Love-ly
What happens when cultural traditions collide with the whirlwind of modern dating?
Welcome to Love-ly, the podcast where our host (@whatthemehak) explores the beautifully messy, deeply personal stories of love, identity, and connection.
From first and second-generation immigrants balancing family expectations to Gen Z navigating dating apps and “situationships,” Love-ly dives into the heart of what it means to love in today’s tech-driven world.
Every Friday, tune in for heartfelt conversations that remind us of one universal truth: no matter where you’re from or what your relationship status is, everyone has a lovely story worth telling.
Hosted by: Mehak @whatthemehak on TikTok
Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I
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Episodes
Love-ly Letters: Burn Bright, Fade Fast
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This week’s Love-ly episode is a real one—like, voice-memo-real.
When listener and freelance podcast producer Teja Pallikonda reached out with a recent dating story, we knew we had to share it. It starts like a modern fairytale: hours-long phone calls, a dreamy first date, and the kind of potential that gets you hopeful. But then… came the slow ghost.
Excuses. Cancellations. Confusion.
Teja brings receipts — literally. She plays us the actual breakup voice memo she sent this Hinge man (yes, he heard it, and now so will you), and unpacks what it taught her about communication, self-worth, and managing dating anxiety.
Our host, Mehak, offers her hot takes on why she never gives strangers the benefit of the doubt, and what it means to set standards in the age of soft boys and disappearing acts.
Romance, realness, and voice notes? Hit play.
Hosted by: Mehak @whatthemehak on TikTok and @whatthemehak_ on IG
Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak | Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin | Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan
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11/07/25•37m 15s
Confessions, Confidence & Cringe Dates: A No Filter Chat with Uzi
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This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with the unapologetically charming Uzi for a wildly entertaining, refreshingly honest conversation about dating in the age of ghosting, rejection, and situationships. From chasing strangers by the waterfront to getting called out mid-flirt for shady texts, Uzi shares his unfiltered takes on confidence, emotional availability, and why being a “nice guy” sometimes backfires.
They get into the real stuff: what women often misunderstand about men, how to approach someone in real life without being weird, and whether liking bikini pics while cuffed is ever okay. Plus, Uzi opens up about immigrant identity, therapy, fake-it-till-you-make-it confidence, and why he’s pressing pause on dating for now.
If you've ever felt nervous shooting your shot or wondered if you’re too much or not enough, this episode is your sign to go for it.
Hit play. Share with your group chat. Maybe even send it to your situationship!
Hosted by: Mehak @whatthemehak on TikTok and @whatthemehak_ on IG
Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin | Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan
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27/06/25•39m 20s
Snapchat Isn’t a Love Language (and 9 More Summer Truths)
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Ready to romanticize your single summer without the drama? In this solo episode, Mehak drops 10 must-hear reminders for anyone navigating love, loneliness, and Love Island obsessions. From dodging red flags in warm weather to why Snapchat is not a love language (seriously, stop), this is your emotional reset button. Whether you're solo or boo’d up, it’s time to pick peace, wear the bikini, eat the fries, and live your main character moment. Let’s make this the summer of you.
Hosted by: Mehak @whatthemehak on TikTok and @whatthemehak_ on IG
Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin | Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan
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20/06/25•25m 22s
Should I Stay or Should I Go? Love, Breakups & Emotional Truths with Laura Caruso
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Therapist and writer Laura Caruso joins our host Mehak for a raw, real-time conversation about heartbreak, emotional regulation, and the hard question we’ve all faced in relationships: “Should I stay or should I go?” Mehak and Laura unpack the fear of commitment, the empathy gap in modern love, and how to process breakups with clarity and compassion. Plus, a sneak peek into Laura’s upcoming book, “The Empathy Deficit”. Whether you're deep in the feels or thriving solo, this one will hit home.
Hosted by: Mehak @whatthemehak on TikTok and @whatthemehak_ on IG
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13/06/25•54m 12s
Infidelity, Red Flags, and Dating App Survival Guide
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This one has it all. Hot air balloons, missing luggage, toxic exes, hinge horror stories, and cheating scandals that broke the internet. This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with dating coach Genny Diehl to break down everything from early-stage dating mistakes to the viral!
Wizard Liz cheating drama. Why do people cheat? Can you really avoid getting cheated on? How do you set boundaries on dating apps without sounding "too much"? And how do you protect your peace in the era of love bombing?
Whether you're swiping, healing, or thriving solo, this episode is your cheat
code for navigating modern dating with confidence. Plus, Mehak spills the wild story of how she found out her ex was cheating (spoiler: it involves Crave passwords). If you've ever had a pit in your stomach before a date, this one's for you.
