Write Your Story with Ally Fallon
We are all creating the stories of our lives each day. Sometimes it’s hard to believe in a happy ending when were in the middle of chaos – or to understand the transformation we are undergoing when we're being tested over and over again – but I believe we are all here to learn, grow, and discover more of who we are in this life and I want to help you do exactly that. Let’s uncover the meaning of our stories together. The stories we tell ourselves about our life matter – and only we have the power to edit, upgrade or re-write them altogether. Only we have the power to become the hero we want to be. Only we can change the narrative of the story we’re telling ourselves. If we’re sick of being the “girl who got dumped” or the “guy who lost his job” or the “villlan,” the “helper”, etc — what choice do we have? We get creative and we write a new story. As a bestselling author, I’ve learned the principals that make stories tick and I've taken many of my life stories and put them to paper. What I have learned is that stories have a lot to teach us about what matters in life; and that one of the most powerful things you can do to heal is to face your story head-on. To co-create the ending. To uncover the thread that holds the whole thing together. To become the hero you would want to see on the screen. I’ve taught many others how to do this and I want to share these insights with you, too. Everyone wants to make meaning of their story (me included) and it’s never too late. You can become a completely new person with a whole new story in just a few short years. So let’s go on this journey together. Come with me as we explore how to become our authentic selves and live our true stories. We’ll explore personal growth, self-help, psychology, spirituality, and so much more. It’s never too late to rewrite your story.
Episodes
AGENCY VS. CONTROL
Control is toxic to creativity. So what’s the alternative? Do we have to take what life hands us or do we get any say in the matter? In today’s episode I explore the concepts of agency and control and talk about the distinct differences between the two. This conversation is with an aspiring author and my new friend Meredith, who is a former CIA agent and expert on the idea of using your own personal agency to create a sense of safety, even in an environment that by all standards would be considered unsafe. If the world feels chaotic to you right now… If you struggle with anxiety… If you have a hard time feeling safe (even when you are actually safe)... If you have felt at times like you have to “take what life handed you”... If you’d like to experience the feeling of being settled inside your own skin… If you want more access to your power and intuition… Don’t miss this powerful episode. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/11/24•41m 24s
ARTIST OR PSYCHIC?
What is actually happening when you write / paint / sing / create? Are you simply dreaming up something in your brain and making it material? Or are you reaching beyond the mind to something harder to explain or understand? In this week’s episode of the Write Your Story podcast, I share a story that I’ve only told to about three people before today. And the reason I’m sharing the story is to demonstrate the power of a tool like writing—or really any creative practice. I’ve said a thousand times that writing is about more than just publishing but I don’t think I have accurately articulated what it actually is about. A few weeks ago, something happened that illuminated the “why” behind writing for me and I felt an urgent need to share it with you. What if your writing isn’t just about finishing a book or getting published? What if writing isn’t only about expressing your thoughts or feelings?What if writing is a way to get in touch with wisdom beyond yourself? Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/11/24•25m 57s
SPIRITUAL OVER MATERIAL
Hi there. I’m popping in your feed with a special bonus episode because I have some things on my heart I want to share. It’s been a big week in the USA with the election of Donald Trump for another term of presidency. No matter how you voted, this is a complicated and heavy time, so I wanted to talk about how we move forward from here. How do we keep going when the material world doesn’t align with the ideals, values and beliefs of our spiritual world? I share in the episode who I voted for and why — but this topic is so much bigger than a political candidate. Listen to hear why this benediction of sorts is for you, even if you’re celebrating Trump’s victory. I pray these next four years are rich with clarity, awakening, connection and truth. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/11/24•33m 59s
Why We’re Drawn to Dangerous, Narcissistic Leaders
In honor of election day, I want to take a break from our regularly scheduled programming and talk about why and how we get drawn in by powerful (and sometimes dangerous) narcissistic leaders. This is something I’ve been thinking about since leaving an abusive relationship many years ago and, as I discuss in the episode, this topic matters for far more than just politics. Our power and our communities and our creativity are also at stake. Regardless of who you vote / voted for, take a moment to ask yourself a few important questions: - Are you drawn in by powerful, overly confident leaders? - Are you constantly looking outside of yourself for solutions, direction and affirmation? - Do you question if you have personal power to affect your surroundings and circumstances? - Do you feel “backed against the wall” or “held under water” as if nothing you do matters? Perhaps consider how shifting your perspective could open you up to more collaborative relationships, more personal power and to a deeper creativity than you’ve ever known. The article I mention in the episode is linked HERE. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/11/24•37m 41s
ARTIST OR COACH?
