How To Deal With Trolls & Haters And Get Advantage From Them

As you gain more success, you gain more traction on social media. It won’t all be believers and followers, sometimes, there will be a handful of trolls and haters that you need to deal with.

So today on The Speed Mentor Podcast, Gavan shares the 13 rules you need to follow when engaging in your social media. Most of the time, these haters, trolls, and gas lighters provoke you and your other followers deliberately to get strong, negative reactions. When you encounter them, take a deep breath and think twice before responding. There’s much you can do to turn things the other way around without you stooping down to their level. Start discovering how you can deal with them in so many ways when you tune in.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

13 Rules when engaging in your social media:

Do not ever post negatively on other people’s timelines. Keep it in a positive light if you’re sharing your thoughts and feedback. It’s not usually about you; it’s usually about them. Most of the time, when some are feeling a bit pessimistic about themselves, they tend to lash out on other people. If you’re getting at least 93% great feedback, you don’t need to worry about the other comments. Select what social media platform you’re on. Gavan suggests you choose LinkedIn since it has a more ‘civilised’ atmosphere. Learn to separate constructive criticism and trolling. Also, beware of people who gaslight. If you’re receiving too much abuse, Gavan advises that you wear that abuse like a badge of honour. Make use of the ‘unfollow’ and the ‘block’ options. Cut off the toxicity. Let some negative stuff into your timeline. You need some of these to learn from so you can grow. Review their timelines to gauge the credibility of their comments. Unmask the trolls. Correct factual mistakes. Thank them for their comments. Ignore them.

BEST MOMENTS

“Always keep your comment online positively.” “Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse where the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to trick the victim into distrusting his own memory and perception.” “There’s a lovely serenity when order is restored for your universe when the negativity is gone.” “No matter how negative they are, say something nice back.”

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ABOUT THE HOST

Welcome to the Speed Mentor Podcast.

Do you want success and abundance in your life?!

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After walking away, a decade ago from his gilded life as a leading Barrister and property investor, Gavan Wall started his entrepreneurial career in inauspicious circumstances as he lost everything in the property crash.

But he refused to give up, re-building a financial fortress from scratch, until now he leads multiple successful multi-million £ companies across FMCG, Franchise, Tech, Property and Mentoring.

He’s the Speed Mentor and serial entrepreneur, who shares with you all the breadcrumbs of success and just as importantly the failures. If you listen, you can avoid the potholes and learn to conquer your fear and live a life of success and abundance just like him.

But be warned, his message can be stark and will not be for those seeking shortcuts. If you’re wanting to be told that the law of attraction will deliver success wrapped in a bow to your front door, then this Podcast isn’t for you, as that’s never going to happen! It’s time to own your own sh#t, never blame others and take the massive action to create the attraction.

The opportunities and whitespace are everywhere. Gavan will help you get outside your comfort zone, connect with others, shed the scarcity mindset, set gorilla goals and achieve so much more.

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