Tune in. Share with your besties. And always bet on yourself.
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06/06/25•50m 14s
Almost Relationships, Hinge Disasters, and Saying No Without Guilt
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On this episode of Love-ly, host Mehak sits down with TikTok creator and tech professional Jocelyn Chow for a refreshingly honest take on dating in NYC, from weird first dates and love bombing to why “almost relationships” can hurt more than real breakups. Jocelyn also opens up about growing up as the daughter of Burmese immigrants, unlearning people-pleasing, and how safety concerns often keep women from speaking up on dates. Together, Mehak and Jocelyn unpack how dating apps have changed, what to actually look for in a partner, and why third-wheeling your best friend might be the best relationship prep out there.
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Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin | Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan
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23/05/25•44m 50s
Love, Trauma, and Sex: The Conversations We Are Not Having
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In this deeply personal episode of Love-ly, host Mehak reconnects with licensed marriage and family therapist Samar Haroon, founder and clinical director of Therapy in Colour, a mental health collective centering on BIPOC and South Asian clients. The two first met as teenagers in Karachi, and now they sit down for their first real conversation, diving into topics such as therapy, bicultural identity, and generational trauma, as well as why dating today feels more complicated than ever.
Samar shares how her upbringing, moving between the U.S. and Pakistan after 9/11, growing up in a single-parent household, and later navigating hyper-religious family dynamics informs her work. She and Mehak unpack the cultural shame around therapy in South Asian communities, the impact of the Me Too movement on gender dynamics, and why so many smart, accomplished women are struggling with connection, intimacy, and dating today.
This episode is for anyone navigating love, healing, and identity across borders and expectations.
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16/05/25•48m 37s
Why Is Misogyny Still So Normal?
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This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with Srijan Makkena, a psych student and content creator who’s been speaking out about the quiet (and not-so-quiet) ways misogyny shows up, especially in South Asian communities. They talk about everything from family double standards and emotional repression to childhood trauma, healing, and what real love looks like when you’ve done the work. It's raw, real, and full of moments that might hit closer to home than expected.
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09/05/25•29m 35s
Do We Really Need to Live Together? A Relationship Hot Take You Didn't See Coming
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Can you have a healthy, long-term relationship without ever living together?
This week on Love-ly, Mehak sits down with her best friend, Waleed, for a
vulnerable, hilarious, and thought-provoking conversation that flips
traditional relationship norms on their head. From TD Bank interview
shenanigans to deep reflections on immigrant identity, generational trauma, and personal healing, this episode dives into why space might just be the secret to sustainability. Waleed shares his unconventional but heartfelt take on why separate homes could lead to stronger love. Mehak opens up about her evolving ideas on intimacy, safety, and dating after a lifetime of being told what not to do.
If you've ever questioned marriage, cohabitation, or what "doing it
right" even means in modern relationships—this one's for you.
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02/05/25•49m 52s
No Promposal, No Problem: Aidan Taylor on Dating Late & Owning It
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Is it ever too late to start dating? On this week’s episode of Love-ly, Mehak sits down with Aidan Taylor—host of Banterly—to unpack what it really means to be a “late bloomer” in the chaotic world of modern dating. From his first real date at 21 to navigating New York City’s intense queer dating scene, Aidan gets candid about identity, rejection, and learning to love yourself before anyone else does.
They talk about first dates, ghosting, gay bar drama (yes, including a bathroom incident), dating as a person of color in a hyper-curated app world, and what it's like to feel "behind" when everyone around you is getting engaged. It's funny, heartfelt, and full of the kind of real talk we all need more of.
If you're queer, single in your 20s, or just tired of dating timelines, this one's for you.
Hosted by: Mehak @whatthemehak on TikTok and @whatthemehak_ on IG
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25/04/25•56m 40s
Dr. Wendy Walsh on Coffee Dates, Chaos, and Choosing Better
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Ever dated someone and thought, “Wait… is this love, lust, or just emotionally expensive?” This week on Love-ly, host Mehak sits down with THE Dr. Wendy Walsh—America’s relationship expert, PhD in psychology, Time Magazine Person of the Year, and low-key TikTok therapist to unpack the mess and magic of modern dating.
From decoding avoidant attachment styles and calling out the myth of high-value men to understanding why "nice" guys might actually be the ultimate green flag, this episode is your crash course in dating with brains and boundaries. Oh, and yeah, Dr. Walsh proposed to her husband. On live radio. No big deal.
