Crying In Public
Welcome to Crying in Public, a weekly podcast hosted by a 24-year-old full-time law student and part-time content creator, podcaster living in NYC. Join her as she delves into the experience of growing up in an era where the boundaries between public and private life are increasingly blurred. In a world where social media often showcases only the highlights, she embraces vulnerability and authenticity while navigating the challenges of being a young woman in the 21st century. A tear or two never hurt anybody!
Episodes
Shifting Focus: Decentering Men, Recentering You
In this episode, we explore April's seismic events: from the NYC earthquake to the insanity that was the NYC puncher and of course, Beyoncé's latest album, "Cowboy Carter," and why it is the album of the decade. But the heart of our discussion is centered around the importance of decentering men, recentering ourselves, and seeking internal validation. Join us for a transformative conversation on self-love and empowerment in a world often dominated by external expectations and validation. Stay up to date on the show! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/04/24•40m 5s
Taking The First Step, Part 2: Cultivating Your Network and Navigating the Process
In this week's episode, we explore the necessary steps in the journey towards improving your mental health. From recognizing the signs indicating a need for change, to overcoming barriers like stigma and fear, we delve into the journey of bettering yourself. Our discussion encompasses various paths to better mental health, including therapy, nutrition, exercise, and mindfulness practices. Join to hear practical tips, resources, and encouragement to embark on your own journey towards the greatest YOU! Stay up to date on the show! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31/03/24•33m 7s
Taking The First Step, Part 1: Therapy, Health, and Redefining Healing
Join us for part one of this episode as we explore the importance of being in tune with your health: body and mind alike. Our host, Sydni, shares insights on navigating the journey to find a therapist who resonates with our unique needs and discusses the telltale signs that it's time to seek support. Furthermore, she debunks the common (and all too easy) tendency to attribute unhealthy behaviors to astrology signs and the importance of taking accountability. Stay up to date on the show! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/03/24•20m 26s
Allow Me To Reintroduce Myself...
On today's episode, join Sydni as she reintroduces herself and unveils exciting changes to the show's format. On today's episode, delve into the latest pop culture phenomena, including the Reesa Teesa 50-Part TikTok story and the intriguing shifts in reality dating shows happening right now. Follow the show! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/03/24•40m 16s
Season 4: Coming February 22nd
Welcome to Crying in Public, a weekly podcast hosted by Sydni Wynter, a full-time law student and part-time content creator and podcaster in her mid-twenties living in NYC. Join her as she delves into the experience of growing up in an era where the boundaries between public and private life are increasingly blurred. In a world where social media often showcases only the highlights, she embraces vulnerability and authenticity while navigating the challenges of being a young woman in the 21st century.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/02/24•36s
The Start of Something New
In a special episode, co-hosts Sydni and Sarah hop on the mic for one last time as a two-host show. Listen to hear the girls' discussion on the harms of aesthetics (and esthetics), the changing politics of awards seasons, and a trip down memory lane during the last four years and three seasons of Crying in Public. Listen to hear about big (and exciting!) changes coming to Season 4 of the Show: dropping February 22nd. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/02/24•48m 34s
Moving On, Letting Go
This week the hosts discuss their tried and true methods for moving on---from friendship break-ups, situationship sufferings, to relationship woes. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31/10/23•39m 36s
The Gen-Z Carrie B (feat. Carrie Berk)
On this week's episode, we have influencer, journalist, and writer-extraordinaire, Carrie Berk joining us to discuss her new book: My Real Life Rom-Com! The girls discuss what it was like growing up on the Upper East side during the Gossip Girl Era, what inspired her to chronicle her journey through adolescent romance, and the power of being vulnerable. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/10/23•30m 47s
On Becoming "Soft" in Relationships
This week, in the wake of the Love Island drama, the girls discuss the phenomenon of becoming "soft" in relationships---what it means, what it looks like, and whether or not "its healthy." The girls then dive into the general idea of living the "soft life" and why it has become an aspirational trend after the pandemic. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/10/23•52m 47s
Sober-Curiosity: An Honest Conversation About Drinking
In the first episode of the week, the girls have an honest conversation about drinking culture and the role that alcohol plays in their everyday life as they continue to transition from college-life to actual adulthood. From learning the signs of having an unhealthy relationship with drinking, to learning how to navigate moderation, or learning how to say "no," this conversation is one of our favorites to date. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/09/23•54m 28s
The Fallacy of Finding Yourself
In today's episode, the girls discuss the age old burden of "finding yourself," and what that process looks like for two women in their mid-twenties navigating post-graduate life and the beginning of their careers and new relationships. Do you ever really "find yourself," or is it a constant process informed by the everyday experiences we encounter? Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/08/23•47m 20s
The Ex Playbook: One Size Does Not Fit All
Dun dun dun... This week, the girls dive into what it means when exes crawl back into your lives; whether it's getting the "golden treatment" only after they end things, or finding peace through indifference. From meditation and self-care to hilarious anecdotes that (of course) would only happen to us, we discuss what it's like to both be on both sides of a breakup and how to deal with it after the deed is done. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/08/23•43m 18s
Most Likely To: TOZ (Part 2)
In part 2 of our "TOZ" series, the girls start with a little life update before diving into games from the card game app...A 10 but, Most Likely To, and more. Then the epic saga of Sarah's hair extension is finally told. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/08/23•54m 10s
Womensplained: TOZ (Part 1)
In the first episode of the week, the girls "women-splain" the Barbenheimer double feature---what they liked, what they hated, and what they felt was gravely misunderstood. In the second episode the girls play rapid fire games from the app TOZ---from truth and dare, would you rather, and more. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/07/23•43m 6s
How to See Red Flags When You Have Blurry Vision
Inspired by the recent social media phenomenons regarding Keke Palmer, Jonah Hill, and the controlling of women's presence on social media, the hosts take this episode to discuss learning how to set healthy boundaries in relationships, learning to recognize manipulation, and how to approached situations in which you find friends, family, or anyone else in potentially toxic or manipulative relationships. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/07/23•43m 27s
Girl, You're Overthinking It!
It's a problem that gets to the best of us. This week the hosts discuss overthinking, whether it be in relationships, friendships, or everyday anxiety. From discussing actual ways to cope, and ways to reconfigure your thinking, this episode ensures that your journey to stop the overthinking starts today. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/07/23•50m 2s
Advice in Public, Part 2: Embracing Your Shyness, Confronting Your Sexuality, and Staying True to You
In the second part of this installment of Advice in Public, the hosts answer questions submitted by listeners on a wide range of topics. In this episode, the girls discuss approaching relationships with partners who may be shy or antisocial, confronting your sexuality on your own timeline, and making new friendships and entering new relationships while staying true to yourself. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/06/23•48m 52s
Advice in Public, Part 1: Finding Yourself, Confronting Loneliness, and Creating Balance
In the first part of this installment of Advice in Public, the hosts answer questions submitted by listeners on a wide range of topics. In this episode, the girls discuss feeling safe in NYC, dealing with not feeling like yourself, making friends in new places, finding a balance in your health journey, and finding a sense of individuality in your style. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/06/23•55m 41s
Not Just "For the Plot"
In today's episode the hosts discuss making decisions just "for the plot;"a trend that has become popularized on social media--with good intentions but toxic consequences. Fully endorsing centering yourself as the "main character" in your own lif , and making decisions with yourself in mind, the girls talk through healthy ways to approach decision-making (especially when it's tough!). Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/06/23•51m 46s
Things We're Just "Too Old" For
As the girls officially begin the era of entering their "mid-twenties," and begin reflecting on their adulthood thus far, they discuss things they feel they're just too old or too young for, from plastic surgery, to "dress codes," dating culture, and talking phases. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/06/23•50m 54s
Dealing With Burnout Culture
In the first episode of the week, as the school year ends and summer begins, the hosts discuss what burnout is, how to identify it, and how to identify the source of your exhaustion and stress. Most importantly, however, they also discuss ways to combat feelings of burnout in education, careers, friendships, and relationships, and ways to improve self care and mental wellbeing (beyond face-masks and bubble baths). Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/06/23•49m 55s
The Episode About Everything
In the most unplanned episode to date, the hosts cover...just about every topic. From discussions about popular movies that shaped us as young adults, conspiracy theories about Chipotle's quesadillas, what it's like to date models in New York City, and Sydni's spiritual connection to red-heads. Tune in for rollercoaster that is this week's episode (which is very in tune with the start of Gemini season). Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/06/23•50m 17s
More Like Wrong Person, Right Time
This week the girls give a catch-up as to what's been happening in their lives the last couple of weeks before debating the concept of "right person, wrong time"...does it exist? Is it just an excuse? The girls lay out the signs to know when it's really the wrong time, verus when someone is making excuses to avoid commitment. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/05/23•50m 23s
Miss Independent (Miss Self-Sufficient)
This week the girls discuss the importance of retaining independence while in a relationship---what "independence" really means, the reasons you should value it, and the changes it can make in the way you show up for yourself and your partner. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/04/23•48m 14s
We're Not Really Strangers
In this week's episode the girls return with some life updates before returning to the roots of their friendship playing one of the host's favorite card games: We're Not Really Strangers. The hosts discuss everything from first impressions, to first loves, to the way that differences in personalities can affect friendships. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/04/23•48m 5s
Mindful Thinking and Intentionality
Awareness, mindful thinking, and intentionality are the cornerstones of healthy communication and preserving your peace in conflict. This week the girls discuss how to learn your communication style, how to best speak your mind in times of conflict, and when to know to prioritize your peace. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/04/23•46m 18s
Can People Really Change?