We think we know what it means to “be creative” but do we really? Or have we been subtly indoctrinated by a culture that so worships productivity and achievement that we have missed what creativity actually is, what it means, and why it matters? In this season of the podcast, I’ll ask those questions and more. I’ll find some answers, I’m sure, and leave others to a mystery I may never fully understand. I hope you’ll come along with me for the ride. Two weeks ago, I lost my dad very suddenly to a heart attack (thank you for your grace as I skipped an episode). He was a therapist and an amazing man who taught me so much. This week, I want to share what I’m learning from him even after his death. Are you an artist or a coach? How can you feed your inner artist? Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/10/24•32m 19s
TO GET UNSTUCK, LET GO
We think we know what it means to “be creative” but do we really? Or have we been subtly indoctrinated by a culture that so worships productivity and achievement that we have missed what creativity actually is, what it means, and why it matters? In this season of the podcast, I’ll ask those questions and more. I’ll find some answers, I’m sure, and leave others to a mystery I may never fully understand. I hope you’ll come along with me for the ride. In this week’s episode, I share two different approaches for getting unstuck and the second one might surprise you. If you’re feeling in the “muck” or like you could use a breakthrough, don’t miss this episode. Also, here’s a link to the whole poem I share in this episode: Aristotle by Billy Collins Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/10/24•36m 43s
DISSOLUTION OF EVERYTHING
We think we know what it means to “be creative” but do we really? Or have we been subtly indoctrinated by a culture that so worships productivity and achievement that we have missed what creativity actually is, what it means, and why it matters? In this season of the podcast, I’ll ask those questions and more. I’ll find some answers, I’m sure, and leave others to a mystery I may never fully understand. I hope you’ll come along with me for the ride. In this week’s episode, I talk about what happens in the middle of the creative process when it looks like what you hoped to create, you may never create. Hopelessness. Despair. Existential dread. It’s quite the uplifting episode. But seriously. I hope you enjoy it and I hope it makes you feel just a little less crazy if you’ve found yourself losing hope. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/10/24•25m 27s
DON’T MISS THE MIRACLE
We think we know what it means to “be creative” but do we really? Or have we been subtly indoctrinated by a culture that so worships productivity and achievement that we have missed what creativity actually is, what it means, and why it matters? In this season of the podcast, I’ll ask those questions and more. I’ll find some answers, I’m sure, and leave others to a mystery I may never fully understand. I hope you’ll come along with me for the ride. In today’s episode, I am talking about what role “miracles” plays in our creative work (creative work meaning: building a family, starting a business, creating community, solving problems) and reframe the idea of what a miracle is and what role we play in welcoming the miracle. If you’ve ever found yourself waiting for something spectacular to happen and feeling like it’s out of your hands, you don’t want to miss this episode. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/10/24•35m 58s
KNOWING THE WHY > KNOWING THE HOW
We think we know what it means to “be creative” but do we really? Or have we been subtly indoctrinated by a culture that so worships productivity and achievement that we have missed what creativity actually is, what it means, and why it matters? In this season of the podcast, I’ll ask those questions and more. I’ll find some answers, I’m sure, and leave others to a mystery I may never fully understand. I hope you’ll come along with me for the ride. In today’s episode, I talk to my husband Matt about a creative project he’s been working on for four years that didn’t hasn’t gone the way he wanted. We talk about the bizarre mix of money and creativity, what failure has to teach us about success and how knowing your “why” trumps figuring out “how” to bring your vision to life. If you’ve ever failed at something that mattered to you — or if you haven’t even tried because you worried about failing — you don’t want to miss this episode. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/09/24•42m 40s
FOLLOWING YOUR IMPULSES
