Motherhood, Michelle and Phoebe Robinson

We’re with no ordinary B and Michelle Obama’s BFF, Phoebe Robinson. She teaches us how to beat the gatekeepers, why she’s done schooling us on sexual harassment and why it’s nobody’s business that she’s dating outside her race. Plus, what are we willing to give up for children?

Send us your FAQs to NoCountryForYoungWomen@bbc.co.uk