This week the girls discuss two questions we often ask ourselves when we reach a crossroad in a relationship, situationship, or other applicable-ship: can people change? Can you change someone? Aside from diving into these questions and their own experiences attempting to do so, the girls also discuss the theory of attachment styles and why some people tend to lean towards people they believe they can "fix." Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/03/23•39m 17s
It's Giving Self Sabotage
On this week's episode, the girls discuss a hidden, and often unconscious, tendency that may be causing issues in your relationships, friendships, and personal life in general: self-sabotage. Listen along as they discuss the ways that this may show up in your life, advice on how to combat these subconscious habits, and how this has impacted their own journeys. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/03/23•41m 35s
The Modern Dating Plight: Delusions, Icks, and Egos
This week the girls discuss the idea of "delusionships," icks they've developed while dating over the past few years, and the role that "ego" plays in toxic relationships, and why you should never name your kid after yourself. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/03/23•40m 40s
Turning Expectations into Requirements
After a small break, the girls dedicate this episode to discussing what steps they deem necessary not only to put yourself in the best position for healthy and successful friendships and relationships, but also what they've learned from past relationships about the importance of self-love and self-respect. Oh and of course, they couldn't not discuss the hot topic of the moment--the great Selena Gomez/Hailey Bieber debacle. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/03/23•48m 9s
Advice in Public, Part 2: Getting Over Diet Culture, Casual Dating, and Knowing When You're Ready
Welcome to part two of this installment of Advice in Public, where the hosts dish out wisdom on listener-submitted questions and situations. In part 2, the girls discuss letting go of diet culture and embracing your changing body, how to get comfortable with casual dating, friend group break ups, and more. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/02/23•54m 43s
Advice in Public: Fading Attractions, Getting Over Exes, and The Power of Balance
In one of our liveliest episodes of the season to date, the girls dish out advice on questions and situations sent in by listeners. In Part 1, the girls discuss dealing with losing physical attraction to your partner, how to get over and move on from an ex, dealing with toxic cycles in relationships, and how to balance work and play. Tune in next week for part 2! Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/02/23•50m 36s
From Rejection, To Redirection
This week the girls discuss how to deal with rejection in all facets of life. From relationships, to jobs, and friendships, they outline the power of having a "redirection" mindset, reframing your thoughts, and seeing the bigger picture. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/02/23•32m 3s
Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man: The "Lori Harvey" Commitment Debate
Everyone knows the topic that's been trending on every social media account, reposted on to everyone's stories, and the center of discussion in everyone's comment: Lori Harvey has done it again. Harvey has become the millennial's guide to dating like a woman in 2023: empowered and autonomous---so why is she becoming such a polarized figure? On this week's episode the girls discuss and debate the changing culture of modern-day dating for women. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/01/23•49m 59s
Back in The Swing: Becoming Re-inspired and other Random Topics
In this week's episode the girls discuss the inevitable back-to-reality slump after the gift that is holiday break, and ways to get yourself re-motivated and re-acclimated at school, work, and in your day to day goals. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/01/23•41m 25s
No More Playing Games: The "Anti-Dating" Dating Advice Problem
While discourse on TikTok and Twitter has been (rightfully) ripe with warnings of the dangers of toxic and misogynistic dating advice geared towards men, why haven't we discussed issues with toxic dating advice for women? This episode the girls discuss trends on social media that advise women to "play the man's game," or outline ways for women to be more palatable to men, and why this trends are unhealthy and unsustainable.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/01/23•51m 15s
New Year, Same Us: Creating Realistic Resolutions and Learning From Your Past Self
In the last episode before the New Year, the girls discuss all things resolutions and renewal. After recapping their holiday drama thus far, the girls outline sustainable ways to approach your new year's goals and objectives. The episode ends with a recap of what the girls hope to accomplish in the coming months and the lessons they've learned over the past year. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/01/23•37m 54s
Home for the Holidays: Dealing with the Holiday Blues and Embracing the Season
As Christmas approaches, the girls discuss their favorite holiday traditions, their holiday plans, and tips for navigating the holiday season as a single lady. With exam season wrapping up, work breaks starting, and hometown trips commence, the girls discuss the importance of being surrounded by loved ones during the holiday season, but most importantly the necessity for taking time for yourself! Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/12/22•48m 40s
The Balancing Game: Dealing with Jealousy and Guilt in Friendships
Sparked by a conversation card from "When We Were Strangers," the hosts discuss navigating their friendship while at starkly different places in various parts of their lives: from their careers, to their relationship statuses, family lives and more. The girls discuss how to balance supporting your friends in new phases of life, while protecting your feelings as well: namely how to prevent potential (and normal) feelings of jealousy and guilt, from becoming feelings of envy and resentment. They also describe, at length, Chris Evans as Bath and Body Works candles (equally as important of a topic). Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/12/22•47m 47s
Severing the Situationship
Happy Thanksgiving! As the girls spend time with family and friends over the holidays, the inevitable question of "who are you dating?" looms over them. This week the girls talk situationships, but more specifically how to recognize when a relationship no longer serves you, and the best way to jump start your healing. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/11/22•42m 5s
Adopting a Gratitude Mindset
As Thanksgiving approaches around the corner, and the girls prepare for the inevitable "what are you thankful for?" at the dinner table, they dedicate this episode to the power of self-gratitude. Whether it be through affirmations, manifestations, or reflections, the girls discuss how they've come to appreciate this mindset and how its helped them in their adult life. They also give life updates from the past few weeks, from having their phones stolen, to running into childhood crushes on the street. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/11/22•40m 42s
Looking Back and Moving Forward (Part 2)
In the second and final part of this series in which the girls discuss moments, ways of thinking, and mistakes made in their past that have not only impacted their life now, the focus turns toward healing from relationships, moving on from bad situations with friends and roommate situations, and learning the art of self-respect. The girls also discuss their Halloweekend adventures, and updates on their lives over the past couple of weeks. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/11/22•50m 26s
Looking Back and Moving Forward (Part 1)
In this 2 part episode series, the girls discuss moments, ways of thinking, and mistakes made in their past that have not only impacted their life now, but have also been moments they have both reflected on in hopes of moving forward. What began as a discussion of mistakes the hosts made in their early to late teens and early twenties, quickly became a conversation about the power of reflection and it's necessity for growth. In the first part, the girls discuss the roots of self esteem issues, what in their past shaped their view of relationships today, and the power of self-healing. Its giving...health and empowerment. Look out for part 2 coming this weekend! Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/10/22•45m 17s
Is Tik Tok's Time Up?