We think we know what it means to “be creative” but do we really? Or have we been subtly indoctrinated by a culture that so worships productivity and achievement that we have missed what creativity actually is, what it means, and why it matters? In this season of the podcast, I’ll ask those questions and more. I’ll find some answers, I’m sure, and leave others to a mystery I may never fully understand. I hope you’ll come along with me for the ride. In today’s episode, I explore what it looks like to follow your impulses and share why I’m learning this is an essential element of creativity. “But what if my impulses are selfish? What if they are born from ego? What if they lead you down a dark path?” I’ll explore these questions and more. Whatever you call them — impulses, intuition, or that still, small voice — hearing and responding to that subtle knowing is one important key to creativity. Join me as I share my own experience of hearing and following my impulses. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/09/24•42m 55s
THE BLANK PAGE
We think we know what it means to “be creative” but do we really? Or have we been subtly indoctrinated by a culture that so worships productivity and achievement that we have missed what creativity actually is, what it means, and why it matters? In this season of the podcast, I’ll ask those questions and more. I’ll find some answers, I’m sure, and leave others to a mystery I may never fully understand. I hope you’ll come along with me for the ride. In today’s episode, I unpack the symbolism of the “blank page” and how when we set out to make something, we start with nothing. If creativity is about making something from nothing, then how we view emptiness, silence, boredom and the heavy feeling of “nothing to say” matters. If you’ve ever wanted to create something — a business, a family, a community, a way of life — but had no idea where to start, this episode is for you. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/09/24•32m 41s
Letting Go of How You Wanted the Story To Go…
When the story you’re living in takes a turn you weren’t expecting, you have two options: accept the change and ride the wave, or fight the unfolding narrative at every turn. In this episode, I’ll share some ways I’m being asked to let go of the narrative I was trying to write and to step into a newer, more courageous version of myself. Listen to the end for a big announcement about what’s next for me and for this show! Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/09/24•38m 34s
Three Essential Ingredients of a Writer’s Life
Do you ever wish you felt more like a “real” writer? Do you find yourself getting stuck on writing projects and you aren’t sure why? Maybe one of these three essential ingredients is missing from your life. On today’s episode I share three ingredients that will make you a better writer but that don’t get much airtime in publishing or writing circles. I also share an important announcement about the show. Don’t miss this important episode! Have something you’d love for me to cover / someone you want me to interview? Email me at mystory@writeyourstory.com Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/07/24•40m 33s
Finding Clarity By Going Through Chaos
How do you know what your story is about? Mostly by wandering in circles around what it isn’t about. In this episode, I share more about a story I’m living in my life and show you my real-time process for digging out my controlling idea. Hint: I go through a huge lack of clarity before I find the one golden thread that holds it all together. The good news is that when you land on clarity in the story, you land on clarity in your spirit as well. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/07/24•35m 17s
Don’t Overcome Writer’s Block. Do This Instead.
If you’ve been writing for any amount of time, you’ve definitely encountered writer’s block. It’s a rite of passage and a ubiquitous experience for any writer. But have you considered that writer’s block might not be something you need to beat, overcome or even rise above? In this episode, I share my unique perspective on writer’s block and how it can give you access to more peace, abundance and joy in your life. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/07/24•16m 36s
Staying Inspired in Difficult Times
Is inspiration a luxury? A privilege? Do we have to go without inspiration in times of war or chaos or change? Or, is inspiration an absolutely vital part of life? In this episode, I share why I think inspiration is essential to human existence and talk about the simple things we can do to stay inspired. How do you stay inspired? I’d love to hear from you. Write your list of 10 ways to stay inspired and tag me on Instagram! Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/07/24•34m 20s
How Long Does It Take to Write a Book?
