations. Leonie reflects on her own lack of holiday experiences as a child, juxtaposing it with Baba's humorous take on the necessity of adult indulgences during travel, such as enjoying a drink or two. Their conversation also touches on the emotional and physical preparations parents must undertake to ensure a smooth trip, emphasizing that travel with kids often becomes about managing expectations and adapting to the children’s needs rather than one’s own. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to embrace the chaos of family vacations, reminding them that the memories created, no matter how imperfect, are what truly matter.Takeaways: Traveling with kids can be chaotic, but embracing the journey brings joy. Planning for a holiday involves balancing children's needs with adult relaxation time. Staycations can be just as enjoyable as overseas trips, providing quality family time. It's important to manage expectations when traveling, as holidays aren't always perfect. Packing for children requires careful consideration to avoid unnecessary stress and weight. Using technology, like iPads, can help keep children entertained during travel.

This podcast episode delves into the transformative journey of Leonie and Baba as they reflect on their ten years of marriage. They candidly discuss the significant shifts in their lives, from the challenges of early parenthood to the evolution of their careers. A central theme is the importance of creating a supportive and nurturing family environment, which has become their primary focus and purpose. Leonie shares her experience of starting a travel business that allowed her to achieve financial independence while being present for their children. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the value of maintaining a positive attitude and being open to growth, both personally and as a couple.

This week on the Then and Now podcast, Leonie and Baba delve into the concept of New Year's resolutions and the evolving nature of goal-setting in their lives as parents. They emphasize the importance of realistic expectations and the value of gradual progress over the pressure to achieve instant results. Leonie shares her reflections on how social media can influence perceptions of parenting, while Baba highlights the necessity of staying true to one's individual journey. They explore how they plan to instill a sense of goal-setting in their children, encouraging them to break down their aspirations into manageable steps. Ultimately, the conversation underscores the significance of patience and intentionality in personal growth and family dynamics.Takeaways: The importance of setting realistic resolutions and breaking them down into achievable steps is emphasized. Social media can create unrealistic expectations for parenting, but it's important to stay true to oneself. Delayed gratification is vital; achieving goals takes time and consistent effort, not instant results. In parenting, understanding each child's unique personality is crucial for setting appropriate goals. Taking time to reflect and plan for personal growth at the start of the year is essential. Ultimately, maintaining a positive mindset while accepting the hard work involved leads to success.

This episode of the Then and Now podcast dives into the contrasting experiences of celebrating New Year's Eve, exploring the shift from church gatherings to more relaxed family celebrations. Leonie and Baba reflect on their childhood traditions, specifically how church services shaped their views on the new year, while also grappling with the pressures of modern celebrations influenced by social media. They discuss the importance of genuine connections and the desire for a more peaceful, meaningful way to welcome the new year, rather than succumbing to societal expectations. The conversation highlights the joy of being with family, enjoying good food, and the value of personal reflection as they usher in a fresh start. Ultimately, they emphasize that the best moments are those filled with authenticity, laughter, and gratitude, regardless of how they appear to the outside world.

Join Leonie and Baba Tunde as they delve into the nostalgic and vibrant world of Christmas traditions in their latest podcast episode. The couple explores the contrasts between their childhood experiences and the joys of celebrating the holiday with their own children today. From grand meal preparations and festive family gatherings to the excitement of Christmas presents, they share heartfelt anecdotes that highlight the essence of family togetherness during the holiday season. Leonie reflects on the importance of food, not just as a meal but as a focal point that brings everyone together, while Baba Tunde humorously shares his thoughts on the chaos that often accompanies family gatherings. With a mix of humor and warmth, they invite listeners to connect with their own holiday memories and embrace the joy of the season.CHRISTMAS

This episode of the Then and Now podcast dives into the evolution of seasonal celebrations, particularly focusing on Christmas and other holiday traditions. Hosts Leonie and Baba reflect on their childhood experiences and how they differ from the vibrant and interactive celebrations they create for their own children today. They discuss the importance of representation during the holiday season, sharing their excitement about attending events like the Black Santa Experience. The conversation also touches on the pressures of modern parenting, including the infamous Elf on the Shelf phenomenon, and the significance of finding a balance between tradition and personal preference. With humor and heartfelt anecdotes, they emphasize that creating memorable family experiences is what truly makes the holidays special.