If you've ever wondered why your type is basically “walking red flag” or felt weird about liking someone who treats you well… this one’s for you. Hit play!
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18/04/25•49m 30s
Invisible Strings, Long Distance Flings & One Big Wedding in Spain
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What does it mean to truly live life on your own terms?
In this powerful episode of Love-ly, Mehak is joined by Natasha Chandel, comedian, TV writer, voice artist, and former host of the hit podcast “Kinda Dating,” for a candid conversation about commitment, cultural expectations, and rewriting the rules of love.
Natasha opens up about her journey from serially dating emotionally unavailable men to unexpectedly finding “the one” right before the COVID-19 lockdown. Through an honest conversation, they explore how immigrant identity shapes dating, why politics and values matter more than ever in relationships, and how self-worth plays a role in who we choose to love.
Whether you’re single, healing, or questioning your love life, this episode reminds you that it's okay to change your mind, and it's never too late to choose a life that actually feels like yours.
Hosted by: Mehak @whatthemehak on TikTok and @whatthemehak_ on IG
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11/04/25•47m 56s
Solo, Spicy, and So Real: My Unfiltered Take on Love-ly
In this heartfelt solo episode, Mehak takes the mic to reflect on her transformative journey through the first seven episodes of Love-ly. From navigating the highs and lows of her 2025 dating adventures to unpacking powerful lessons on boundaries, vulnerability, and healing, this is an unfiltered, introspective ride.
Mehak shares what each guest and story taught her about love, self-worth, and the art of letting go. Whether it’s the rule of three from matchmakers Huda and Yasmine, the quiet power of safe love with Justine Ang Fonte, or the emotional maturity of guests like Richard—this episode is packed with insights that hit home.
So whether you're walking, sipping coffee, or need a moment of connection, come along as Mehak opens up like never before.
Tune in for your weekly dose of vulnerability, laughter, and real talk. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and slide into the DMs on IG(@whattheheck_ or @immigrantlypods) to share your thoughts and future topic ideas!
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04/04/25•28m 52s
Manifesting a Rancher: Cross-Cultural Dating, Traditions & Non-Negotiables
This week on Love-ly, Mehak gets candid about dating outside the box and her culture. After calling off a budding long-distance romance, she reflects on the deeper reason: she's done settling for anything (or anyone) that doesn't align. Enter comedian Mariza Brussolo, who joins Mehak for an honest, hilarious, and profoundly relatable convo about cross-cultural dating, growing up with traditional values, and navigating love across borders—literal and emotional. From celibacy to cowboy fantasies (yes, she wants a rancher!), they unpack what it means to date with intention, how family and culture shape our "rules," and why finding a true gentleman in the age of dating apps is more complicated than ever.
Whether you're first-gen, cross-culturally curious, or just fed up with mediocre men and manicure-loving bros, this one's for you!
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28/03/25•46m 21s
I Took a Stranger On a Weekend Trip—Biggest Dating Fail Ever!
Have you ever been on a date that went so sideways that you wished there was a commercial break? In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of Lovely, host Mehak dives deep into love, relationships, and the dating trenches with comedian Richard Sarvate. From navigating family expectations to figuring out if we date people or their careers, Richard brings humor and insight into modern romance—plus shares some truly cringe-worthy dating disasters, including an ill-fated international trip.
Topics we cover:
How upbringing shapes our views on love
Why dating apps aren’t for everyone
When a romantic getaway turns into a survival challenge
The importance of humor in relationships
And why getting "the ick" might actually be your problem
Tune in for the laughs, the lessons, and the love!
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21/03/25•42m 43s
Mixed Signals, Male Friendships & Dating Shenanigans: Mehak Asks, Shareef Spills
Mehak is back with another Love-ly deep dive, and this time, we’re getting into the male mind, well, at least one of them! Actor, comedian, and self-proclaimed TikTok hopeful Shareef Taher joins the conversation to break down dating from a guy’s perspective. Why do some men come in strong and then vanish? Can men and women really be just friends? And what’s the deal with the “I’m bad at texting” excuse? Mehak asks hard-hitting questions, and Sharif does his best to keep up. It’s a fun, honest, and slightly chaotic episode you won’t want to miss!