I’ve heard ads for courses that promise you can write a book in 30 days and I also meet authors who have been writing for 10 years. How long does it really take to write a book? In this episode, I give you the scoop and I’m certain the answer will surprise you. If you’ve always wanted to write a book, don’t put it off any longer. Write your book with me in 2024 and have a finished manuscript by Christmas! Click HERE for more info! Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/07/24•30m 48s
What I've Been Keeping From You
I have talked around, but never directly shared, a massive change that’s taken place for me in the past few years. In this episode I want to come clean. This is the whole truth, as clearly as I can share it right now. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/06/24•26m 44s
“Instagram vs Reality” In the Life of an Author
Before I became an author, I used to fantasize about sitting in a coffee shop, light streaming in through the window, fingers posed effortlessly at the keys, struck with inspiration, writing chapter after chapter. I thought endless about how it would feel to hit the NYT Bestsellers list and be respected by my peers. Now that I’m an author, I’ve discovered a whole different (and better and more miraculous and at times vaguely horrifying) reality. In today’s episode, I share more. Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/06/24•32m 36s
Asking Better Questions
Stories follow questions. A popular question that drives many stories goes, “what happens next?” But no matter what question you ask at the beginning of your story, the reader (and you) will follow that question all the way until it gets an answer (questions are powerful motivators—your brain literally won’t give up until it gets to the conclusion!) In this week’s episode I share a simple way to upgrade your story’s questions so that you can tell even more nourishing stories. I hope you enjoy! Kyle Cease: The Illusion of Money Host: Ally Fallon // @allyfallon // allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/06/24•35m 59s
Who Should (and shouldn’t) Write a Book?
The New York Times says that 85% of Americans believe they have a book in them. But should everyone who wants to write a book actually do it? And if not, who shouldn’t write a book? In today’s episode, I’ll share my personal take on this statistic and on who should (and shouldn’t) write a book. My answer may surprise you. A Book In 6 MonthsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/06/24•32m 3s
MOLLY STILLMAN: How to Show Up on the Page (Despite Your Critics)
Have you ever had someone you respect critique your writing in an unhelpful way? Maybe they told you were “bad with grammar” or that you should stick to writing some other genre than the one you were currently practicing. On today’s episode, I talk to author Molly Stillman about her debut book, If I Don’t Laugh, I’ll Cry and about how she learned to be fully herself on the page, despite what anybody else thinks. Audio Note: There are minor audio hiccups throughout, but this shouldn't stop you from enjoying this episode!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/05/24•38m 54s
CAIT WEST: Breaking Up With Christian Patriarchy
Cait West is the author of a brand new book called RIFT: A Memoir of breaking away from Christian Patriarchy. On today’s episode, we talk about what it was like to write such an important and personal story, how she escaped the chaos and control of her upbringing, and how she’s used writing to live a more embodied and empowered existence. You don’t want to miss this beautiful conversation with Cait West. Instagram: @caitwestwrites Click HERE to visit Cait's website! HOST: Ally Fallon / @allyfallon / Allisonfallon.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/05/24•37m 20s
When Your Story Ends In Tragedy…
We all hope our story has a happy ending. So what do we do when our story ends in tragedy? How do you write a hopeful story when you don’t get the outcome you were expecting? In this episode, I share with you a difficult set of circumstances I’ve been navigating, and how I have made peace with an “ending” I didn’t choose.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/05/24•26m 42s
The Cost of Clarity
We ask for clarity, we say we want clarity, but when clarity tries to come, we also resist it. One of the reasons that clarity seems to elude us is that clarity is incredibly expensive. In today's episode, I’ll talk about what clarity costs us. What would you have to let go of in your life in order to find the clarity you’ve been craving?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/05/24•22m 38s
How to Tell the Truth While “Staying Positive”
Do you sometimes feel the tension between telling the truth about what happened to you and staying “positive”? Or maybe you’ve given up on staying positive altogether since your story includes tragedy or despair. In this episode, I come at this question head-on. I share an experience from my childhood that I’ve never talked about publicly before and discuss how I personally have used a tool like writing to tell the story the true way, without letting it crush me. NOTE: This episode includes explicit language and also topics not suitable for children, specifically childhood sexual abuse. Keep this in mind if you are feeling too sensitive for that topic today or if you have little ears nearby. Pre-order Write Your Story and download your free resources HERE! Find Dr. Kim D’Eramo on Instagram: @drkimderamoSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/04/24•28m 27s