This week the girl's discuss and debate a trend away from media beginning in the realm of social media apps: are we entering some sort of cultural shift? As one host finds herself using apps less and less, and the other's career dependent on it, they discuss the changing nature and effects these apps have and what they think the future holds. The conversation somehow ends on the topic of the new Dahmer TV show, and the girls discuss the resulting (fairly disturbing) trends on Tik Tok and Twitter. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/10/22•57m 40s
Feral Girl Fall: Navigating Being Single During Cuffing Season
As the beginning of fall is underway, and both the leaves and temperatures begin to drop, so do the social media soft launches. In what is aptly called, “cuffing season,” something about the colder weather makes everyone start to enter relationships. Well not exactly *everyone*. For the first time since the beginning of their friendship, both hosts are single and are dealing with their first cuffing season looking from the outside in. Listen along to hear the hosts discuss healing from breakups, taking time to heal, and navigating dating when it seems like everyone around you is locked down. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/09/22•47m 35s
Advice in Public, Part 2: Dating Co-Workers, Post-College Relationships, and Embracing Your Body
In the second part of the season's first Advice in Public, the girls discuss the perils of dating co-workers, how to navigate dating after college, drifting friendships during transition periods in life, and how to stop comparing your body, and the mindset around your body, to others. The girls get personal as they discuss their own experiences with the various topics, as well as an update as to what they've each been dealing with personally the past few weeks. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/09/22•44m 31s
Advice in Public: Friendship Tiffs, Cheating Exes, Law School, and Learning to See Your Beauty
Its that time again: the first Advice in Public (part 1) of Season 3 is officially underway. In questions/submissions submitted by listeners on Instagram, the girls dish out advice on a number of situations: clingy friends, forgiving or forgetting cheating partners, the woes of grad school, and learning to see and love your beauty. This episode is a goody, look out for part 2 coming next week where the girls answer more submissions. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/09/22•42m 15s
The Loud Debate on 'Quiet Quitting'
In the newest of controversies to grace our For You Pages, the most recent is especially relevant to our generation as we enter, and become the bulk of, the workforce. Listen along as the girls debate the "quiet quitting" controversy--Is it even real? How does it affect women, people of color, etc? What does it mean for our careers? Listen for our loud opinions on the quiet controversy. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/09/22•50m 9s
Imposter Syndrome Is Too Real
This week the girls talk imposter syndrome: finding it difficult to recognize and accept your accomplishments, never feeling like you're doing enough, and finding it hard to live in and appreciate the moment you're in. As we start our careers and new phases of life, we discuss how being a woman, and a woman of color, have affected our experiences today in an equally funny, yet impactful episode. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/09/22•39m 5s
Date the Person, Not Their Potential
With summer ending and busy schedules returning, the girls discuss the phenomenon of dating hook-up culture, the changing nature of dating due to social media, and the tough lessons they've learned in starting (and determining when to start) serious relationships. At what point do you have to have "that talk" with your partner? Is it okay to date someone's potential, rather than as they are? How do you reconcile an emotional connection without physical attraction? This week's episode is *filled* with tried, true, and tested advice. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/08/22•35m 18s
CIP's Declassified, NYC Survival Guide
This week the girls get into the nitty and gritty of moving to NYC, or any new city, and learning to adjust to a new area: from how to make friends, how to use the subway system, finding an apartment, to the truth about relationships in a new place. Listen for tips, horror stories, and tried-and-true advice for making it in the Big Apple. Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/08/22•34m 24s
Paris: Truly A Sight To Behold
In this week's episode, as the girls return from a two-week trip to France, they return with travel tips, funny stories, and all the embarrassing moments that happened in between. From almost missing both of their flights, to being chased by a swarm of bees, and being the most hated Americans on the block, listen in for all the stories you didn't know you needed (or wanted). Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/08/22•46m 53s
The Art of Being Alone (And Okay With It)
In honor of a topic request sent in by a listener, this week's episode is dedicated to the art of being alone, but not lonely. Whether it be because you're single, newly out of a relationship, missing an old friend, or moving away from home, the hosts discuss tried and true methods they've learned on their journey to self-love, self-worth, and the comfort of learning to be okay alone. They also discuss the meaning of being alone versus feeling lonely--an important distinction that means all the difference! Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/07/22•49m 59s
Already Adulting (and Other Lessons)
Aaaand we're back, we've missed you all dearly. Season 3 kicks off with a little-catch up of what the hosts have been up to since the end of Season 2, and what's going on in their lives following their college graduation. The girls recount funny moments and poignant lessons they've learned in friendships, relationships, social events, and the workplace as they finally start "adulting" Follow us! Instagram: Crying in Public | Sydni | Sarah TikTok: Crying in Public | Sydni | SarahSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/07/22•43m 3s
Season 3 Trailer
Season 3 of Crying in Public coming soon on Thursday, July 21st.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/07/22•51s
The End Of An Era, Well....Season
In the last episode of Season 2, the girls reflect on their favorite moments of the season: from behind the scene moments, emotional moments, to moving conversations with guests. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/02/22•38m 25s
Crying in Our Living Room: Learning When Enough Is Enough, Leaving Toxic Relationships, and Beginning to Heal
Crying in Public's 100th episode couldn't be more on brand: equal parts funny, random, personal, and emotional, complete with our first on-air crying fit, the hosts discuss ending toxic relationships, and prioritizing yourself in healing. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/02/22•40m 33s
The Glamorous Life of a Social Media-lite
One the second to last day of Binge Week, host Sarah leads a conversation on the ins-and-outs of being a social media content creator, how she got into the business, and advice for those looking to do the same. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/02/22•29m 57s
Green Flags in Relationships
In episode 3 of Binge week, and part 2 of our Red Flags mini episode, this episode is dedicated to green flags in relationships: markers that a potential partner is long-term material, and that healthy steps are being taken to ensure your happiness. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/02/22•29m 12s
Returning to Your Roots (feat. PJ Morton)
With the final guest of the season, multi grammy award winning solo artist and Maroon 5 member, PJ Morton, joins the hosts in an inspirational conversation about the power of coming home, the importance of giving back, and the blessings of success. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/02/22•28m 50s
Mini Episode: Red Flags in Relationships
As the girls begin Binge Week, a week full of two episodes a day to hold our listeners over as our season comes to and, the girls begin with a two part series: red flags and green flags in relationships. This week we start with red flags to look for in relationships as warning signs for potential problems later on in a relationship. From breaking boundaries to refusing to let you meet important people with their life, ther girls discuss specific signs to look out for. The girls also discuss the controversy around the Fresh and Fit podcast, and the dangers of anti-women and misogynistic messaging on social media. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/02/22•26m 38s
Romanticizing the Little Things
As we get back into the routine of work and school after a long holiday break, the hosts discuss the power of romanticizing the small aspects of life as a way of making every day something worth celebrating. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/02/22•28m 56s
Creating Closure and Owning Your Story (feat. Mary Crocker)
In tonight's minisode, the girls talk with author Mary Crocker about her new book, Unveiling Alice. Her novel is based on a true event in her life where she was blindsided by a broken engagement and then decided to turn her story into something positive and entertaining! In this episode we talk about the journey towards receiving closure, how to survive a nasty breakup, and the power of owning your story. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31/01/22•31m 51s
The Business of Humbling Men
In the most unplanned episode of Crying in Public yet, the girls discuss every cornerstone of misogyny, the oversexualization of women in TV shows such as Euphoria and on social media, and the need for body positivity in the workplace. This episode gets fiery! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31/01/22•49m 32s
Advice in Public: Ask A Matchmaker (Feat. Maria Avgitidis) - Part 2
On this month's Advice in Public, Matchmaker Maria Avgitidis answers questions sent in by Crying in Public listeners. From advice on interracial/religious dating, how to stop choosing the wrong partner, and how to find a compatible relationship, this episodes is full of gems. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/01/22•22m 56s
Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make Me A Match (feat. Maria Avgitidis) - Part 1
In conversation with Matchmaker Maria Avgitidis aka Matchmaker Maria, who has helped over 10,000 clients and fostered 4,000 first dates, the hosts speak with Maria Talk about her businesses and how she balances it alongside her podcast and content creation, inquire about how the matchmaking process works, and seek her advice on finding love and retaining a healthy, long-term relationship. Learn about the importance of an abundance mindsight, the most practical first date advice, and why you wear bright colors on a first date! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/01/22•27m 59s
The Renaissance Woman (Feat. GirlKnewYork aka Mira Mariah)
In conversation with famous tattoo artist (Ariana Grande, Pete Davidson, and more!), disability activist, mother, and social media creator, GirlKnewYork, the girls discuss pursuing art, balancing passions, navigating male dominated fields, and finding inspiration from within. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/01/22•37m 8s
#WestElmCaleb: The Symptom or The Problem
If you're a woman in New York, or on the app of Tik Tok, you've surely heard of the West Elm Caleb Tik Tok Scandal. This episode, the girls break the scandal down, discuss the phenomenon of doxxing, and discuss the larger issue that dating app culture has perpetuated in our generation. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/01/22•46m 28s
Future Focused, Part 2: The Career Woman
Alternate Episode Title: Girl Bossing and Learning How to Show Up For Yourself. As the girls approach graduation, starting grad school, and coming to a crossroads at the beginning of their careers, they offer advice and stories about how they got to where they were, where they're, and why they've chosen their respective, and very different, career paths. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/01/22•23m 2s
Mini Episode - The Euphoria Craze: Fact or Fiction?
In the wake of Euphoria debuting Season 2, and in attempt to avoid spoiling, the girls discuss both the praise and controversy surrounding the revolutionary show. The hosts debate a number of topics from the use and depiction of substances in the show, to the way the show explores young adult relationships. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/01/22•13m 18s
Great Expectations (Part 2): Whatever Souls Are Made Of His and Mine Are The Same...I Think?
In the final part of their mini series on creating expectations and boundaries in casual dating, and in this episode relationships, the girls address the age old questions: Are soulmates found or made? Is love a feeling or a choice? In addressing these questions, the girls advise on how to find compromise in relationships while retaining your dignity, how to recognize and avoid love-bombing, and how to emotionally invest in your relationship for the long-run. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/01/22•20m 22s
Under Pressure (feat. Jack Newsome)
With special guest singer and songwriter, Jack Newsome, the hosts talk navigating rejection, dealing with anxiety, pressure, and fear, and the changing nature of music in the era of the pandemic. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/01/22•36m 25s
Please Allow Me to Introduce Myself....Again
As the girls reach a new listenership milestone (600k!!), the girls take the time to reintroduce themselves, how the podcast started, how it came to be what it is now, and a little bit about us and how we met. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/01/22•41m 46s
That's Just My (Unpopular) Opinion
In a fun yet equally serious episode, the hosts discuss their most unpopular opinions on a wide variety of subjects: from politics, to tv shows, to social media trends. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/01/22•36m 38s
Great Expectations (Part 1): Setting Healthy and Realistic Expectations for Dating
In the first series of 2022, the girls discuss how to create and maintain a set of realistic and healthy expectations when it comes to dating, first dates, and dating apps in order to protect your feelings and create a stable foundation for a future relationship. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/01/22•28m 23s
New Year, Same Deal
In the first full episode of the New Year, the girls discuss what it's like being back home as an adult for the holidays, dealing with your friends/former classmates getting engaged, and learning how to minimize comparisons in life paths on social media with other people your age. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/01/22•35m 13s
Future Focused, Part 1: Is Choosing a Major...Really That Major?
In the first part of a series dedicated to helping college students and recent college graduates, the hosts advise on how exactly to choose/use their major, and how to decide what post-grad path is best for you, whether it be a graduate degree, a gap year, or choosing a line of employment that best fits your interest and needs. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/01/22•28m 28s
New Year, New Me...For Real This Time!
