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Who deserves to be a parent?

Our culture loves to celebrate adoption stories - and a lot of state governments put millions into promoting it. But adoptees and birth parents are opening up online about "coming out of the fog" - a term for becoming more openly critical of adoption, or facing the grief within their adoption stories. November is National Adoption Month, and Brittany Luse takes a closer look at how adoption functions in our culture by examining the supply side of adoption - the birth parents. She's joined by <a href="https://www.gretchensisson.com/">Gretchen Sisson</a>, the author of <a href="https://www.relinquishedbook.com/">Relinquished: the Politics of Adoption and the Privilege of American Motherhood</a>. They dive deep into the stories told about birth parents, and how our culture decides who deserves to be a parent. Learn more about sponsor message choices: <a href="https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices">podcastchoices.com/adchoices</a> <a href="https://www.npr.org/about-npr/179878450/privacy-policy">NPR Privacy Policy</a>

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