Rewriting Your Story in Real Time
In this episode, I share a highly practical real-life example of how I rewrote my story in real time. When I changed the way I was telling myself the story, I was able to reroute a travel experience from a frustrating and stressful one to one that was more peaceful and fun. I hope you find this story useful as you use the tools from my new book to shape your experience and rewrite your story. Pre-order Write Your Story and download your free resources HERE!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/04/24•43m 33s
JONATHAN MERRITT: Permission to Be Known
On today’s episode I talk with a dear friend and acclaimed writer Jonathan Merritt about the power of owning your story, about sharing your story even when it alienates you from your community and about his new beautiful children’s book called Me and My Guncle. If you’ve ever wondered what it might be like to share the FULL, REAL you with the world, you aren’t going to want to miss this powerful conversation. Please pre-order a copy of Jonathan’s new book Me and My Guncle wherever you buy books.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/04/24•42m 37s
Why “Thinking Positive” Isn’t Enough
When rewriting a story from your life, it can be tempting to skip over the parts that are challenging or uncomfortable. But rewriting a story isn’t about ignoring the truth. It’s about integrating the truth into a higher Truth. How do you access a higher, better truth when the details of your story are dark, heavy, uncomfortable or sad? In today’s episode I’ll share some tools that have been helpful for me as I navigate this transition in real-time in my own life. The Vortex by Esther and Abraham Hicks Money and The Law of Attraction by Esther and Abraham Hicks The Illusion of Money by Kyle CeaseSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/04/24•35m 13s
Telling the Same Story Again and Again…
Do you ever get the feeling like you’re telling the same story over and over again? The details may change (new boss, new partner, new hometown) but the cycle of the story stays the same. In today’s episode I talk about what to do when you seem to be stuck in the same frustrating story on repeat. I’ll share my own experience with finding myself in this rut and talk about how to move when you’re ready to finally make an edit. Don’t forget my new book Write Your Story is available for pre-order! Grab your copy and get your $1800 bonuses. Go to: writeyourstory.com/bookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/04/24•34m 42s
A Story I’ve Never Shared Before…
On this week’s episode of the Write Your Story podcast, I’m sharing a vulnerable story that I’ve never shared before. This is a story about leaving an important part of myself behind—how I realized she was gone, how I went back to find her, and how I am integrating her into my life now so I can live the fullest, most authentic, version of myself today. I hope this story brings you some solidarity and even inspiration to track down the lost parts of yourself you’ve lost. If you resonate, come tell me about it over on Instagram, @allyfallon Don’t forget to pre-order your copy of my book, Write Your Story, and get your $1800 bonuses. Click HERE!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/03/24•33m 58s
AMANDA REIGER GREEN: Using Intuitive Gifts to Understand Your Story
Do you ever have a hard time getting past the facts or details of your story to understand the deeper meaning of what took place? On this week’s episode I talk with psychic intuitive Amanda Reiger Green about how tools like numerology, astrology and even your own intuition can guide you to the deeper meaning that was always present in your story. For more on Amanda and her work, check out her podcast called Soul Sessions HERE. The Podcast Live in Austin, TX May 7th — LINK Soul Pathology Blog — LINKSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/03/24•1h 5m
I thought I’d Never Go Back Here (but I am… and with good reason)
There’s a story from my life that I don’t talk about much anymore. But on today’s episode I’m going there. And with a good reason. It’s the place where Write Your Story was born. Don’t forget to pre-order your copy and get your $1800 bonuses. Go to: writeyourstory.com/bookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/03/24•31m 58s
A BIG Announcement + Some Updates
On today’s episode, I’m sharing a BIG announcement about my latest book that comes out on May 7th. You don’t want to miss it (especially if you like free stuff). But the book is just one of three big things that are happening for me this week. Listen in and I’ll give you the dish on all three. For more info, go to: writeyourstory.com/bookSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/03/24•40m 33s
ELIZABETH BENNETT: What Story Is Your Body Telling?