As the final week of a difficult year for all finally approaches, the girls reflect on the difficulties they experienced this year, what they look forward to in the new year, and what steps they're going to take to see their resolutions through. From finding ways to make your resolutions tangible and realistic, to setting effective goals for yourself, the girls dish out their most introspective advice. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/12/21•38m 9s
The Quarantine Chronicles: A Very, Merry CIP Christmas!
As the girls finally reach the last day of their quarantine and are able to go home to be with their families, they look back at their time on quarantine, the many shows they watched, and their funniest Christmas memories in the City. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/12/21•29m 2s
The Quarantine Chronicles: Santicron Takes Over
With both hosts succumbing to the COVID variant and beginning their first day of quarantine, the girls discuss Santacon, the state of NYC at the moment, and their favorite parts of the city during Christmas time. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/12/21•44m 13s
Step And Repeat: A Look Into the Life of a Male Influencer (Feat. Obed Dagnon)
In conversation with Obed Dagnon (@Obediency7 on TikTok | @obeddagger on Instagram), the girls discuss the experience of being a Black content creator, the role and stigma of masculinity in fashion, the effect of social media on men's self esteem, and the life-changing power of TikTok. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/12/21•24m 58s
The Reboot
With both the Gossip GIrl and Sex and the City reboot shitting our screens this week, the girls discuss what the shows are doing right--and what they get very wrong. (Don't worry, no spoiler alerts!) Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/12/21•53m 0s
So I Got A Boyfriend....Now What?
We have plenty of episodes surrounding the topics of independence, loving your single season, and advice on entering relationships....but how do you really maintain a relationship? From advice on navigating the unknown and unstable territory following the Honeymoon stage, to practices to establish at the beginning of the relationship, this episode is a needed one no matter how long you've been with your partner! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/12/21•41m 20s
Cougar Town - Navigating Power Balances in Age Gap Relationships
In a follow up to a previous episode about dating older partners, the girls flip the switch and talk about power dynamics in relationships with older women and younger men. Do age difference really matter? How young is too young? How do you navigate an obvious power imbalance in relationships? The girls discuss their own experiences in age gap relationships as well as a look into famous older women, younger men relationships. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/12/21•35m 27s
WTF Is A Talking Stage? Worship Me or Die
In honor of the viral TikTok, the girls discuss what the talking stage is, how long it should actually last, why it can be toxic, and of course, their personal horror stories on the subject. You can grab tickets to the first Crying in Public Live show (including music performances!) in NYC on 12/9 here: https://tinyurl.com/cipliveYou can keep up with Crying in Public on Instagram and Tik Tok: @cryinginpublicpodcastYou can follow Sydni on Instagram and TikTok: @sydniwynterYou can follow Sarah on Instagram and TikTok: @sar.hodgson Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/12/21•41m 0s
Should Men Really Have Social Media?:
The hosts do a deep dive into the role men play on social media:: from the critiquing of women's bodies and sexuality, to the importance placed on social media in relationships. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/11/21•27m 21s
It's A Hot Girl Winter, Baby!
As the leaves begin to fall and the weather begins to drop, it's time for a hot girl winter: time for self care, learning to love independence, and re-centering yourself. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/11/21•36m 54s
Mini Episode: Clashes, Claws, and Conquering Conflict (Part 2) - When Friends and Beaus Become Foes
In this two part mini series, the girls give advice and discuss their experience with the changing dynamics with friends, and significant others through college and early adulthood, and the conflict that comes with it. The second episode focuses on conflict in friendships and relationships in adulthood: how to approach it, how to navigate it, and when to determine when enough is enough. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/11/21•25m 49s
Mini Episode: Clashes, Claws, and Conquering Conflict (Part 1) - When Family Becomes Foe
In this two part mini series, the girls give advice and discuss their experience with the changing dynamics with family, friends, and significant others through college and early adulthood, and the conflict that comes with it. The first episode deals with family conflicts and the changing nature of your relationship with parents and siblings once you enter, and graduate, from college. From learning how to say no to respecting new boundaries--the hosts discuss how their relationship with their family has changed and what steps they've taken to address conflict with their family in a healthy way. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/11/21•34m 20s
Changing Tides: Family and Friendships in College, Adulthood, and Beyond
As the hosts look towards their upcoming graduation and reflect on their four years in college, they look back at how their relationships with their family and outlook on the value of friendships has changed over the years. From comparing their upbringings and childhoods and how they have evolved into their current relationship with their parents and siblings, to how our value in friends and what we look for in friendships has evolved since beginning college and entering adulthood, the girls offer funny stories and practical advice for navigating these relationships in adulthood and beyond. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/11/21•47m 53s
Mini Episode: Down the Rabbit Hole
In the second and final part of the hosts' Halloween themed episode, they discuss why our generation loves conspiracy theories, the most ridiculous theories they've heard, and a deep dive into the infamous Kennedy Family conspiracy theory. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/11/21•31m 42s
Murder, Mystics, and Mayhem, Oh My!
In this year's Halloween special, the girls do a true crime edition of Crying in Public, sharing their favorite murder mystery and cult stories. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/10/21•54m 56s
It's Not About the Destination, It's About the Journey: How We've Changed from High School to College
This week the girls recount all of the embarrassing stories from their years in highschool that formed and informed who they've become as they end their time in college. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/10/21•49m 53s
Mini Episode: Making Reading Hot Again - Why Men Love B*tches (Part 1)
In Crying in Public's attempt to make reading hot again, the girls have created a book club series around the popular relationship self-help cult favorite, "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov. While you don't have to read the book to follow along, the girls are taking the "attraction principles" given in each chapter and praising them, ripping them apart, revising them, and applying to our own dating lives to give the best advice we can about holding your own in a relationship. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/10/21•29m 36s
A Tall Glass of Audacity
This week the girls discuss the shift in dynamics and treatment of women, in friendships, in relationships, and in everyday interactions, in an audacity-driven post-pandemic world., because if there's something that all men have, it's certainly audacity. From people not saying thank you when you bless them after a sneeze, to men commenting on women's appearances on TikTok: we discuss all of the times when people just have *too much* audacity. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/10/21•43m 33s
Green with Envy: Dealing with Jealousy on Social Media, in Relationships, and in Friendships
Though jealousy at times may be a natural human reaction, when taken too far it can affect your relationships, friendships, and sense of self worth. This week the girls discuss the ways they've learned to combat jealousy in various contexts and how it has impacted their self-love journey. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/10/21•45m 33s
MIni Episode: Advice in Public (Part 4) - Understanding Your Feelings, Dealing with Losing Friends, and The Truth About Sororities
In the final part of this month's Advice in Public series, the girls dish out potential solutions for a number of fan-submitter problems we all face at some point, from trying to understand the difference between platonic and romantic feelings, to dealing with losing a relationship with close friends. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/09/21•32m 18s
Ready For The Real World: How to Make the Transition from College to Adulthood
From tips to finding out how to turn your major into a career, how to know whether a profession is "for you" or not, this episode is full of stories and advice for finding your "thing" and making it into your passion and career. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/09/21•37m 0s
Advice in Public (Part 3) - Balancing Priorities, Learning to Put Yourself Out There, and People-Pleasing Syndrome
Advice in Public is back! In this series, the hosts answer advice questions submitted by listeners through their social media channels. This week the hosts discuss everything from balancing work life with school and dating, learning to put yourself out there after past relationships, and how to start a podcast/business endeavor on your own! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/09/21•36m 8s
Mini Episode: High Fashion - New York Fashion Week Experience Recap
After their first time attending New York Fashion Week, the girls talk about the ups, the downs, and the hilarious of the exclusive events. The girls then discuss the power and importance of representation and how they hope to be part of a new movement of representation in media. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/09/21•25m 24s
Miss Independent: Taking Space and Learning How to Be Alone
In their most wise episode yet, the girls offer advice on navigating taking space or breaks in relationships, and learning to love being single or alone. From learning how to make yourself an individual outside of the context of your relationship, and understanding the benefits and power of being alone (but not lonely) this episode, at its core, discusses the importance of self-worth, knowing your value, and teaching yourself to not rely on anyone else for your happiness. Whether you're single, on the rocks, or in a healthy relationship, this episode is a must listen! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/09/21•47m 20s
The Situation Room: How to Navigate Situationships
Ever found yourself stuck in a label-less, undefined relationship and wondered where you went wrong? This week the girls discuss the signs that you're stuck in a situationship, and advice on what to do about it to best protect yourself and your feelings. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/09/21•43m 46s
Mini Episode: I'm Not Sensitive, I'm Just a Cancer Moon
Are you over-reacting, or just expressing normal and natural human emotion? This week the hosts discuss the stigma of emotion when it comes to women (or women-presenting persons) in relationships, friendships, and professional spaces. From normalizing having visceral reactions or no reactions at all, how to deal with being regarded as "sensitive," and how to demand respect in these spaces. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/09/21•34m 27s
Restoration Season - Getting Over Bad Habits and Getting Healthy (Part 1)
This week's episode is Crying in Public through and through: half rants and laughter, and half practical advice, listen along, sit back and relax, and prepare to laugh your a** off. From an honest and vulnerable talk about quitting and overcoming our vices, a deep analysis of the toxicity of all of the Disney princes and each of their "icks," to beneficial advice on transitioning from quarantine/covid to a healthy lifestyle, physically, mentally, and emotionally going into a new year of school or new phase of life. The latter half of the episode focuses on dealing with the anxiety that comes with big transitions, and understanding and bettering our relationship with food, body images, and social media. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/09/21•28m 29s
Viva Las Vegas: Our All-out Guide to Nightlife
With Covid restrictions lifting across the country for vaccinated populations and college campuses opening back up, the hosts dedicate this episode to discussing their anxiety, reservations, and hopes for the nightlife scene, along with crazy stories about their recent trip to Vegas and unforgettable stories about New York parties. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/08/21•42m 9s
Raised Religious (Part 2): Spirituality on Social Media, Girl Defined, and Religion in Relationships
In the official halfway mark of Season 2 of the show, the girls finish the second and final part of their Raised Religious series, where they talk the infamous GIrls Defined channel, former Vine star Lohanthony's spiritual awakening, religion (or lack thereof) in relationships and spirituality on social media. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/08/21•26m 11s
Seeking Self-Esteem: How to Become, and Stay, Confident
In celebration of the season's 50th episode, this week is dedicated to self-esteem and confidence, the girls discuss not only their journeys to becoming self-assurant, but also the trickle-down effect that learning to love yourself (inside and out) can have on all aspects on your life. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/08/21•44m 20s
Raised Religious (Part 1): Finding Faith, Reconfiguration, and Evolving Beliefs
As their listeners know all to well, the Crying in Public hosts are never ones to shy away from a taboo topic, and this week is no different. In the first part of their "Raised Religious" series, the girls talk about their respective experiences with faith and spirituality: from both attending religious schools, to becoming interested in politics and social issues, to reconciling with conflicting truths, and evolving their beliefs. This week's episode is equally funny and deep as the girls discuss their views on religion with each other, and their listeners, for the first time. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/08/21•26m 58s
Planes, Trains, and Cars: CIP’s Guide to Long Distance
As requested by our listeners, hosts Sydni and Sarah discuss their experiences in long distance relationships: from what they’ve learned, their goods for making the most of distance; and learning to prioritize communication and trust. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/08/21•55m 38s
How to Let It Go: Moving on From Past Relationships
In this episode, the girls give a quick life update, an explanation for the week hiatus, and finally have an equally humorous and wise conversation about healing from and moving on from past relationships (they're basically philosophers). Welcome to CIP's School of thot, where today's lesson focuses on dealing with past trauma to recognizing when you're self sabotaging in a new relationship, the girls discuss how they've forged paths to forgiveness, and healed in order to focus on new relationships. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/07/21•46m 25s
The Three-Date Wait Rule: Myth or Miracle?