Leonie and Babatunde explore the evolution of shopping experiences from their childhood to the present day, emphasizing the importance of in-person shopping for teaching children essential life skills. They reminisce about the vibrant market culture of their youth, where the sights, sounds, and smells created a rich shopping experience that fostered community connections. The couple discusses the challenges of modern online shopping, particularly how it impacts their children's understanding of money management and product selection. They advocate for more hands-on shopping trips with their kids to instill valuable lessons about quality, value, and personal interaction. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the nostalgia for the past while recognizing the need to adapt and teach the next generation amidst the conveniences of today’s digital age.

Being a parent in general is FAR from easy but then add having to source child care into the mix and it can be CRAZY!Building your village is important so you have people you can rely on around you. Baba and Leonie each look back on how they were raised and how that's influenced how they bring up their children.

This week the Aleshes reminisce on their experiences starting new schools and what is was like coming back after the holidays: who got tall and the time Baba was bullied over his new haircut. Have school politics changed for their kids? And when was it better then or now?

This week the Aleshes talk about their childhood friends and reveal what they really think of their children’s current peers. Delving into the memories of impromptu sleepovers and calling everyone “cousin” they decide when friendships were better, then or now.

Baba has started a vinyl collection. There's nothing better than zoning out to music but when was music better? When they were children or the music their children listen to.

Have the kids got it right these day with their crazy stand, or was it way better when we were young?

Babatunde and Leonie discuss the importance of toys growing up and how things have changed for children now. Babatunde is living his childhood through their son and Leonie can't wait for their daughter to paint Baba's nails. This episode is pure nostalgia!

Babatunde and Leonie chat through the fashion cycles. How they dress now compared to how kids and young adults dress now. Back then, people tailored their own clothes,How will that impact their son's fashion choices moving forwards.

Baba and Leonie tackle the issue of kids parties. It's easy to do too much. Do you expect other parents to pay their way? The whole subject is a minefield!When were kids parties better? Then or now?

The Aléshés delve into schooling, street smarts and taking notes from important speeches.

The Aléshés discuss family mealtimes and what they grew up eating. Be prepared to be very hungry after this episode.

Join Baba and Leonie as they talk about family holidays and organising together.

Dealing with too many school WhatsApp Groups? Setting up playdates? Making friends with Parents? Baba and Leonie have a system.

This week Baba and Leonie discuss the TV shows and movies they watched growing up. How do they compare now?When was better, Then or Now?

This podcast episode delves into the contrasts between childhood experiences of the hosts, Leonie and Bubba, and how those experiences shape their parenting styles today. They reflect on the freedom and creativity of their playtime as children, emphasizing the importance of unstructured play and imagination, which seems to be lacking in today's children who often rely on screens for entertainment. The conversation highlights specific childhood games and activities, such as jumping gullies and playing Dandy Shandy, that fostered resilience and creativity. Both hosts express concern about the changes in children's play and the impact of over-scheduling and safety concerns that limit exploration. Ultimately, they celebrate the joys of parenting while acknowledging the challenges of raising children in a different era, where they strive to incorporate elements of their own joyful childhoods into their children's lives.In the first Episode, TV's Babatunde Aléshé and his entrepreneur wife, Leonie talk about the games they played growing up. As kids, they used to disappear for hours without their parents knowing what they were up to, but skip to the present day and their children want to actually spend time with them?! So when was it better, then or now?Takeaways: Leonie and Bubba reflect on their childhood experiences and compare them to parenting today. The podcast aims to explore how parenting has evolved from their childhoods to now. They discuss the importance of play and how children today lack outdoor playtime. Leonie shares her Jamaican upbringing and the freedom she experienced growing up. Bubba emphasizes the shift in children's play, highlighting the presence of technology. The hosts express concern about children not being able to explore their imaginations as freely.

Legendary comic Babatunde and his amazing wife Leonie laugh their way through recounting their childhoods and past. They compare life back then with how things are in the present day. They look at everything, from entertainment, fads, childhood, work, home life and more through the lens of parents bringing up a young family - to see if things were really improved back then, or if its actually better now.Ep 1 released on 4th September 2024Listen and subscribe on GLOBAL PLAYERwww.globalplayer.com