You have a story you want to tell. But have you ever considered that maybe your body is telling another story entirely? Our bodies are constantly talking to us but we may not be that great at listening. In this interview, my friend and energy expert Elizabeth Bennett shares how we can become better listeners and students of our bodies so we can write and share the most true story possible. For more from Elizabeth or to book a session with her, you can find her website at aninvitationtowander.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/02/24•53m 7s
THAD COCKRELL: What Your Story Wants to Give You
Before your story ever inspires others, what if your story wants to inspire you? In this episode with my friend and recording artist Thad Cockrell we have a life-changing conversation about what makes art worthwhile; and the posture that all artists must take if we’re going to share something meaningful with the world. Thad shares his unconventional approach to selling his music and what it’s taught him about the value of his art. Listen to Thad’s song “What if” at the end of this episode and buy his latest album at ThadCockrell.com.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/02/24•1h
Speaking of Quitting…
On last week’s episode I talked about the power of quitting to completely change the way your story unfolds. This week I want to share something BIG I’m quitting as it relates to publishing—and that I believe you should quit, too. Hint: it won’t be what you expect.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/02/24•27m 47s
How To Know When To Quit Something
Quitting can be a superpower, in large part because the plot of the story moves when the hero of the story takes action. But how do you know when to quit something and when to stick it out? In this episode I explore the answer by sharing one thing I’m quitting and one thing I’m keeping around, in spite of (sometimes) wanting to quit.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/02/24•37m 54s
If You Want To Be A “Famous” Author, You Need To Know This
If you’ve ever fantasized about being a “famous” author (or famous in any other kind of way) what do you think that drive for fame is actually about? In this episode, I want to talk about the three basic human needs I think are actually at play when we have a desire for fame and how we can actually get those needs met. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/01/24•21m 13s
What’s Happening When It Feels Like Nothing Is Happening
Sometimes we go through seasons of life (and writing) where it feels like nothing is happening. Progress seems halted. Momentum feels paused. What if — when life feels like it’s happening in backward motion — more progress is taking place than you can sense or measure? That’s what I’m talking about in today's episode. The concept is called “Wintering” and I hope it brings you as much peace as it has for me.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/01/24•12m 6s
What You’re Really Doing When You Write Your Story
What if writing a book isn’t just about writing a book? What if it’s about connecting more deeply with yourself and with the world? In this last episode of 2023, I unpack what is really happening when you write your story—which is far more than you can quantify or even imagine. Come write your book with me in 2024: abookinsixmonths.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/12/23•28m 22s
WILLIAM PAUL YOUNG: “Who Will Read What I Write?”
If you’ve ever told yourself that writing a book would be futile because “nobody would ever read it” don’t miss this conversation with NYT Bestselling author William Paul Young. With no plans to publish, Paul wrote a story for his wife and six kids. 20+ million copies and a major motion picture later, he stands by who this book was for — which in his words was about 12 people. Connecting wide starts with connecting deep. Come write your book with me in 2024: abookinsixmonths.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/12/23•55m 16s
Are You Still A Christian?