In this week's episode, the hosts discuss and debate the "the three-date wait" rule: its meaning, its efficiency, it's pros, and it cons. From figuring out whether or not you're dating for a relationship, to establishing boundaries and outlining intentions, this episode covers it all. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/07/21•21m 51s
Digital Hurt: Restricting, Blocking, and Getting Booted
Ever wondered at what point you should block someone? What it *really* means? This week the girls dive in to the idea of "digital hurt": the realm of blocking, restricting, muting, and all the ways we can restrict access to ourselves. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/07/21•29m 29s
Age Gaps: How Old is Too Old?
In this week's episode, the girls discuss everything "age gaps": from their experience in dating with an age discrepancy, how old is too old to date, the sugar daddy and cougar troupes, to signs of age manipulation in relationships. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/07/21•36m 11s
Getting Hit on In Public?
Catcalling, Creepy DMs and Club crawlers: oh, the woes of being a woman. In this week's mini episode, the girls discuss their thoughts on and experiences (or more like horror stories ) with getting hit on by guys in public and their thoughts on how to handle it if you find yourself in a similar situation. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/07/21•29m 39s
Anxiety in Public: Dating, Friendships, and Awkward Run-ins
In the midst of a gnarly heat wave and the beginning of a post-covid life, the girls give a quick recap of their weekend girls trip ti the Hamptons, and the weird feelings of re-entering our normal pre-covid routines This episode, the girls discuss the anxiety that we all way be feeling re-entering a semblance of normal life: from dealing with transitions, fractions in friendships, first date woes, and commitment curses. Listen to along to not only understand how to separate having anxiety and getting anxiety, and methods of coping with feelings of nerves, and specifically ways to regain confidence in yourself and your relationships. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/07/21•47m 48s
Meeting the Family: Learning to Take Their Actions as Their Word
Have you passed the awkward phase where you're debating whether or not you guys are just going to be another talking phase, or a potential love? Do you think you're ready to take the next big step and introduce your partner to your family or friends? Meeting important people in your partner's life can be a daunting scenario, but the girls are here to not only discuss at what point you should take the next step, what it means if you don't, and our tips for a smooth first meeting with the potential in-laws. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/06/21•46m 0s
Advice in Public (Part 2): The Boyfriend's Bestfriend, Marriage in your 20s, and Dealing with Distance
In part 2 of Advice in Public: Dating Edition, the girls answer the remaining questions submitted by users centered around their relationship problems, from not getting along with your boyfriend's best friend, to dealing with a distant partner, this week's episode is packed full with good advice. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/06/21•25m 38s
Pursuing Your Passions: How to Find Your Purpose
In this week's episode with special guest, Grammy-record winning artist Joelle James, the hosts discuss how to find you passion, how to nurture it, and how to pave the best path forward that best suits you, your interests, and best sets you up for success. From deciding whether or not your passion should be your "hobby" or your "career," the girls discuss ways to discern and decide what best serves you as an individual. Guest Joelle James discusses her time at the Berklee School of Music, writing her Grammy-award winning song 'Boo'd Up' in thirty minutes, and her transition from songwriter to singer-songwriter-business woman extraordinaire. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/06/21•57m 47s
Reeling From Rejection
While our late teens to our late twenties are a time filled with growth, laughter, love, and all around craziness--its also a time in which we are learning about ourselves, the ways in which we deal with life, and feeling just about every emotion possible. Among these is rejection, whether its from relationships, colleges, internships, or jobs, and the feelings that result from it are often hard to deal with. On this week's episode, the girls discuss and give on how to deal with rejection and how to properly heal from it in all aspects of life. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/06/21•26m 54s
Advice in Public: Long Distance, Catching Feelings, and Sneaky Links
In Part 1 of the hosts' dating advice series, the girls discuss in detail and offer both solutions and advice for listener-submitted problems/issues centered around dating and relationships: including everything from tackling anxiety about first dates, dealing with long distance relationships, handling breaks and how to navigate interracial relationships. Listen for tips and advice to handle your relationship anxiety, worries, and problems with confidence. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/06/21•53m 9s
The CIP Guide to a Lukewarm GIrl Summer
The girls give their tips and advice on all things summer: from fashion and styling advice, to fun things to do with your significant others or friend group, and how to navigate post-COVID social anxiety. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/06/21•28m 13s
First Date? Worst Date
In an episode filled with cringe-worthy first-date horror stories, the girls discuss their best, and by far worst, first date experiences throughout their early 20s, and discuss what signs to look out for when first meeting a potential partner. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/06/21•53m 0s
The Sexualization of Women on Social Media
In a fairly analytical episode, the two hosts discuss the ways in which social media sites such as OnlyFans, TikTok, and PornHub both benefit and harm women, especially young women, in terms of expectations and self esteem. They then discuss and debate the broader ways in which women are sexualised, from breastfeeding in public, to the stigma around periods. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/05/21•26m 2s
Healing From and Dealing With Toxic Friendships
Have you ever had a friendship that began to feel "off"? Or do you feel that you've outgrown the people around you? This episode is dedicated to learning how to deal with and heal from friendships that do you more harm than good, mentally and emotionally. From learning to identify whether or not a friendship is toxic or not, to advice on how to move on and make decisions and build friendships that are both meaningful and healthy, this episode covers the topic from A to Z. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/05/21•47m 11s
50-ish Questions with Crying in Public (Part 2)
This mini episode serves as the second and final part of the hosts' Vogue-style 50 questions episode, This episode covers everything from their astrological signs and opinions of the "stereotypical" representation of their sign, to their ideal day in NYC, and personal questions to allow listeners to get to know the hosts better. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/05/21•37m 20s
How To Know You're Getting Played
This week's episode is Crying in Public's Guide to Getting Played. They cover all aspects on the topic: from bachelor/player culture, the signs and behaviors to look out for in these types of relationships, and tangible ways that you can protect yourself from being played and avoid a sticky situation. Full of their *plenty* of stories from being both the player, and the playee, this episode is bound to help anyone who is navigating the dating scene, or even questioning the relationship that they're in. Equally funny and informative, this is one of the hosts' favorite episodes yet. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/05/21•57m 0s
50-ish Questions with Crying in Public (Part 1)
In a fully Vogue-style mini episode, the girls do a get-to-know-us 50 questions quiz, and discuss everything from their favorite tourist attractions in NYC, to what their most looking forward to in a post-Covid world, to how they come up with episode ideas. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/05/21•24m 25s
Honey, Help! I'm Addicted to FaceTune
This week is all things social media culture: from discussing body shaming on TikTok and the need for a more inclusive body positivity movement, the Kardashian's influence over beauty standards and editing culture, and our personal relationships and journeys with FaceTune and editing our personal pictures, and the horror of Bumble dates listening to our episodes before meeting us. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/05/21•49m 23s
Fame, Rants, and Life Updates
In this week's mini episode, the girls discuss all things fame: how people get it, how people retain it, and the difference between celebrity and media fame. From our praises and critiques of social media fame, to trying to understand those whose fame is based on scandal and controversy, this week's episode is full of remembering and discussing the big scandals of this year. The hosts also discuss their recent move to their dream NYC apartment, and give updates on their relationship stauses. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/05/21•23m 45s
Gaslighting, Guilt, and Learning How to Stand Up For Yourself
This week's episode is dedicated to two topics: the first is the topic of gaslighting: our experiences with it, how it has impacted our self-esteem and future relationships, how to identify it, and the coping mechanisms we wish we knew then to combat it and stop it in it's tracks. The second half of the episode is dedicated to the TikTok psychology phenomenon of attachment styles: how does our environment growing up and our relationships with our families affect the way in which we conduct our relationships. This episode is equally funny and informative, and is one you won't want to miss! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/05/21•55m 11s