Hosted by: Mehak @whatthemehak on TikTok
Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I
Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin |
Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan
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14/03/25•42m 31s
Under Lock & Key: Dating with Overprotective Parents
This week, our Love-ly host Mehak sits down with Genesis Sol, founder of the comedy variety show Witty Titties, to explore the impact of strict parenting, cultural identity, and growing up as a second-generation child of immigrants with a Venezuelan mother and Croatian father. Genesis shares hilarious and heartfelt stories of her mother’s overprotectiveness, how it shaped her social experiences, and the challenges and unexpected benefits of a conservative upbringing. They also dive into her experiences with her boyfriend’s daughters, her take on men’s social behaviors, and the deeper themes of immigrant family dynamics, gender biases, and the role of empathy in relationships.
Hosted by: Mehak
@whatthemehak on TikTok
Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin | Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan
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07/03/25•40m 2s
Dating In Your 20s Vs 30s: Lessons, Growth & Surprises
In this episode of Love-ly, host Mehak and her close friend Mikey explore the whirlwind of dating in the 20s versus 30s, where chaos meets clarity. They discuss personal growth, shifting priorities, and the journey from chasing red flags to embracing green ones.
Mikey opens up about coming out, navigating heartbreak, and the power of accountability in friendships, while Mehak shares her recent dating misadventures and hard-earned lessons. From self-validation to emotional maturity, they break down what really changes over the years and leave listeners with advice on building fulfilling and loving relationships.
Hosted by: Mehak
@whatthemehak on TikTok
Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin | Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan
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28/02/25•38m 40s
What We Weren’t Taught About Intimacy: Love, Boundaries & Letting Go
What does real intimacy look like? And how often do we mistake control for care? This week on Lovely, Mehak gets personal about love, entitlement, and learning to walk away from relationships that don’t feel safe. She shares her own experiences with intimacy—both the kind that left her questioning herself and the kind that finally made her feel seen.
Then, she sits down with sexuality educator Justine Ang Fonte, a leading voice in consent and boundaries, to unpack how cultural expectations shape our understanding of love. Together, they explore the immigrant lens on intimacy, dating while unlearning, and what it truly means to choose yourself.
If you've ever felt love was something you had to earn, this episode is for you.
Hosted by: Mehak
@whatthemehak on TikTok
Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin | Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan
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21/02/25•45m 29s
Love-ly Beginnings: Matchmaking & Modern Romance
Welcome to the very first episode of Love-ly, your new favorite podcast about the messy, funny, and painfully honest world of love and dating. Hosted by Mehak, a 30-something techie by day, aspiring TikTok star by night, and forever navigating the trenches of modern romance in downtown Toronto—this isn’t your typical advice podcast. Instead, it’s a mix of personal stories, hilarious mishaps, and heartwarming (or head-scratching) moments that’ll have you saying, “Wow, I feel so seen.”
Since it’s Valentine’s Day, we’re kicking things off with matchmaking, featuring two incredible guests: Hoda Abrahim, founder of Love, Inshallah, and Yasmin Elhady, lawyer and comedian. They are both the stars of Hulu’s Muslim Matchmaker. These modern-day fairy godmothers share their insights, personal dating stories, and what makes Muslim matchmaking different from the Sima Aunty school of "compromise, beta.”
Plus, Mehak spills the tea on her own matchmaking “success” story from Brat Summer blind dates to spotting red flags faster than a Taylor Swift lyric drop. Will this episode inspire her mom to stop texting her rishtas?
Probably not, but it’s worth a shot.
Tune in for laughs, lessons, and maybe a little love because on Love-ly, the journey is just as important as the destination.
Don’t forget to check out Muslim Matchmaker on Hulu, dropping February 11th!
Hosted by: Mehak
Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin | Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan
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14/02/25•48m 51s
Introducing Love-ly
Welcome to Love-ly! Hosted by Mehak, this isn't your typical advice show—no perfect love stories or sugar-coated romance here. Instead, Mehak takes you on a hilarious, brutally honest, and sometimes painfully awkward journey through the highs, lows, and "what was I even thinking?" moments of modern dating.
From dodging her mom's "When are you getting married?" interrogation to unpacking the chaos of dating apps, Mehak spills it all. And she's not alone—each week, she's joined by dating experts, friends, and guests who bring their own wild love stories to the mix.
So whether you're prepping for a date, nursing a heartbreak, or just avoiding your to-do list, Love-ly is your perfect companion. New episodes drop every Friday—tune in wherever you get your podcasts!
Hosted by: Mahek
Producer: Saadia Khan and Shei Yu | Content Writers: Mehak I Editorial Review: Saadia Khan I Sound Designer & Editor: Lou Raskin I Love-ly Theme Music: Lou Raskin | Other Music: Epidemic Sound | Cover art design: Josephine Chai | Executive Producer: Saadia Khan
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07/02/25•1m 3s