One of the most common questions I get asked goes something like this: are you still a Christian? I’ve been avoiding answering this question for years but today on the podcast I’m diving in head first to share about the evolution of my faith. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/12/23•40m 2s
AMBER RAE: The Feelings Journal and How to Use Your Emotions For Growth
Do you ever have feelings that seem inconvenient or even overwhelming to you? Anger, sadness, fear, depression. What if you could use those feelings as a tool for your own growth by writing about them? That’s exactly what my guest today helps you do with a super practical tool she created out of her own story. Come learn about alchemizing your feelings with Amber Rae and check out the Feelings Journal HERE: https://www.amberrae.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/11/23•37m 44s
Coaching with Lindsley Brooks: How to Choose the Right Book Idea
Do you have more than one book idea and you’re not sure where to start? Tune in while I help my talented friend Lindsley choose between three book ideas that are knocking at her door!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/11/23•1h 20m
The Difference Between a Celebrity Memoir and Yours (a casual review of Britney Spears’ new memoir)
While everyone deserves to tell their own story in their own words, the experience might be slightly different if you’re a celebrity than if you’re not someone who is regularly on the cover of tabloids. In this episode, I’ll share why that is; and exactly what you need to do to make your story interesting. I’ll also speak candidly about what I loved (and didn’t love) about Britney Spears’ new memoir.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/11/23•24m 17s
How to Get Published and Become a Career Author
Have you ever wondered how someone gets a book published? Although every author’s path is unique, In this episode I’ll share my own publishing journey from start to present-day. If you’ve ever considered writing a book, I hope you find my story inspiring. No matter how developed (or underdeveloped) your book idea is, I hope you’ll join me for the free workshop I mention at the end of this episode. Sign up for the Writer’s Warmup HERE!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/11/23•42m 57s
ASHLEY ROBYN: What It Takes to Write (and publish) Your Story
If you feel like you don’t have enough time to write (or publish) a book, don’t miss this conversation with Ashley Robyn, author of Maybe We’re All Diamonds. She breaks down the process and shares what it really takes to publish a book—and all the unexpected gifts you get along the way. You can find a copy of Ashley’s book HERE!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31/10/23•38m 19s
COACHING with Mary Lees: What Is This Story About?
If you’re wondering what your story is really about (or even which story you are writing) this conversation is for you. How do you choose what details fit? How do you know where the story starts and finishes? How do you narrow in on what the story is truly about? Learn along with Mary as I coach her to write her story.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/10/23•55m 17s
RUTHIE LINDSEY: The Gift of Your Story
If you have been facing pain, chaos, deconstruction, loss or trauma in your life, this beautiful conversation with Ruthie Lindsey is an invitation to receive the gift that is your story. Consider how, like Ruthie, writing about the events of your life might help you see yourself and your story in a different way. ***Please note that this is an adult conversation with grown-up topics and language and not appropriate for little ears. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/10/23•51m 32s
Putting My Story Together (a real-life example)
In the final episode of the season, I walk you through my process for writing a story and share why it’s so important to look for patterns, repetition and the meaning you make of what takes place. I’ll see you back in a few weeks for next season. Until then, if you like what you hear, please subscribe, rate and review. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/09/23•23m 55s
The Story We Are Writing (A Surprise Interview w/ my Husband)
In this episode, I invite my husband onto the show to talk about the story we’ve been living and writing about for the past three years. Listen into the casual conversation between my husband and me where we use the concepts of narrative structure to understand the real events of our lives. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/09/23•53m 46s
BONUS: A conversation About Writing with Donald Miller
In this episode, I talk with the many-time New York Times Bestselling author Donald Miller. We talk about what makes a book a bestseller, why it’s such a powerful exercise to write your story, and the attitude that creates longevity in a writer. If you want to join me and Don at our final in-person Write Your Story workshop in Nashville, TN (Oct 20-21 2023), you can register at writeyourstory.com.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/09/23•48m 11s
Why Share Your Story
Sharing your story doesn’t need to mean publishing. It can mean sharing with a therapist or a spouse or a supportive friend. But sharing our stories is almost as important as writing them. And if you do want to publish, in this episode I’ll share a few things to keep in mind.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/09/23•15m 58s
How to Write Your Story
Now that you know the framework, it’s time to practice putting it all together. In this episode, I’ll share a few different strategies that make your writing process easier.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/08/23•15m 45s
The Reason I’m Telling You This Is… (The Moral)