The Career Series - How To Find and Ace the Interview (Part II)
In the second installment of the career series, the girls discuss crucial steps to not only getting the interview, but getting the job as well. From discovering where to look for jobs and internships and which platforms best suit your age, career path, and requirements, as well as insight into the interview process and the power of a killer resume and cover letter. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/05/21•20m 56s
Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend(Feat. Eve Gay)
This week, the hosts are joined by uber-charismatic and effervescent guest star Eve Gay, founder and CEO of Stoned Fine Jewelry, to discuss all things luxury, diamonds, and fine jewelry. As a senior at Pepperdine, Eve and the girls discuss starting a business in college, how to navigate jobs in a male-dominated field, the dilemma with working in the fashion industry, and the in-and-outs of the jewelry concierge service that Eve provides through her business, Stoned. From styling the cover of Playboy's February issue, to celebrity shoots and Gemology school, Eve discusses the future of her business and the secrets to her success. Listen along and learn the importance of investing in yourself, and how to build up, or elevate, your style with timeless jewelry pieces. As Marilyn Monroe famously said, Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend!You can shop Stoned Fine Jewelry at stonedfinejewelry.com or on Instagram @stonedfinejewelry. Find Eve on Instagram @eve_gay01. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/04/21•41m 46s
#Cancelled
With a topic that has taken over debate on Twitter and the news alike, the girls finally discuss cancel culture and what it's like to be #cancelled. From our own experiences with being cancelled, to recent cases in the media like Demi Lovato and her Fro-yo meltdown, to the boycotting of the Mr. Potato Head toy, the hosts talk through and debate both the positive and negative aspects of cancel culture to answer the question at hand: is the trend of "cancelling" helping or harming our society and generation? Do someone people deserve it? How do we hold people with platforms accountable? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/04/21•30m 6s
Britney Spears Made Me Question Monogamy
As hot girl summer approaches and hookup culture’s comeback looms on the horizon, the hosts debate monogamy versus polygamy. Is monogamy “natural”? How do we deal with polyamory emotionally and mentally? Do open relationships and threesomes work? The girls explore all these questions and more on this week’s episode. As Her Royal Highness Britney Spears once said, "Merrier the More, Triple Fun That Way." Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/04/21•46m 13s
A Guide to Finding Your Dream NYC Apartment
As they begin to move into their dream apartment, the girls lay out the 6 most important things to keep in mind when searching for your new place in NYC, along with some tips and tricks to find a place that matches your style and preference. From how to create a budget, to determining what neighborhood is right for you, as well as things to avoid when looking for an apartment online during the pandemic, this episode is packed full of advice for the best ways to find an apartment in New York City (or any city!) Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/04/21•21m 32s
Ghosted: He’s Just Not That Into You
Have you ever been ghosted by someone? Ever been the one to ghost? The girls discuss the proper way to break off a relationship or situationship. From ending a relationship after one bad date to ending a years-long relationship, the hosts debate the criteria for ghosting, when it’s okay to do, and how to cope when it’s been done to you. Filled with awfully embarrassing stories of when they’ve been ghosted, or forced to ghost awful first dates, this episode is a goodie. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/04/21•57m 20s
The Career Series: How to Land Your Dream Internship
In the first episode of the Career series, with past internship experience in fields such as entertainment, public relations, marketing, theatre, politics, and law, the girls discuss where their interests in their respective fields began, how they got their foots in the door, and the importance of exploring your passions. From interview tips and tricks, to wardrobe-must haves, and how to research for interviews, this episode is packed full of good advice and secret tips to help you land your dream job. Perhaps most importantly, the girls explain the key to not only getting the interview, but securing the job: learning how to pitch yourself. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/04/21•29m 49s
The Boy Is Mine
In the first official episode with just hosts Sarah and Sydni, the girls discuss a phenomenon that has taken over TikTok: the girl best friend. How do you deal with your boyfriend's or significant other's best friend? How you deal with feelings of jealousy or feeling inadequate? Through our own horrifically funny experiences with trying to decode these friendships/relationships, we attempt to figure out the best way to not only create and discuss boundaries, but also deal with situations that may make you feel uncomfortable or insecure in your relationships. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/04/21•46m 43s
Advice in Public (Part 1)
In this week's mini episode, the girls tackle advice questions sent into their Instagram by listeners. The girls give their take on everything from dealing with exes who happen to be co-workers, dealing with toxic friends and losing friends, and what made them want to attend NYU/school in New York City. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/04/21•30m 16s
Boys II Men
In this week's special episode of the podcast, hosts Sydni and Sarah take over the show to talk about maturity in men and its affects on their relationships and friendships. This episode isn't only for our women followers, to help them make the distinction and avoid future problems in their relationships, but also for the men out there, to help show them the affect of their actions and ways of thinking. We dissect cultural and social impacts on the maturity of the men in our life, why women are held to a higher standard from a younger age, and how to truly distinguish a "boy" from a "man." This is one episode you won't want to miss. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/04/21•49m 28s
Tackling the Bases
Why do we compare sex to baseball, and why do we teach young people this way? This week, the girls debate and discuss the different bases when it comes to sex, how they first came to understand it, and how it shapes their understating of hookup culture today. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/03/21•21m 40s
Bills, Bills, Bills (Feat. Katelyn Magnuson)
If you're anything like us, our idea of saving is buying only one Starbucks drink a day instead of two, but in one of our most requested topics, the girls finally get to talk with the one person who actually makes talking (and learning) finance and budgeting fun: the millenial money expert, Katelyn Magnuson. From leaving the corporate world in your 20s, to starting a small business, paying off student loans, to simply learning how to save and invest in college and the beginning of your career, Katelyn's got our backs. So do your future self a little favor and take notes because the money expert is here to save us all.You can speak with Katelyn and get your own personalized finance plan by visiting her website at thefreelancecfo.biz or find her on social media @katelyn.magnuson Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/03/21•55m 38s
What We Wish We Knew About NYU
In the final episode of the NYU series, the girls discuss all the things they wish they knew about NYU before attending: from flaky advisors, to making friends, to our respective experiences as minorities at the school. We talk about the college’s biggest pros, to its’ biggest cons, to give the most honest review for those hoping to attend NYU or school in the big City. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/03/21•21m 47s
Blame it on the Alcohol, Part 1
In this week's hilarious episode, the girls compare the types of men you meet in New York to their corresponding alcohol beverage. Through our embarrassing stories from our various Bumble dates this past week, get the low down on the type of men to avoid all at the costs, and the type of men in the city who are hubby material: from finance boys being White Claws because of their dull and unexciting flavor, to lawyers being our favorite expensive whiskey, these comparisons couldn't get more accurate. We also finally discuss all of the Royal family drama, and why we are so invested in it. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/03/21•42m 44s
The Dirty Details About Dorm Life
In the next part of the College and NYU series, the girls discuss all the details about their first year at NYU: what the dorm life was like, especially in New York City, what your building said about you, the random ways they met close friends, their favorite lunch spots on campus and more. Though Covid has drastically changed their last years in college at NYU, they finally get the time to reminisce on what they miss most about their early years at college: from awkward run-ins with crushes, to rat infested dorm rooms. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/03/21•23m 4s
What Did I Do Last Night?
This week the girls tackle all of the “morning afters”: from killer hangovers to the walk of shame and all of the awkward moments and crazy stories in between. From finding an earring where the sun doesn’t shine during a hookup, to why men should be on birth control, our tips and tricks to avoiding a killer hangover, this episode goes down as one of our favorites. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/03/21•43m 49s
What's The Gossip?
This week the girls answer one of the questions that we get the most: how accurate is Gossip Girl really? We finally breakdown the ways that the show missguided us when we first got to the City, and what the show got wrong. Luckily, we've been promised a more diverse, more accurate depiction of the city in the show's upcoming reboot...but after watching the preview clips and behind the scene pictures, what are they still getting wrong? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/03/21•25m 10s
Hot for Teacher
In true Crying in Public fashion, the first part of our College series is truly a rollercoaster of topics. In our "academic" themed episode: we start with the basis of our knowledge (by debating the best Disney and Nickelodeon shows), our firsts trysts with writing and creativity (tumblr and wattpad One Direction fan fiction), our upcoming trip to Vegas at the end of the summer, and finally get to the real point of the episode: college academia. The girls discuss their expectations versus reality when it comes to college classes, their best and worst experiences with college professors, why AP classes are truly a scam, and why they hate the chat feature in Zoom with a passion. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/03/21•48m 28s
Defining the Zone
This week, the mini episode is dedicated to answering the age old question: can a girl and a guy truly ever be *just* friends? Why does the "friend zone" mean different things to different people? With a mix of experiences with highschool and college friends, along with some input from the hosts' best guy friends, they finally get down to the answer. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/02/21•19m 32s
Sweet But Psycho
In 2021, with a plethora of information at our fingertips, and three screens full of social media apps, coupled with a generation of skeptically unfaithful men, its hard to not only learn to trust in a relationship, but also fairly easy to fall into *toxic* habits that society deems as "psycho". This week the girls discuss their bad habits when it comes to social media and relationships, why our generation seems to be more susceptible to toxic relationships, and why we should distance ourselves from calling these habits "psycho". Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/02/21•1h 1m
The Cold Truth About Clubbing in the City
In the third minisode of the season in a follow up to a Season 1 episode about the types of partying in New York City, the hosts talk about their experiences clubbing in New York City, from their favorite spots, to crazy stories, to tips and tricks on how to do a night out the right way. They finally answer the age old question that we all seem to think to ourselves but never say out loud: if we hate clubs so much, why do we continue to go to them? Listen along to find out why, and relive the pre-Covid glory days. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/02/21•28m 48s
Feels Like the First Time
In true Crying in Public fashion, the girls start the episode with the intention of debating the consequences, pressures, and affects of the male gaze on women of our generation. However, that quickly became a topic for a later time. In this episode, the girls *actually* discuss their firsts: first experiences, first times, first heartbreaks, the things they wished they knew before, and the things they had to learn the hard way. Luckily, they're going to get into the nitty gritty so you listeners hopefully don't have to go through the same painstakingly embarrassing moments they did. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/02/21•53m 48s
You Give Love a Bad Name
Oh Valentine's Day, the one day a year that really has no meaning, yet we bend over backwards to make sure we get our significant other the *perfect* gift. But why do we do it? In this week's episode the girls breakdown their feelings about the holiday: is it really worth it? What were their best and worst experiences on Valentine's? From getting set up on a blind date to finding out their boyfriend's cheatings, the stories get juicy. Though we may all have very different experiences on this hallowed day, we all agree on one thing: nothing beats Valentine's Day in the second grade. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/02/21•26m 58s
The Beauty of Learning Not to Give a F*ck ft. Jessie Reyez
Grammy award-nominated artist, Jessie Reyez, joins the girls on this week's episode to discuss....just about everything. Every Crying in Public stan knows just how obsessed they are with Jessie and her music, and they couldn't wait to finally learn more about Jessie on a personal level, her new debut studio album and the inspiration behind her soul-stirring discography. The girls and Jessie talk through everything from her career experience during the pandemic, from rediscovering the power of therapy and meditation, her decision to forgo college to pursue music, healing from heartbreak, working with Eminem (on multiple songs!), cancelling her tour with Billie Eilish, to the freedom that comes along with creating art. Jessie's debut studio album, Before Love Came to Kill Us, is available now wherever you get her music, and she can be found @jessiereyez on social media. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/02/21•1h 11m
The Dating App Disaster
In the first mini episode of the season, the girls discuss the downfall of dating apps: awful first dates, bad kissers, and men who just can't take a hint. As we share our various horror stories using these apps in New York City over the last few years, they finally get down to the question of the decade: which dating app is the best? Which has the best selection? We introduce to you: The Dating App Spectrum. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/02/21•27m 7s
Before He Cheats: The Cheating Curse
In the long-awaited Season 2 premiere of Crying in Public, the girls discuss their *lengthy*pasts with cheating: how they found out, how they dealt with it, and the lasting effects its' had on their view of relationships and intimacy. From discussing the differences between emotional and physical cheating (Is there a difference? If so, which one is worse? Do you take them back), to our hilariously tragic experiences with unfaithful men, this is an episode you don't want to miss. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/02/21•47m 59s
Season 2: Trailer
The girls are back and better than ever! Season 2 coming soon February 4th, subscribe now to stay notified. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/01/21•48s
Just Another Holiday Bonus: Dealing with Burn-Out
While it’s been two months exactly since the girls last posted a full length episode due to preparation for their second season, they couldn’t stay away from you all for too long! This week the girls discuss something we’ve all come to know too well these last couple of months: feeling burnt out. The stress we’ve all been feeling due to the pandemic and the subsequent isolation, the reality of our college and workforce experiences being dramatically altered, and the loss of those close to us has affected everything from our mental health, friendships, relationships, to our general well-being. The girls are here to cheer you up with an episode about how they’ve been dealing with the isolation, as well as their coping methods in dealing with burn-out. Listen along for all the silliness, laughter, and all around ridiculousness the girls have missed posting. They also *finally* announce the news they’ve been teasing for way too long and a few life updates!Follow our instagram for more updates and content: @cryinginpublicpodcastYoutube: Crying in Public Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/12/20•45m 45s
Just Another Season Finale
Episode 19: In the season one finale of Crying in Public, the girls conclude their first set of episodes by aiming to discuss the very thing that brought them together: friendship. In the same style as their original wine nights, the girls brought questions about what they look for in friends, how their roles in their friendships and relationships differ, how to meet friends in college, and more. In the true fashion of Crying in Public, the girls end up answering the questions for all of ten minutes and then roasting each other for the remaining hour of the episode. Celebrate with us as we wrap up our first season together! Laters, baby.Instagram: @cryinginpublicpodcastYoutube: Crying in Public Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/10/20•56m 27s
Mini Episode: Just Another Re-Introduction
Welcome to the first official mini episode of Crying In Public! For those of you who aren’t familiar with us, we are five 20-something college students in New York City with a podcast about all of our crazy experiences, as well as discussions on a variety of topics that affect our generation. As we wrap up Season 1 of our podcast, which can be found on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts, we are excited to announce that we are bringing you all weekly vlogs and mini episodes on our YouTube so you all can get to know us better!Today we are re-introducing ourselves so our listeners can finally match our names to our faces and to our voices. Learn a little bit more about all of us and watch along as we play one of our favorite card games that helped us grow closer, Girl’s Night. Tune in next week for another episode and follow our socials to learn more about us and click the link below to watch this episode on YouTube!Link to Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=po27-5lYJcY Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/10/20•18m 45s
Just Another Reason Why You Aren't Dating Them Yet
Episode 18: Everyone knows the ladies of Crying in Public love to psychoanalyze the male race on a daily basis in an attempt to figure out what in the world is going on in their minds and why they all act like they do. For the first time we have come to a conclusion: women are generally socialized to aspire to marriage, while men are socialized to aspire to live the “bachelor” life. This comes to light when the not-so-fun conversation of “intentions” comes up after a few weeks or months of seeing someone. On this week’s episode, each host discusses how her upbringing and experience with relationships in the past affects their various views of love and dating, and explore questions they’ve been considering in their personal love lives over the past few months. Why is our generation so afraid of commitment? Is there really such a thing as the time “being right”? Listen along as we attempt to find a semblance of a solution to the relationship issues affecting our generation.This episode is sponsored by our new favorite app: Zest Date. This new app matches users based on shared interests and passions, rather than looks, to give pairs a shot at a genuine connection, and a chance to spark up their love life. To be the first users of the app and sign up for email updates, visit their website at zestdating.com or their Instagram @zestdate. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/10/20•45m 41s
Just Another Fetish: Dating Edition
Episode 17: In this week’s equally fun AND deep episode, the girls discuss a number of topics related to the idea of types and fetishes when it comes to relationships. They first take turns discussing (hm, roasting) eachother’s perceived types based on their exes and hookup history, and how they think they came to be attracted to that type of person. They then discuss how they feel being a type, especially as a minority in a time when racial and cultural tensions are high. They end the episode with a long, fruitful discussion about their experiences being in interracial relationships: the benefits, the downfalls, and the lessons learned. Listen along as we expose ourselves to the tenth degree, while having some surprisingly constructive conversations along the way. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/09/20•55m 50s
Just Another Good Guy *GASP*: Featuring Finn Kreidler
Episode 16: This week’s episode is full of firsts for Crying in Public. It’s the first episode recorded with the girls all back in New York City together. It’s the first episode with a male guest (I know, they’re shocked too). Last, but certainly not least, they have their first advice corner with questions submitted from fans. They discuss everything from how to approach taking a break in a relationship, what it means when “the time isn’t right,” to how to know if a guy is into you. With their good friend and certified Good Guy™,” Finn Kreidler, guest starring on the show, they finally get to pick apart the male brain and ask the questions we’ve all been dying to know the answer to. Sit back, grab some popcorn, and enjoy the show, because this episode is a goodie. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/09/20•1h