All stories have morals. Even when the moral is not directly stated, every story is sending a message. The question is: what message do you want to send with your story? You might not get to control every detail of your story, but you do get to control the meaning you want your story to carry. After all, you are the narrator. Who better to decide what this all means? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/08/23•12m 55s
Finding the Resolution to Your Story (The All Is Lost Moment)
Your hero is rounding the corner on their journey, but a sinking feeling sets in – what if they doesn’t reach their resolution after all? We assume a story has ended in tragedy when in fact the story has not ended at all. We are sitting in our all is lost moment and we haven’t yet experienced or written the resolution. On this week’s episode, I talk about how to find the resolution to your story. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/08/23•17m 10s
What Happens In the Middle of a Story (Struggle and Relief)
Whatever your hero set out to achieve, the chances are good he or she didn’t achieve it in a single go (or it would be a very short story). The struggle and relief series is where you take your reader on the roller coaster ride of your hero’s transformation. How did your hero have to try and fail in order to get where he or she was going? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/08/23•11m 18s
Who Will Help the Hero? (The Guide)
If the hero hasn’t been able to change up until now, how will he or she manage to change now? This week I want to teach you about a very important character in your story who will help the hero shift her perspective, achieve her objective and change into the more evolved person she wants to be.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/08/23•11m 57s
The Magical Parallels of Storytelling and Life (The One Big Problem)
There are a handful of ways that story formulas don’t match up with life experience. Our stories don’t always tie up with a perfect resolution, for example. But when it comes to problems, life and storytelling have this in common: no shortage of obstacles in the way of getting to where we are trying to go. On this week’s episode, I unpack how we use this to our advantage. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/07/23•20m 9s
Where Does My Story Begin? (The Hero Who Wants Something)
A story is always built around a main character (we are going to call that character the hero) who wants something and goes on a journey to achieve that thing. In the process, the hero transforms into someone wholly new. In order to begin writing your story, you need to know: who is the hero of your story and what does he or she want?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/07/23•12m 38s
What If My Story Isn’t Interesting? (The Hook)
What makes a story interesting (or not very interesting) aren’t the details of the story itself; it is how the author chooses to share those details. A simple story can be riveting when it’s given the right structure; and on the contrary, even a salacious story can be boring when it doesn’t have a strong shape. In this episode, you’ll learn exactly what makes your story interesting so you can hook a reader from start to finish.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/07/23•18m 50s
What Makes a Story Interesting? (Thoughts on Spare by Prince Harry)
Did you know that Prince Harry’s new memoir Spare is one of the bestselling non-fiction books of all time? What makes a book like this so interesting? Is it just because it’s written by a Prince (and his ghostwriter)? In this episode I want to share what is so effective about the way this story is told, and where I think the techniques break down and open Prince Harry to controversy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/07/23•31m 21s
What Story Should I Write? (The Controlling Idea)
Before you can begin to write your story, you need to decide two things. First: what story from your life you’re going to write about. And second: what that story is truly about. You have infinite stories to write about but you have to start by choosing one. This episode will help you do just that.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/07/23•9m 28s
What is a Story? (The “Rules” of Storytelling)
In order to write your story you need to know that stories are incredibly formulaic. Life is not formulaic but storytelling is; and when you understand the rules that drive effective storytelling, you use those rules to your advantage. Suddenly you know how to make your story interesting to literally anyone — but most especially and importantly, to you!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/06/23•7m 50s
Why Write Your Story?
You may have an inkling you want to write your story but tell yourself you could never do that because you’re not a “real” writer. Or you may worry that your story wouldn’t be that interesting to anyone but you. Why write your story when you aren’t sure anyone will read it? There are a whole host of reasons — including some fascinating science on what writing does to the brain and body — and I’m covering them in this week’s episode.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/06/23•14m 48s
Introducing: Write Your Story with Ally Fallon
If you’ve always wanted to write your story but don’t know where to start, welcome to the Write Your Story podcast. Hosted by bestselling author and expert writing coach Ally Fallon, this show will take the best practices in writing, storytelling and publishing and apply it to literally anyone who wants to take a story from their life and turn it into a piece of art. Whether you’re an aspiring author or just an everyday person who has a story you know you need to tell, you deserve to tell your own story in your own words. This show will teach you how.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/06/23•4m 17s