Just Another Type of Girl You'll Meet in NYC
Episode 15: In continuation of one of their first episodes, this week the girls describe the seven types of girls that you’re bound to meet while living in and visiting New York City. From the girls who think they’re living in an episode of Gossip Girl, to the girls who look like they were pulled from a Fleetwood Mac poster from the 70s, you’re bound to find a type that you identify with at some level. Laugh along while they dissect each other's personalities and figure out what type of “NYC girl” each of them are. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/09/20•51m 36s
Just Another "Influencer"
Episode 14: In a society consumed with and driven by social media and influencer culture, have you ever stopped to think “What even is an influencer?” In this episode, they do absolutely nothing to answer this question or offer any beneficial advice regarding the topic. However, they do breakdown both the positives and negatives of living within an influencer society, and the effect that the toxicity has on them. Beyond discussing their definition of what an influencer is, they dive deeper into the lack of representation in social media, the glorification of surgery/unnatural beauty standards, the delight and danger of FaceTune, that weird accent that all girls with lip fillers have, and our confusion as to why certain people are famous in the first place (we’re looking at you, Tik Tok). Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/09/20•49m 58s
Just Another X-Rated Alice in Wonderland Party
Episode 13: In this week’s juicy, scandalous episode, the girls discuss and rank the five types of parties you’re bound to come across while being young and in New York. From frat parties to kickbacks to art kid parties (complete with Alice in Wonderland porn projected on the walls), you’re always in for an interesting night in the city. They also finally answer the question they get the most from friends and fans alike: what are the fraternities at NYU like? Here come the nitty, gritty details about every fraternity on campus, complete with nicknames and all. From overnight raves ending in concussions to Halloween at the Playboy Mansion, listen along to hear our craziest partying stories from our years in NYC. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/08/20•1h
Just Another First Move: Sex Edition
Episode 12: In part 2 of our First Move series, the girls finally get to discuss their favorite topic: sex. Welcome to Sex Education 101 with Crying in Public, and all the tips, tricks, and warnings they wish they knew before entering college. From how to transfer bases (why do people compare sex to baseball?) and their go-to moves to let their partner know they are ready to bump things to the next level. From breaking down the stigma around women speaking out about sex or being empowered by what they do, or don’t do, with their bodies, to discussing their horror stories with sex education in high school, they have their raunchiest, yet most informative episode to date. Grab a seat and take notes, because class is in session. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/08/20•54m 59s
Just Another Rerun: Featuring Audrey Trullinger
Episode 11: This week, Crying in Public has its very first special guest, influencer, social media aficionado and Tik Tok star, Audrey Trullinger. Before they dive into the topic of the week, they discuss how Audrey became big on social media, how to become viral in 2020, how to deal with haters, and how to weed out fake friends. After some introductions, we dive into the lovely topic of meeting up with, or rather hooking up with, your exes. Should you do it? Is it ever beneficial to? How do you do it the ‘right’ way? Listen as the girls recount their rendezvous with their ex-boos in an attempt to answer these questions. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/08/20•50m 15s
Just Another First Move: Dating Edition
Episode 10: Ever wonder how to approach that cutie in your 8am math class or how to strike up a conversation with the hottie at the bar? Tired of waiting for them to finally notice you? Well ladies, it’s 2020 and it’s time to redefine outdated gender roles and take matters into our own hands. Look no further, because this week the girls dive into the many foolproof ways in which you can make the first move and finally land a date with the one you’ve had your eye on. And don’t worry, they didn’t leave you out fellas—listen for a comprehensive list of what NOT to do or say, if you actually want to increase the odds of getting them to take a chance on you. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/08/20•55m 16s
Just Another Turn-Off
Episode 9: You know that feeling when you’re really into someone, then they do something so small that completely changes your interest in them? Lo and behold, this week the girls discuss their biggest turn-offs when it comes to dating apps, hooking up, and relationships. From guys posting pictures with their exes on their Tinder profiles, to being older than 25 and still using Axe as a 'cologne', to being obsessed with your friends, the girls discuss all the very little (and very big) things their past flings have done to make them axe the relationship. Dear male listeners, you may want to pay close attention to this one, and take some notes. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/07/20•44m 45s
Just Another Hometown Hookup
Episode 8: As the girls finally head back to the City after a very, very, long tenure apart in their hometowns due to the pandemic, the girls reflect on how their sex lives changed while being home, and how it highlighted the big differences between hookup culture in high school or their hometown versus in college. They discuss everything from slut shaming, to changing standards, to how the kind of high-school you went to definitely dictated the kind of hoe you will be in college. Because hookup culture is so prevalent in our generation, especially in NYC, the girls dish out their best advice as to how to navigate it (the best that one can). Most importantly, they finally tackle the most important piece of advice they can give: never, (and they mean never), hook up with a “Vineyard Vines and Sperrys” type of boy. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/07/20•48m 24s
Just Another Girl Code Rule Book
Episode 7: This week, the girls get down to business and finally discuss the unwritten commandments every girl group is ruled by: girl code. From discussing the way you should behave around girls you don’t know, to being a home-wrecker, to the rules of Plan B, and ditching your friends in a bar, no topic goes untouched in this episode. Listen to find out the big DOs and DONTs of female friendships while hearing some hilarious anecdotal stories along the way. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/07/20•43m 36s
Just Another Big, Shiny Red Flag
Episode 6: In this week’s short (but not so sweet) episode, the girls of Crying In Public discuss what they’ve learned in their PHD studies on dating walking Red Flags (kidding!). The girls take their dating horror stories of the past and create a comprehensive list of warning sides that you should look out for in relationships or when talking to a new significant other. From telling whether or not they are emotionally unavailable, or if they're outright embarrassed of you, these are indications that you need to keep an eye out for toxic behaviors in order to protect you and your feelings. While we may be experts in identifying red flags, doing something about them is a whole other ball park. As we like to say: red IS our favorite color... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/cryinginpublic/support Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/07/20•24m 14s
Just Another Reason to Vote
Episode 5: Just in time for the Fourth of July, the girls dedicate this episode to explaining the hottest thing a potential significant other can do...vote. They go into detail about not only the importance of voting and becoming involved in political discourse, but also how attractive it is for your boo to care about what’s happening in the country too (whew!). They outline ways and resources to get involved, get educated, and get registered to vote in your respective city and state. Along with debating the divisiveness of politics today, they describe their personal annoyances with social media’s role in political discourse within our generation. Last but not least, they give advice for international students in the US as to how they can get involved in politics despite not being able to vote, and why they should. Remember: go register to vote, and then vote! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/07/20•32m 36s
Just Another Unrealistic NYC Expectation
Episode 4: In this week’s episode, the girls discuss their (unrealistic) expectations, versus the realities, when first moving to New York based off of what they saw in TV shows (we are looking at you Sex and The City and Gossip Girl), rom-com movies, and music. Like how is Dan Humphrey the “poor” character in Gossip Girl, but has a 2 million dollar loft in Williamsburg? Why aren’t these girls dating a hotel tycoon yet or regularly vacationing in the Hamptons? They discuss their favorite, and not-so-favorite, parts of NYC that make New York, New York in this rather complicated love letter to the City. From their favorite celebrity-run in stories, to their first time seeing rats, the girls of Crying in Public paint the bare picture of what it’s actually like to live in New York City in the 21st century. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/06/20•48m 51s
Just Another Ex
Episode 3: We all know that getting over an ex can be one of the most draining and difficult processes a girl can go through, but throw in Tinder, social media, Snapchat scores, and a quarantine, and you have the recipe for a perfect storm. Today the girls outline the five-step program they created to help you get over an old fling (or at least attempt to). Is this program full-proof? Are they really qualified to be giving advice on getting over exes? Absolutely not, but they're going to do it anyway. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/06/20•42m 58s
Just Another Guy You're Bound to Meet in NYC
Episode 2: In their favorite episode to date, the girls of Crying in Public set out to finally dispel the rumors that Hollywood has perpetuated for so long: finding love in New York City is NOT easy. However, despite this, there’s no place to date like the City. To help out, the girls outline four types of guys you are bound to meet in NYC (and especially at NYU). Through stories of their embarrassing encounters and cringe-worthy hookup stories, they devise their crash course on stereotypical NYC boys. But no need to worries ladies, we are not here to get your hopes up or create unattainable standards, because while there are many types of guys here, they’re all the absolute worst. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/06/20•37m 30s
Just Another Public Breakdown
Episode 1: Welcome to the inaugural episode of Crying In Public, the podcast that literally no one asked for. In this episode, the girls discuss how they met, how the idea of Crying In Public came to be, and the process of getting the podcast off of the ground. They then thought it would only be fitting to recount their favorite public breakdowns over the years that led to them actually crying in public. As the episode says: You aren’t a true New Yorker until you’ve found yourself crying on the street (it’s really a rite of passage). Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/06/20•31m 54s
Just Another Difficult (But Necessary) Conversation
As recent acts of police brutality, including the murder of George Floyd and Breonna Taylor, spark protests and movements nationwide, social media has become a breeding ground for new forms of activism by helping to spread information and create accountability. While this is a great first step, Crying In Public dedicates their inaugural episode to discuss ways in which we can educate one another, create constructive and difficult conversations with friends of different races, and enact change beyond our phone screens. As a racially diverse group of women, they discuss how their upbringings affected their respective views on racism and privilege, and what steps they are taking to actively better themselves in the wake of recent events. To take action or find ways to do your part, please check the resources available here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1AIj0xvLAlelj1p2zwazRNNwQFMkKSlum-sgI1bce8aY/mobilebasic Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/06/20•41m 44s